Doormats of the world...
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Posted:Sep 20, 2015 1:07 am
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Doormats of the world unite! What is a doormat. An object right in front of your door so people/guest can wipe their shoes before stepping inside your home. Okay, this is in association of a doormat and a lady. In every relationship when it's not healthy. One or the other be it female or male. Takes advantage of the other one. Even if they do things for each other equally or not so fairly. My friend once refered this to me and now another also stated, "just because he fixes your car for you doesn't make u a doormat". Now, it dawned on me. Of course we don't count every single things we do for others because we do it out of the goodness and kindness we have. But, when do u draw the line. When it's ovbious that's getting out of hand. Now, the forgiveness factor. You do count when enough is enough, right. The 3 strike rule your out. Thanks to the 80's for the drug issue. Very conflicting though in the bible, when someone slaps u in the face. Should turn the other cheek so it can be slapped??? Like 77 times? Or would you just hell i'm gonna slap this person silly for doing this. Revenge, hahahaha!!! Sweet.
No, if you were a normal person with a heart of gold yeah why not forgive but never forget. Like say for instance the dude keeps two timing. Then does it again and again. Are u gonna be a doormat? And forgive. Or have that short fuse like Lorena Bobbit of the 80's or 90's just cut that off man! You know what i mean ladies. It was in the news and a headliner too. Too bad with all that operation putting every nerve didn't pan out well. Saw the movie not much of action going on. LOL
Peace to all and have a wonderful sunday everyone!!!
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Iphone's natural death...
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Posted:Sep 12, 2015 10:40 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2015 8:18 am 121430 Views
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It's been a long time had this phone. Just recently the battery life is shorter and shorter. Constantly charging. In the beginning had a blast taking tons of picture for every meaningful events. Graduations, Weddings, births of grandbabies, etc. At the verge of really getting tired of charging. That's where this post had to be written. Iphone's natural death, Shall i just ignore and not charge it all. Or go and charge it. Because it was charge this morning. And then some. Now, fully dead. Thinking of charging once more. It sounds absolutely crazy. If it was a human being go ahead and revive it. This is an object. That became my sole purpose of every day. Wake up hi iphone, in betweens play solitaire. Alarm clock. Texting with my idol. Facebook greetings and reading new threads and post. Smart phones because one can do emails, pay bills, google and map it. Really amazing! That's why millions can't function well without them. Before it was my laptop to keep up with current events now that's old news. My iphone is my connection to every detailed events.
Wishing for my new one to come...
Happy weekend blogland
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Looking back in time...
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Posted:Sep 10, 2015 5:41 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2015 4:06 am 119139 Views
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Pondering just now how life would be so different if choosing right the first time. As a your mind has no clue of tomorrow. Free spirit doing whatever is fun and exciting. Then you graduate from high school. Wanting to be every thing you can possibly become. Yet, something always stop you? Always starting but nothing comes to fruition. Never finishing college. Always begining but no end in site. So, you get married for all the wrong reason. You think you found the one and love is glorious. You're invincible and can conquor anything with love. But, the real world even when the two of you vowed to God for "til death do us part, in sickness and in health, etc". When the real problem comes not enough money, for bills and what have you. Fights ensues. The other find comfort somewhere else. Then the divorce happens. are torn apart and suffers the most. What hurst most is the blaming game! If you did this and why??? The real deal is both gave up. Because the verbal abuse along with the mental then the finishing touch of physical was much too much to handle. You parted ways. Same thing as going thru jobs it's a relationship ship going from one job to the next or being laid off. All dealing with how much you can handle. Without persistent and hardwork you're never gonna stick to anything. All the prayer in the world is not gonna help. God is good though. He never lets us down. He is like our father. Watching us how we going to live up to it...
Happy thursday everyone enjoy...
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You can't please all of the people...
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Posted:Aug 25, 2015 10:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2015 4:07 am 122625 Views
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First day back to work after a short vacation of only 2 1/2 weeks. Dreding the traffic going there from Hayward to San Jose is a killer. Always there is an accident every day in between that span. Anyways, Pissed off someone by sending them these forwarded emails. Lost one cool friend. Sorry for the click! Then one of those Ziggy wanna be old male yelling at me. If i can just stick the middle finger back at them to say ur not cool at all and shut up. If u have to choose the safety old folks or ???
But, my days got cooler shopping at Walmart wow so many cheap things!!! One white looking trailer trash lady so uncool went in the back left her cart was saying to this pinay lady, "why are they hiring someone that can't speak english??? I was at the kiosk appying there. I so wanted to slap her silly. I felt bad for the lady. Some people just have no class at all. Just because they live here in america they speak english. Wow, so small minded!!! Got to Costco to get gas, wow so many peeps wanting gas from the entrance to the mouth of gas station. Ridiculous!!! I thought this was lost just now computer playing tricks on me here. Thank God.
That's were this title comes from very rude and arrogant people randomly unkind...
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Chaplet...
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Posted:Feb 16, 2015 7:43 am
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2015 4:49 pm 122214 Views
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Just started my journey novena this morning Chaplet of Mercy! When I'm so weary at all the stress going on in my life. I take out my rosary and start praying. Because I believe God will eventually answer if it's in will and for the good. It's hard to memorize all the prayers so go along with the books and pamphlets. Not a religious person. But, when I need peace to face the many problems for instance: loss of job, deaths, bankruptsy, and bills galore. I turn to God. The truth the way, and life. To HIM nothing is impossible but possible. Jesus is the miracle.
When my mom was in the hospital for 37 days and the doctor finally kicked her out already. Each time took out the rosary and prayed the chaplet. Given to sister Faustina to le everyone know how grievous your sins maybe at the last hour of your death Jesus will stand in front of God the father for you...
This Wednesday is Ash Wednesday. This church I'm going to needs old palm from last year. They burn those and use it for ashes on Ash Wednesday.
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Weary Heart...
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Posted:Feb 10, 2015 1:26 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2015 5:26 am 123640 Views
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I came accross this cross on my FB thread wanting to buy it. The caption. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me". So many times in life we stumble time and time again because we fall in love with the wrong person. See I've even prayed one night for God to bring me someone. Crazy as it sounds. The one person I tried to avoid kept pursuing. Believed he was God sent. Only to find out he had all these others string of girls. Anyways, I looked at this cross. Inspiring me those times my heart became weary and wanted to fall flat on my face already! This little voice saying "let it be...". Brush off all that dust and stand back up again. Valentines always brings haunting memories of two young bright eyes jumping into marriage without any preparation of the unexpected day to face divorce. Life experience in this journey will teach u that. Read all about menopause here. Very thankful I'm one of the oldies and happy about it.
Wishing everyone a wonderful Valentines Day! Enjoy being with someone or alone. Never forget in those silly times u think your alone. God is there...
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YOLO...
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Posted:Feb 6, 2015 9:52 pm
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2015 1:35 pm 122638 Views
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Just came home from a viewing. He was only 32yrs old and died of a heart attack.
YOLO is a meaning "you only live once". So make the most of it. Enjoy and be thankful. Because we don't really know how long one lives in this world. As I look at him from afar. Question run through my mind, "did he truly enjoyed in this short amount if time?" Was he happy? What caused him to have a heart attack?
Everyone cherish the moments...sad.
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Lost Cause...
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Posted:Jun 10, 2014 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2015 9:34 pm 122763 Views
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When you reach that saturation point that it becomes a lost cause. Why try at all??? You try to please them and yet not appreciate.
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What makes u happy...
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Posted:May 8, 2014 12:58 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2014 11:50 am 123690 Views
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The big question of the day for me! Well everyone has their own different ways that makes them happy. Love of people, love of material stuff, and so on. Gaining of something and getting then after you feel it really didn't make u happy. It was only short lived. I believe that in order for one to be happy they must find that one passion...
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Rolling and reaching...
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Posted:Apr 2, 2014 9:17 am
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2015 5:45 am 122662 Views
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I'm watching my bebe granddaughter thru my cell phone. Every day watching the latest pics and vids. She's 7 months old now. Able to chew an orange slice and roll around reaching for her favorite cookie. She scared her mom the first time almost choked. Now they know better to slightly wet the little cookies. Flavored banana. The most amazing thing a grandma or as i would like to be called "mamita"! Is seeing my precious grow up so fast. That's the miracle of life how a tiny seed, baby, or animals. Grow into something amazing...
Everyone have a great lent season...
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