My Ideal Person
In relationships I seek a genuine partner, a serious relationship that will turn something meaningful. It's very easy to find people who will wander into your life, play various games (that ultimately are self-interest based) & who will get scared away for various different reasons. I'm looking for a peer & that does not mean academic or otherwise - I'm talking about a real human being who from his free choice after having gotten to know me, can think & feel with heart & mind that our paths should be together & not separate & that I feel likewise to his. I'm looking for a man with a good heart & a brave personality - beyond that other things are less important, but obviously there has to be some attraction both physically and mentally. A sometimes stubborn, often thoughtful woman who puts a great deal of effort in for no other reason then he feels that this is the "right thing to do" & enjoys being this way. A man who is affectionate and playful and not manipulative nor exploitative. We are both responsible for our own actions & decisions. I won't chase you & I won't tell you how to live your life. I do not seek a relationship that is ignorant of marriage. I'm seeking a serious long term relationship and more. My plans for the future are simply to be happy - wherever and however that comes about doesn't really matter, the other important thing is that the ideal man for me will be an equal partner, with both of us having equal say in every decision in life.