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why? why on earth there are some kind of people (person) who insist(s) to disrupt peace and harmony? Could we not exist in the same (cyber) space without dragging each other's names through the mud? For heaven's sakes! Let one another to their own devices as long as nobody is harming anybody. I know it's (probably) none of my business since I am not involve but we are one community here. We are all neighbours can we not tolerate each other in a more mature way? There is storm brewing on the horizon and I bet there will be casualties (like before) and most of them are innocent victims. It is sad really, and from my point of view, very unsettling.  only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide |
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1/8/2011 3:34 am |
ano ba 'yan bakit ba ganyan s'ya hindi ba titigil 'yon kung walang nasa-sa-gasaan at na-bwi-bwisit nanggugulo na naman nag-aabang lang yata 'yan kung sino ang magkakamali para daluhungin parang buwitre wala yatang magawa sa buhay n'ya d'yos ko nakakainis ang misyon n'yan siguro kaya narito para mang away ano bang utak mayroon 'yan mamaya sa akin naman 'yan magagalit pero hindi na ako makatiis talaga ganda na ng buhay tahimik ang lahat guguluhin pa pes-te only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 6:02 am |
Bebz, we all know who HITLER is..here in FFF...We don't mind him, because we RESPECT his existence, but he cannot accept the fact that due to his rotten old ways, people would rather ignore him than interact with him...He snaps anytime..He accuses others of being scammer/spammer or having multiple handles....I think he actually wants to refer to himself, more than anyone else...BUT GOD BLESS HIS SOUL this early...anyway.. Just call me ELZ 
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1/8/2011 7:30 am |
The destructive personality type has gone through several stages of definition. Prior to 1930 or so, they were called "psychopaths". After that, they were called "sociopaths". These days, the proper term is "anti-social personality disorder". The term itself is deceptive, since it intimates that such people do not like to socialize. They do like to socialize, but in a way that conflicts with others. Hence, anti-social. I have run into a number of anti-social people. You have to learn how to treat them. Once you've identified a person that is "anti-social", find a way to permanently avoid them. If avoidance is impossible (family member or co-worker), then find a way to ignore them. In other words, the only possible solution to anti-social people is to stay away from them. You can never help them or "fix" them. Psychiatric help makes them better at hurting people, since they can fool the psychiatrist. What do anti-social people want? They want to win. It's all they care about. People are obstacles to them and they don't care if they hurt you.
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1/8/2011 7:42 am |
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE.. is the best solution to this kind of menace. it is obvious that "attention" is the reason for it so don't give him/her that. it will just die a natural death.   ... only a REAL diamond has flaws.
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Bebs, It's realy futile to do anything about it. Instead of being happy to be alive and thankful to God. They treat others so badly!!! They have not learned the lesson from their mom's growing up like "if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all". If they can only put so much effort in helping those many causes of the world. Atleast, it will feed the hungry and poor, abandon kids, etc. No they have to waste time degrading others, not nice at all. Yeap, best remedy to ignore. Have a beautiful weekend everyone!!!  Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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1/8/2011 10:42 am |
Bebz, we all know who HITLER is..here in FFF...We don't mind him, because we RESPECT his existence, but he cannot accept the fact that due to his rotten old ways, people would rather ignore him than interact with him...He snaps anytime..He accuses others of being scammer/spammer or having multiple handles....I think he actually wants to refer to himself, more than anyone else...BUT GOD BLESS HIS SOUL this early...anyway.. i let people be at least most of the times unless they are directly and deliberately blocking my path i avoid confrontation too unless i have no other choice but sometimes it irks me if i see something wrong especially if it posing danger to peacefulness of the whole neighbourhood and threatens our harmony as a group most of all as i cannot understand the motives behind such senseless acts and this one is known to be persistent i guess the person will never stop unless there will be casualties i know and understand the views of others regarding this matter meaning the best way to do is to pretend the somebody doesn't exists but sometimes i cannot shut up only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 10:53 am |
The destructive personality type has gone through several stages of definition. Prior to 1930 or so, they were called "psychopaths". After that, they were called "sociopaths". These days, the proper term is "anti-social personality disorder". The term itself is deceptive, since it intimates that such people do not like to socialize. They do like to socialize, but in a way that conflicts with others. Hence, anti-social. I have run into a number of anti-social people. You have to learn how to treat them. Once you've identified a person that is "anti-social", find a way to permanently avoid them. If avoidance is impossible (family member or co-worker), then find a way to ignore them. In other words, the only possible solution to anti-social people is to stay away from them. You can never help them or "fix" them. Psychiatric help makes them better at hurting people, since they can fool the psychiatrist. What do anti-social people want? They want to win. It's all they care about. People are obstacles to them and they don't care if they hurt you. how to avoid somebody who is determined to create havoc especially in a very small community such as this this person is deliberately attacking people who done him/her no harm naming them by names posting malicious blogs and leaving undesirable comments i know i ought to ignore this somebody which i did for the last five years i spent here and to be fair we never encounter each other one on one yet which i have to be thankful for (i guess) anyway i hope he stops what he's doing before it's too late again thanks for dropping by only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 10:54 am |
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE.. is the best solution to this kind of menace. it is obvious that "attention" is the reason for it so don't give him/her that. it will just die a natural death. this is my first time to voice out what i thought regarding this matter normally i just bury my head in the sand like an ostrich only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 10:56 am |
wow! direct to the point eh? here let me give you a very wet kiss for being so courageous kidding  only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 11:00 am |
i've been doing that for the last five years but sometimes i cannot just pass by and look away sometimes, my thoughts are stronger than my self control sometimes i cannot shut up and headlong for disaster (self destruction) but i promise next time i will be blind only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 11:03 am |
seeking attention is forgivable boots we are all guilty of that one way or the other but not with the expense of someone else (or other people) but like i said next time i will ignore /her/him only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 11:07 am |
Bebs, It's realy futile to do anything about it. Instead of being happy to be alive and thankful to God. They treat others so badly!!! They have not learned the lesson from their mom's growing up like "if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all". If they can only put so much effort in helping those many causes of the world. Atleast, it will feed the hungry and poor, abandon kids, etc. No they have to waste time degrading others, not nice at all. Yeap, best remedy to ignore. Have a beautiful weekend everyone!!! i remember doing that in the past too recognizing a hopeless situation/case when i see one remembering if one is not guilty then one has nothing to explain have a great weekend to you too only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 11:07 am |
and i thought you got your grove back only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 11:11 am |
again? i thought the new word for this year is "perplexing" only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 12:48 pm |
its like when you harvest rice there is an upa... ano nga nga ang upa?  and we just try to blow it away...love is the greatest gift of all 
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1/8/2011 1:14 pm |
its like when you harvest rice there is an upa... ano nga nga ang upa? and we just try to blow it away... ipa in tagalogin english is "chaff" (The dry bracts enclosing mature grains of wheat,rice and some other cereal grasses, removed during threshing) we try to blow it away for example by winnowing to rid of undesirable parts or separate good from bad very good comparison jean only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 3:20 pm |
i've been doing that for the last five years but sometimes i cannot just pass by and look away sometimes, my thoughts are stronger than my self control sometimes i cannot shut up and headlong for disaster (self destruction) but i promise next time i will be blind Just call me ELZ
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1/8/2011 3:40 pm |
really justine? any chance we could see some picture of that? maybe i'm not reading it right  only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 3:41 pm |
working on it almost there few more miles only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 3:44 pm |
Bebz, you are not a VIRGO for nothing... being one yourself only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 4:02 pm |
somewhere somebody acquired a gold ball now i'm jealous only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/8/2011 5:57 pm |
ipa in tagalogin english is "chaff" (The dry bracts enclosing mature grains of wheat,rice and some other cereal grasses, removed during threshing) we try to blow it away for example by winnowing to rid of undesirable parts or separate good from bad very good comparison jean love is the greatest gift of all
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1/8/2011 6:02 pm |
typhoon hit again at blogsland and i'm not strong enough to swim so take care bebz... love is the greatest gift of all
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1/9/2011 2:59 am |
these individuals i can't ban or delete they are not courageous enough to invade my space they're hanging their dirty drawers outside for all to see hoping to get attention at the cost of innocent people only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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1/9/2011 3:04 am |
what's happening??? i saw few profiles had been turned off why??? is it has something to do with what i'm talking about??? only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide
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