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drunken_angel 38F
455 posts
12/31/2005 8:47 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:28 pm

Beware!


it's a bloghopping day today.. this was actually requested to repost...

A lot has been said about how to prevent .

Women should learn self-defense. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't wear short skirts. Women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. fuck, they shouldn't dare to get drunk at all.

Instead of that bullshit, how about:

If a woman is drunk, don't her.
If a woman is walking alone at night, don't her.
If a women is drugged and unconscious, don't her.
If a woman is wearing a short skirt, don't her.
If a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don't her.
If a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you're still hung up on, don't her.
If a woman is asleep in her bed, don't her.
If a woman is asleep in your bed, don't her.
If a woman is doing her laundry, don't her.
If a woman is in a coma, don't her.
If a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don't her.
If a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don't her.

If a woman is not yet a woman, but a , don't her.
If your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don't her.
If your step- is watching tv, don't her.
If you break into a house and find a woman there, don't her.
If your friend thinks it's okay to someone, tell him it's not, and that he's not your friend.

If your "friend" tells you he someone, report him to the police.
If your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there's an unconscious woman upstairs and It's your turn, don't her, call the police and tell the guy he's a .

Tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, sons of friends it's not okay to someone.

Don't tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid .
Don't imply that she could have avoided it if she'd only done/not done x.
Don't imply that it's in any way her fault.
Don't let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he "got some" with the drunk girl.
Don't perpetuate a culture that tells you that you have no control over or responsibility for your actions. You can, too, help yourself.

If you agree, repost it. Email it to your friends and family. It's that important.

KYLAN1963 61M
890 posts
1/1/2006 6:18 pm

I agree seen a lot of bullshit by so called 'family men' in East Timor. Indonesian Troops defenceless women and girls even then going home as loving dadas and boyfriends,total crap! My cousin was tortured and when tired of her murdered her-Maria Gorette Joachim. So you are right no excuses,just don't do it in the first place! Poor girls get ostracised for being 'too easy' or they are no longer virgins. Not their fault though May. The guys did it,but women seem to be laid the blame.


drunken_angel 38F
430 posts
1/2/2006 12:53 am

    Quoting KYLAN1963:
    I agree seen a lot of bullshit by so called 'family men' in East Timor. Indonesian Troops defenceless women and girls even then going home as loving dadas and boyfriends,total crap! My cousin was tortured and when tired of her murdered her-Maria Gorette Joachim. So you are right no excuses,just don't do it in the first place! Poor girls get ostracised for being 'too easy' or they are no longer virgins. Not their fault though May. The guys did it,but women seem to be laid the blame.
yes you're correct Phil dear, but whoever fault was it, doesn't matter let's just give spaces for two left genders.