girls..listen to this, i'm sure na makakarelate kayo...
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Posted:Feb 9, 2006 9:46 pm
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2009 8:43 pm 1993 Views
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Bakit kaya minsan ang sarap magmahal kahit walang kapalit??? naisip mo na ba iyon? kala mo okey lang... pero sobrang hirap...
Masarap magmahal hindi ba? Kahit ikaw, hindi ka sigurado sa pag-ibig ng taong mahal na mahal mo... Minsan iniisip mo nalang na pagdating ng tamang panahon magiging maayos din ang lahat... Sana nga!!! Nang hindi ka naman mukhang tanga na umaasa sa wala...
Minsan din ang sarap sarap isipin na minamahal ka ng taong mahal mo!!! yung tipong kayo na lang sana at hindi ang babaeng nakikita mong kasama nya na masaya at akala ang buong mundo ay kanilang kanila...
Minsan din ang sarap bumalik sa nakaraan... yung tipong masaya pa kayo, parang mga batang walang problema... kung meron man parang, against all odds ang settings... pero may nakabitin pa ring tanong... ano kayang nangyari??? pero ang kadalasang kasagutan eh;
1. kasi di pala kami para sa isat-isa; 2. Nagkamali ako sa kanya; 3. iniwan lang nya ko; 4. may iba na syang mahal; 5. niloko lang nya ko; 6. Di ako gusto ng parents nya; 7. ayoko na puro nalang kami away; 8. masyado nya kong sinasaktan; 9. nagsawa na sya sakin;
pero ito pinaka masakit;.
10.hindi pala nya talaga ako mahal (parang panakip butas)
Grabe hindi ba??? Pero kailan kaya natin maririnig na nagpapasalamat ang isang umiibig sa taong nakasakit at sinaktan sya??? minsan naisip din kaya natin na kung ano ang kahalagahan ng isang bagay??? Yung kailangang bigyan ng halaga habang nandyan pa! Minsan kasi, saka lang natin nalalaman ang isang kahalagahan ng isang bagay pag wala na ito sa atin!!!
kaya minsan din isipin natin yung mga sinasabi, kinikilos, ginagawa natin kasi hindi lahat ng tao kayang tanggapin kung ano at paano natin ginagawa ang isang bagay!!! subukan nating magpasalamat sa kabila ng lahat...
A. kung sinaktan ka nya... magpasalamat ka dahil sya ang dahilan para tumibay ka;
B. kung niloko ka nya... patawarin mo at pasalamatan mo... dahil kung hindi sa kanya hindi mo mararamdam ang sakit na pwede ding maramdaman ng iba... at least hindi mo gagawain sa iba;
C. kung hindi ka nya minahal... pasalamatan mo!!! dahil at least kahit papano na-feel mo na minahal ka nya kahit hindi, pasalamat sya dahil ikaw minahal mo sya ng buong buo;
minsan kailangan lang natin harapin kung ano man ang nakasakit sa atin... piliting kalimutan... piliting harapin kung ano ang noon... noon lang yun... iba ang ngayon!!! dahil kung nasaktan ka man noon, ngayon mag-iingat ka na at alam mo na kung ano dapat at hindi para hindi masaktan.
mahalin mo ang mga taong nakasakit sayo dahil sila ang dahilan para maging matibay ka!!!! para sa susunod di kana basta-basta padalos-dalos. pasalamatan mo ang taong nakasakit sayo...
sino ba ang mas mahalaga, ang taong mahal mo o ang taong gusto mong mahalin???
ang taong kasama mo buong araw o ang taong iniicip mo bago matapos ang araw???
siya bang kasa-kasama mo sa lahat ng ginagawa mo o siyang dahilan ng lahat ng galaw at ginagawa mo???
sino ba ang mas mahalaga... yung taong nais mong makasama habang buhay o yung taong hindi mo makita ang habang buhay kapag wala siya?
Sino ang mas matimbang... yung taong pag kasama mo'y parang kay bilis ng oras o yung taong tuwing iniicp mo'y parang kay bagal ng oras?
ano ang susundin mo... ang dinidikta mo sa puso mo o ang dinidikta ng puso mo syo?
sya ba un laging pumapasok sa isip mo o siya yung laging laman ng panaginip mo?
Sino nga ba... ang taong nagpaluha syo, o ang taong nagpunas sa minsang pagluha mo?
Sino sa kanila... ang taong nagpapatawa syo o ang taong dahilan ng lahat ng iyong emosyon?
Sino nga bang pipiliin mo???
ANG TAONG MULING NAGBUKAS NG PUSO MO...
O ANG TAONG MATAGAL NG NANDOON???
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Finding The Right Person...
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Posted:Feb 9, 2006 1:42 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 1632 Views
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Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong... it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there... you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person" for you... and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for you."
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings(stop playing mga tol!), to know who you really are,and what you really want in a relationship.You're right, there's no such thing as a perfectrelationship,but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made.(4short..mhirap ipilit!!!)
If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell for the rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention (love urself also..ksi no1 will take care of it truthfully cept you....). Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.(dont listen to others...listen to the beat of ur hart and the lyrics of ur mind..)
We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, its just that we're too much dependent to them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave, no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its just insecurity.(kaya..u better analyze things pare..be sure!!! tanda na tau..)
(agree ako d2...) But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy or beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it can also make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy (so in short, be satisfied of what u are ryt know, just be patient....)
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destiny daw!!!
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Posted:Feb 9, 2006 1:32 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2014 6:24 pm 1710 Views
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bka nga destiny kita... kc diba childhood friends tau... tapos 1st year college na nating nalaman na mahal pla natin isa't-isa...
bka nga destiny kita... kc kaw ung first love ko... kaw ung first boyfriend ko... sau ko na feel ung first kilig moments ng buhay ko....
bka nga destiny kita... kc tignan mo naghiwalay tau 3 years ago... pro bestfriends parin tau ngaun... parang walang nangyari... parang di muko pinaiyak...
bka nga destiny kita... kc after mo, nka 15 na ata akong syota... pero narealize ko, kaw parin pala love neto... hayyyyy...
ang destiny daw... kahit ilang taon kau naghiwalay... ilang ulit man kaung pinaghihiwalay... ilang tao man makilala nyo... ilang labi man mahalikan nyo... ilang katawan man ang nayakap nyo... ilang i love you at i love you too man ang nasabi nyo... ilang perfect person man ang dumating at lumisan... babalik at babalik parin daw kau dun... dun sa oras na parang first time nyong magkita... yung slow motion pa... ung tipong madaming petal of roses na nahuhulog mula sa langit... ung parang kumakanta ang mga anghel... ung parang patay na kau? HINDI AH!!! bsta, ganun daw ung destiny... ilang sibat man ang dumating, maiilagan daw... kc nga pagtatagpuhin parin kayo ng tadhana eh...
feeling ko nga destiny kita... kc FeeL na FeeL kong ikaw maging daddy ng mga baby ko... F na F kong maging bestfriend ka ng buhay ko... F na F kong tumawa...umiyak... F na F kong mabuhay ksama mo... pati kamatayn F ko parin para lang sayo...
bka nga ikaw destiny ko... kc ngaun ko lang naramdaman ito... ung prang bumabalik lhat pag ikaw ksama ko... ung tipong wala akong pakialam kung bestfriend lang turing mo sa isang ex na tulad ko... kung special ako sa buhay mo... pro hindi kasing intimate ng turing mo sa kanya... kay M...
feeling ko ikaw na ang destiny ko... pro feeling mo si M ang destiny mo... anong gagawin natin? eh si M iba ang gustong destiny...
sana bestfriend, mamulat ka na... ako ang and2... wala na si M... si M...may iba na.. 3 years ng committed.. bestfriend... feeling mo ba hindi ako ang destiny mo?
pano pag feeling ko ikaw na?
antayin nlang natin yung slow motion moment na un... ung after 10 years... malay mo, maging kayo ni M... tapos di nag click... tapos tau pla sa huli... bka nga tau ang destined... bka nga...
minsan..kakapagod maghintay.. kakapgod mag-isip... kung alam mo lang... gusto ko na ifast forward ung time... ung sobrang fast talaga... na sana after 10 years na... malay mo..magkita tau sa New York... habang may snow na pumapatak... slow motion din...
or sa airplane... ung tipong ikakasal na tau sa iba the next month... pro nag back out tayo.. kc gusto pala nating tumawang magkasama hanggang namumula na tau... kumain ng sabay...magkilitian... magluto ng ulam na iba-iba... tumira sa iisang bahay... tawagin kang dada ng mga baby ko... tawagin akong mommy ng mga baby mo... kumanta ng "maybe this time"... gusto pala nating maging "tayo"... as in tayo na talaga... for richer or for poorer... in sickness and in health... till death do us part...
pero ganun tlga bestfriend... hintayin ko nlang ung "after 10 years" na un... destiny daw eh... kung akala mo, okey ako... mali ka... dahil sa habang nakikita kita...nagkakasama tau... habang ako ang bestfriend mo... habang ako ang anghel mo... habang ganito tau ng ganito... F na F ko tlga... na maging destiny ka ng buhay ko...
nasasaktan ako... pano mo nagagwang mahalin si M ng ganun katindi? eh ni hindi alam na sumakit ang tiyan mo kagabi... ni hindi niya alam kung kelan ka umaatungal... kung kelan ka humahagalpak sa kakatawa... kung anu-ano mga dreams mo... mga plano mo... mga problema mo... mga frustrations mo... ni wala siya sa tabi mo pag sumakit yang paa mo... ni hindi ka niya mapatawa tulad ng kaya ko... ni hindi ka niya maipagluto ng itlog na favorite mo.. kaya ba niyang maglaba ng t-shirt mo?
hindi naman sa humihingi ako ng kapalit... nagtataka lang bakit unfair ang love...
destiny daw eh...
gusto ko... destiny kita...
gusto mo... destiny mo c M...
gusto ni M... destiny nya bf nya...
Pano na taung dalawa?? ako kaya kong maghintay sa wala... kaya kong umiyak habambuhay bsta bestfriend kita... pro and hindi ko kaya... ang makita kang nasasaktan... dahil lang sa isang taong hindi alam magpahalaga... ng taong pinakamamahal ng iba...
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4 people you will meet in life
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Posted:Jan 28, 2006 1:49 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 1616 Views
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Life is the process of finding love, every person will need to find four people in their life. First person is yourself, Second person is the one you love most, Third person is the one who love you most, And the fourth, is the one you spend the rest of your life with. In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love feels; Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who love you most; When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with. Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person.
The one you love most, doesn't love you; The one who love you most, is never the one you love most; And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who love you most. He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time. Which person are you in other people life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you; But when he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love you anymore; When he loves you, he can't pretend that he doesn't. Same goes, when he loves you no more, there's no way he can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you. You must ask yourself if you still love him, If you also don't love him anymore, don't ever not let him leave just to save your pride. If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it. If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don't love him, And if you don't love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive. If you like the moon, you can just take it down and put it in your basin. But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in you life. If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is; Love him for his good points, and the bad, You can wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him. If he can change to become what you like him to be, you don't love him anymore.
When you really love a person, you cannot find reason why you love him, You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you; Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria.
In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end; Being away from each other is a type of test. If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.
When two people are in love, They love to ask each other to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise Because they don't trust each other, they don't trust their lover. These swears and promises are useless; Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change! We all know that the sky will never fall, the ocean will never dry. Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?
Be careful when making promises, don't make promises that you cannot keep. Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually. Remember, Swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!
In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another; the one saying doesn't believe; the one listening, also doesn't believe.
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Value of Yourself!
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Posted:Jan 28, 2006 1:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 1590 Views
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If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise your price Far too many people are LOOKING for the right person, instead of trying to BE the right person. Follow your bliss and don't be afraid; doors will open where you never knew they existed. Sometimes, you have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. What you discover will be wonderful. What you will discover will be yourself. Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just stand there. There are two kinds of people in the world: those who walk into a room and say, "THERE YOU ARE" and those that walk into a room and say, "HERE I AM!" It's true we can't do everything at once, but we can do SOMETHING at once. Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate versio! n of somebody else. Make a true estimate of your own ability. Then raise it 10%. The time is always right to do what is right. Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you will land among the stars! Believe in yourself and your own abilities. Be confident and tackle any problem that might come your way...
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the difference between love and like...
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Posted:Jan 26, 2006 5:38 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 1583 Views
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Know the difference between "somebody you love" and "somebody you like"
In front of the person you like, your heart beats faster…
But in front of the person you love, you get happy.
In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring…
But in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.
If you look into the eyes of the one you like, you blush…
But if you look into the eyes of the one you love, you smile.
In front of the person you like, you can't say everything on your mind…
But in front of the person you love, you can.
In front of the person you like, you tend to get shy…
But in front of the person you love, you can show your own self.
You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you like…
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you love.
But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting…
When the one you love is crying, you cry with them.
The feeling of like starts from the ear…
But the feeling of love starts from the eye.
So if you stop liking a person you used to like, all you need to do is cover your ears…
But if you try to close your eyes, love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever…
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"LIAR"
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Posted:Jan 26, 2006 12:03 am
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2006 7:16 pm 1918 Views
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"HINDI KO NA SYA MAHAL ( HINDI KO SYA MAHAL )"
Naranasan mo na bang magsabi nyan??? Kung OO ang sagot mo, pwes! alam mo ba na out of 10 people na nagsabi nyan 5 ang nagsasabi ng totoo?? yes! meaning 5 ang sinungaling!
Kc, minsan maraming dahilan kung bakit nasasabi yan...
iSiPin MO ito..
Nasasabi ang linyang yan sa mga sitwasyon gaya ng...
NAGUGULUHAN = ito ung mga taong nasa isang relasyon pagkatapos eh may iba pang mahal na iba... kailangan nilang mapaniwala ang sarili na hindi na nila mahal ung isa para, mahalin naman ung isa pa. ( HALIMBAWA: im sori may iba na kong mahal, HINDI NA KITA MAHAL ) pero echos! ang totoo di ka naman syur kung sino pa talaga sa kanila ang matimbang... gets mo? (kung hindi kawawa ka naman...=)
MASAMA ANG LOOB = eto naman ung mga taong katatapos lang hiwalayan o nagawan ng di maganda sa isang relasyon. (HALIMBAWA: bakit nya nagawa sakin toh! HINDI KO NA SYA MAHAL!) pero ay naku dala lng yan ng sama ng loob mo... sige hinga ng malalim... tulog ng mahimbing... pag gising mo bukas naku...sya na naman ang naalala mo...(miz mo noh? =)
BASTED = as in ayaw nya daw sayo... PARE OKEI KA LANG? (SAGOT: okei lng ako pre, wala na un hindi ko na rin sya mahal) uyyy pa-macho epek... SISTER OKEI KA LNG? SAGOT: yuh im okei, as in hindi ko na sya mahal noh?!) ows? go gurl!
LIHIM NA PAG-IBIG = eto naman ung mga taong ayaw ipaalam sa kanilang minamahal ang totoo, para lang mapagtakpan ang nararamdaman nila, lalo na't binubuking na sila... (HALIMBAWA: Hindi ko sya mahal ah, friend lang ang turing ko sa kanya.) ay naku! yan din sinabi ni jolina kay marvin!
PA - I WILL SURVIVE epek = eto ang mga taong gusto ng kumawala sa hawla ng alala ng taong minamahal... (HALIMBAWA: pagod na ko..from now on, kakalimutan ko na sya, hindi ko na sya mahal smart na ko ngayon, i will survive!)... hehe sino ka? si kris aquino??
TAAS NG PRIDE = eto ung mga taong di nila maamin sa sarili nila na mahal nila ang isang person kc nga malayo sa standard nila ung gurl/guy or lets say may ibang dahilan..pero nainlab sila. (HALIMBAWA: yun? hindi ko sya mahal noh. ako pa kilala nyo ko) sabay Naka cross ang mga fingers ng kanilang hands and feet!
TAKOT = eto ung mga taong dahil ilang beses na nasaktan sa larangan ng pag ibig, eh ayaw ng magmahal kahit na mahal naman talga nila ang isang taong nagmamahal sa kanila... (HALIMBAWA: ayaw ko ng masaktan ulit... hindi kita mahal.) ..o tapos? hehe
PAGHIHIGANTI = eto naman ung mga taong binabalikan matapos ng hiwalayan... syempre sobra nga naman sila nasaktan kaya sasabihan nya ng "MASYADO AKONG NASAKTAN SA MGA NANGYARI, HIND NA KITA MAHAL" ...o loko bagay sayo!
maraming dahilan, maraming paraan para sabihin natin ito... pero sana, sa susunod na sabihin mo sa kanyang hindi mo na sya mahal... eh ung totoo na.
Yung kaya mo na, yung sigurado ka, at un talaga ang nararamdaman mo... mahirap na...
Paano kung mawala pa sya?... Paano kung mahal ka pa talaga nya?... Paano na kung mahal ka nya... Paano Kung mahal ka rin nya at mahal mo pa rin sya.
At sa ibang taong makakaranas naman neto... pag sinabihan ka ng HINDI NA KITA MAHAL! / HINDI KITA MAHAL!
chin up! and say...
STYLE MO BULOK! LIARS GO TO HELL NYAHAHAHA!!!
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roads of our lives
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Posted:Dec 28, 2005 4:50 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2006 12:59 am 1831 Views
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we are travelling the roads of our lives Finding our way with the will to survive Dealing with the lows and the high day by day On our journey we will do the best we can If we stumble and fall and we struggle to stand Lead us up with your helping hand we'll be on our way...
Whatever you do I walk with you Hoping that your every dream will come true Anytime, anywhere I'll always be there Wishing you love andhappiness Because I care...
When it's shining bright I'll be by your side And in the darkness of night I will be there to guide Holding on to each other tight come what may As we travel down the roads of our lives Finding our way with the dream and the drive Dealing with the lows and the high day by day...
Again, whatever you do I walk with you Hoping that your every dream will come true Anytime, anywhere I'll always be there Wishing you love and happiness Because i care...
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i still love you....
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Posted:Dec 23, 2005 1:57 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2014 6:14 pm 2417 Views
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Its been 4 months since i saw him and talagang namimiss ko na siya... pero what can i do? it seems that i have loved the wrong person.... but still the pain keeps on hurting me and kung walang magbibigay ng gamot para dito sa nararamdaman ko.... baka mamatay na ako....
To give you a background about my life, everthing seems to be fine except dun sa time na dumating na sa buhay ko yung hinayupak na lalake na yon.... hehehehe.... kung curious kayo about dun sa guy... bestfriend ko po yon kaso lang iba na ang nangyari as time passes by.....
Bestfriend ko sya since kmi pa ng ex ko. kuya pa nga ang tawag ko sa kanya.... o db ang okeis? di na ako iba sa kanya and ganon na rin sya sa akin....
Ng mgbreak kmi ng ex ko sya ang unang ng cheer up sakin at sinabing mgconcentrate nlng muna sa studies at work ko then un nga ang ginawa ko....
Pero after a weeks ago he asked me if pwede syang manligaw sakin... grabeh shock talaga ako d ako makapaniwala na ang tinatawag kng kuya gusto pala ako....
Then naramdaman kng may gusto din ako sa knya kya pinayagan ko syang ligawan ako, after a month nging kmi na..... sobra ang saya ko kc alam kng mahal ko sya at mahal din nya ako...
After 2 months, hindi na gaanong masaya relationship namin kc hindi kmi mgkasundo sa ibang bagay or sabihin nlng nating hindi talaga kmi compatible...
At minsan my dumating talagang pagsubok samin na hindi namin nalampasan at isa samin ang bumitaw kaya ngdesisyon ang isa samin na taposin nlng ang relationship namin...
Sobra talaga grabe ang sakit wala akong nagawa kung di umiyak ng umiyak but i realize were not meant to each other....
Tanggap ko na but still masakit pa rin dahil sya pa lng ang unang ipinakilala ko sa buong family ko...
Pero ganun pa man were still friends but d na katulad ng dati, ngaun my limitation na...
At sa lahat ng nakarelation ko, hinding hindi ko sya makakalimutan i swear!!!! hindi ako plastic para sabihing hindi ko na sya mahal....
At para sa taong minahal ko....
i still love you.......
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