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An Advice.. I have a friend who's been trying to win the position of becoming an editor-in-chief of a certain newspaper but apparently wasn't chosen to be one, it is more dismaying on her part after learning that the one chosen is her long time rivalry.. and she's envious of that person now. She then came to me for an advice. I told her that " Failure is a blessing in disguise, it is the slightest guide for an opportunity" Failure does not mean that you do not deserve to win something that you've been wanting to win over of. Failure, means taking yourself to another stage of a more challenging and harder life, if you fail today, it does not end there. There is always chances for each failure and it is something that you should never let you down. I asked her " Why do you want to be an editor-in-chief?" and she answered me this way : " Because, I know I can write well, I am imaginative, I know how to contruct words...etc etc.." and so I said : "You do something not because your'e good at it. You do it because your heart is at it" You shall never let the reason behind wanting everything is just because you know you are capable of it. You should know and find out from yourself if it is something that you love to do, that you love doing... there's gotta be Passion in everything that you desire, that you do, that you are doing. It is just a matter of taking things positively. Being Envious on the hand : Remember this : It does not help if your'e keeping resentment to other people. It will something that will hinder you from succeeding, from going on top. The more envious you are, the more your'e keeping your self-esteem low. The best thing to do with this person is : adopt from her, learn from your enemy. Adopting her knowledge is to finding out what made her on top? Learn from your battlefield.. instead of battling inside. If you do, you'll never learn anything. No human, will be on top because they are envious. People who are on top are those who knows how to accept humiliation and it will let humiliation serves are thier inspiration, who knows how to accept the fact, and learn from those circumstances that is putting them down. Success does not come from talents, it should be grown and taken care of insideyour heart. and if you keep failing..."just focus on only one frame of mind : remember" Remember how you want? remember why you want? remember when you want? It's just a pattern on taking the edge over the earth. |
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6/7/2005 6:12 am |
nice article may,thanks for sharing it ,take care 
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Thank you myonlyhope4...expect me to share some more...
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Hello Rob... go ahead and take your time digesting the words... and btw.. I read your mail. Thank you.
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Jen... sweetie... I told her your advice and she said thank you...
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Thank's Flip...
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