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Why did I let this happen again? 9/8/2005
You went away for a while
then i let you back in
but now i know what i have done
i just cause myself the worst pain
i was doing fine without you
i started to forget it all
i stopped crying all the time
and showed a smile and all
but you left me alone
to cry myself to sleep
and every time i thought about you
all i could do was weep
i can't believe i let you back ...
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I'm no longer willing.......... 9/8/2005
I don't want to feel the f#cking pain I feel anymore,
Or the tears that cascade down my face to the floor.
Someone take out the blade that's dug into my back,
I could use some true love, since trust is what I lack.
<br>
Could someone explain, the loneliness in my heart?
Or possibly, just why I am still always falling apart?
Maybe, could you wipe the tears from my brown ...
0 Comments, 42 Views,
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EFFECTIVE LISTENING 9/6/2005
When our relationships go south, one of the first things
to suffer is communication. If you can't communicate
with each other, then there is no possible way to salvage
the relationship. The biggest thing that we need to do is
to prevent communication from ever being a problem. One
of the most important aspects of this is to learn how to be
a good listener. Listed below are a few guidelines ...
2 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
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TIPs for U to move on.... 9/5/2005
It very easy to get into relationship. But its usually very
difficult to get out of the one that no longer serves you
and begin the healing process.it seems that everywhere
you look, many long standing relationship are dissolving.
My suggestion is to never look or anything else that didn’t
work out as failure. failure doesn’t mean you’re finished,
it does mean you have ...
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What are the choices you can start making? 9/5/2005
Get counseling and support. Find a counselor, friends
group.
Begin to journal your grief and feelings.
Start a job search if employment or finances are an issue.
Get some help with your resume from someone you know who
has some expertise in this area. Get some career guidance
Begin to make one goal a week which will help your life improve.
Exercise regularly. Eat nutritiously.
...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
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Even I feel betrayed and rejected... 9/5/2005
The first issue is feeling rejectedeven I feel betrayed
and rejected..i need to be strong.My Ex-boyfriend rejection
does not change who i am and how valuable iam as a person.
The rejection is a choice he made ‒ that choice does not determine
my worth. Im still a person uniquely made ‒ someone with
purpose, talents, opinions and who can be used to make a
difference in the ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
2 Votes
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Still wanting him/ her to come back??? 9/5/2005
"I still loved him and prayed his heart would change.”It
is normal to feel that you still love your ex-sweetheart
because you gave your heart away and committed yourself
to your him/her. You took promises to love him or her forever.
Unfortunately, he didn’t keep up his end of the line. He
broke it. You can’t make him change his mind and you wouldn’t
want to force ...
0 Comments, 64 Views,
5 Votes
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LIFE AFTER BREAKING UP>>oouuch! 9/5/2005
breaking up is a great loss and a crisis which has a huge impact
the lives of everyone involved. If you have experienced,
or are experiencing breaking up, my heart goes out to you.
I know about this. my boyfriend and i were broke up after
our 3years relationship. It was painful. It was destabilizing
for my whole family.
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In my years of counseling I have heard many advices ...
0 Comments, 42 Views,
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Using guilt as a weapon.. 9/5/2005
Using guilt as a weapon may get you what you want in the short
term, but it is a dangerous tactic that will undermine your
relationship and rob you of intimacy with your partner.
Have you ever found yourself turning to your special someone
and saying "If you loved me you would" or ending
an argument with "don't worry about me"
and sighing deeply? If so, you may be using guilt as a weapon. ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
2 Votes
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love vs infatuation.................in bed ! 8/31/2005
Have you ever met someone who you thought was the only person
you will spend the rest of your life with...in bed. To you, it
was a dream come true, someone who did everything right
without having any knowledge of your secret desires...in
bed. You were the best of friends, unseparatable by others
who had walked into the path with the "aura"
that you both left behind...in bed. Then suddenly ...
3 Comments, 124 Views,
8 Votes
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A decade and a half of everything for nothing... 8/27/2005
The longevity of love hurts even more
<br>
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It was like a beautiful sandcastle that inspired others
by the shore
<br>
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But then came the many tides and the many wakes, tough as
they were, it stood straight to amaze and adore
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But when one denies the little signs of erosion
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...
2 Comments, 89 Views,
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The Definition of a Soulmate 8/27/2005
Relationships are the most challenging and the most rewarding
aspects of this life. The more intimate the relationship
the larger opportunity for growth we are given. Relationships
are mirrors for us to learn more about ourselves. There
are three different types of relationship mirrors.
<br>
One is the mirror of who you were. This mirror gives you the
opportunity to see how far ...
1 Comments, 66 Views,
5 Votes
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It hurts.. 8/19/2005
Love really hurts. But when this feeling knocks, you just
can't resist it. We all knew that brain was putted above
the man's body to be our control center, but there are
times when it is our heart that controls all.
<br>
Love knocks on a very unexpected time, when you are not ready
to accept it. Seldom, people looks for love and find it.
But when you finally found it, embrace.. ...
1 Comments, 42 Views,
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It wasn't easy... 8/16/2005
It wasn't easy to love & jz let go...
Wasn't easy to say "i dont need u,
wen i love u so..
Wasn't dat simple to close my eyes
while you walk away...
& it wasn't easy to wish
wen u wont stay....
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I've been thinking of us, i dnt know why...
I've been dreaming of us together
still wondering why...
Is this how badly im missing u?
No, this is how hopeless im living... ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
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The Art of Letting Go 8/15/2005
It’s over. He’s gone.
Why do we have to part when the love is still there? Why do
we have to suffer? Why do we have to cry when somebody bids
goodbye? Why do beginnings have an end? Why do we have to
meet only to loose each other in the end?
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“We often fool ourselves and say that it’s love only when
it’s gone. We end up being ...
4 Comments, 286 Views,
30 Votes
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My own kind of Goodbye 8/12/2005
The last time I texted you, I told you I have something important
to tell you, I wanted to meet you to personally tell you….it’s
been a week now and I haven’t received any word from you…not
a single txt nor call. So I guess this is the best way for me
to tell you what I have to say….I was hoping we can talk things
out personally but I ...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
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Questions that needed an answer.... 8/11/2005
Breaking up is just a part of life.An experience you could
never ever imagine, but it just struck you right there and
then.Tears of pain falling down, as you ask yourself why
did you do this to me? I've loved you more than i ever
could, giving my all, my everything...What have i done
wrong? Questions that needed an answer...You wanted to
hurt the person, to revenge, to make him suffer, to ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
5 Votes
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the "Y" of breaking-up 8/4/2005
why do people break-up? well, the reason of breaking-up
is depended on the individuals feelings ang thoughts.individual
feelings varies but try to observe that when a person is
inloved, the action and words they make are almost all the
same.thoguhts may differ but the resulting factor is always
the same to let the other person feels that he/she is well
loved.so why break-up...this is when ...
0 Comments, 27 Views,
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how come? 8/3/2005
have you ever wonder...?
well, let me tell you something, one time i did posted an
account here before, ,, ,then after acouple of months
i removed it...for the reason that im getting tons of emails...(bragging
aside) well, maybe thats one least thing people would do.anyway,
i dont usually post my pic...and i found out that people
are really after for the looks of the people they get to ...
1 Comments, 58 Views,
5 Votes
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We lose nothing! 7/31/2005
Breaking up with that special someone in our hearts triggers
so many emotions, usually grief and anxiety. We associate
his/her loss as a sign that time stopped suddenly and we
are caught flat-footed, never realizing what to do next.
It is very difficult to move on, much less perform and fulfill,
our daily responsibilities in life. But that's life
really is. It is always unfair. We ...
0 Comments, 49 Views,
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i love you... 7/29/2005
i love you though things to us seems to be upside down...i
will stay with you whatever happens and even i am crying
inside i want you to know that i love you...sometimes i want
to run away from you just to ease the pain but i cant so ill
just close my eyes and smile..there are things that i do
not understand yet im still here i have to wait until you
realize im here for you until you have ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
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i Let Go 7/21/2005
A man realized he wanted his love back. The girl said no.
The man cried to God, If it was meant to be, why did I lose her?
God replied, You didnt lose her, you let her go.
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Your Cross 7/13/2005
A young man was at the end of his rope;
seeing no way out, he dropped to his knees in prayer.
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"Lord, I can't go on, " he said.
"I have too heavy a cross to bear."
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The Lord replied, "My , if you can't bear its
weight,
just place your cross inside this room.
Then, open that other door and pick out any cross you wish."
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The man was filled ...
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what if????? 7/11/2005
i ride into a friend of your the other day
and i ask her how you've been
she said my girl is fine just bought a house, got a job, real
good man.
i told her i was glad for u thats wonderfull but does she ever
ask about me
she said she's happy with her life right now let her
go let her be
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and i told my self i would couse things are over i guess i was
wrong but i ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
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Mask of the sad cat 7/1/2005
I like to go out and wear my smiling mask
Projecting I’m happy and Yes!!! It makes me forgot
Meet different people, talking with them
Laughing with their silly jokes or just listening on their
story.
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My old friends were far and too tired to listen
Of the never ending story of my pain with my bb
They were quite right that the wolf does not love me
He just want ...
0 Comments, 57 Views,
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goodbye 6/30/2005
its hard to say goodbye
to people who we learned to love
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people who share the joys
and sorrows all the way
today i will mark the day
that i will start
missing you
couse to forget you its
hard for me
to do
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soon we will be leaving
i hope and im praying
that someday
we will meet again
1 Comments, 43 Views,
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Are you a woman in love? 6/23/2005
Fall in love but don't give every thing to the extent
of becoming a slave out of love, give what is enough and spare
some for yourself so that if something went wrong you can
always pick yourself up where some stupid lover hit you
up.
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I'm telling this to the fact that I'm just the opposite
of what the man has done to his woman. I'm the kind of
a man who always keeps my ...
0 Comments, 72 Views,
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Should I forget about her? 6/19/2005
My ex happens to be the best friend I have. But she is married.
She cant commit to me. They are separated. She is waiting
for him. She has another man right now just for fun.
0 Comments, 56 Views,
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how do you know when to let go 6/18/2005
how do you know when to let go?
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it never seems to work the way you really want it to
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you still feel that same feeling of love as he day you first
committed,
but you feel that love is not returned.
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the littlist things set your other off making life with
them almost impossible
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you go to bed at night alone and you wake up in the ...
1 Comments, 97 Views,
3 Votes
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ALL I HAVE TO GIVE 6/6/2005
You're the first thing I think of
Each morning when I rise.
You're the last thing I think of
Each night when I close my eyes.
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You're in each thought I have
And every breath I take.
My feelings are growing stronger
With every move I make.
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I want to prove I love you
But that's the hardest part.
So, I'm giving all I have to give
To you... I ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
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