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READ THIS! 1/16/2006
The sound of silence in a relationship is deafening. The
silent treatment sends many messages - "I'm
not interested, " "I have nothing of value
to say, " "Whenever I say something you argue
with me, " "I give up. . . what's the use?"
and more.
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What stops you from communicating is not making a decision
to do so. "Take all the time you need to decide, but
the ice cream is ...
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REALITY FORMS AROUND YOUR COMMITMENTS 1/3/2006
Intense anticipation will transform your possibilities
into reality.
Strong desires will in time externalize themselves into
concrete fact.
Your desires are the precursors of the things
which you are capable of having and doing.
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Weak desires will bring you weak results,
just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat.
The intensity of your desire governs the ...
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If you’re crushing from afar: 12/18/2005
Resist the urge to leap onto him and never let go. Instead,
give him absent-minded nods or half-smiles whenever you
pass each other at school. You know what we’re talking about:
that look that says “I think I know you, but I can’t really
remember, so I’ll just nod politely instead.” This will
give him the impression that he knows or remembers you from ...
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If you are good friends with him: 12/18/2005
Maintain that cool, casual camaraderie you have with him.
Don’t change the way you act with him. He’ll smell that something
is up and will start acting differently around you.
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How To Tell Him Without Telling Him 12/18/2005
There is an art to having a crush. Not many girls know this,
but it’s true. Crushing on a guy requires skill, panache,
and the balls of a large kalabaw . Because aside from sighing
dreamily about his cute dimples or flip-floppy hair, the
art of crushing requires that you send your guy signals.
Signals that let him know… you’re interested! Sort of.
After all, ...
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He Loves Me...NOT! 12/4/2005
Think fair.So you are thinking of him almost waking hours
of your existence.But is he thinking about you?You spend
considerable time thinking about what he is doing, who
he is with, the things he did that pleased you et cetera, et
cetera.But news flash!He might not even be wasting a little
energy on you.And is that fair?No way!So spend your energy
on more productive activities than day ...
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15 THINGS YOU PROBABLY NEVER KNEW OR THOUGHT ABOUT 12/1/2005
1.at least 5 people in this world love you so much they would
die for you.
2.at least 15 people in this world love you in someway.
3.the only reason anyone would ever hate you is bcoz they
want to be just like you.
4.a smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even
if they dont like you.
5.evry night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go
to sleep.
6.you mean the world to ...
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taking the problem as a challenge 12/1/2005
most of us, when faced by a problem, would ask, "why
did it has to be me?". problems are part of one's
life. how we handle them depends on our faith to the One we
believe in. Its an opportunity to grow and to learn. At first
we may see it as unbearable.. without solution.. but later
we'll find out that we had succeeded it.
a loved one of mine has asked me that question before to which
i ...
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OH MEN!!!!!!! 11/24/2005
NO MAN IS TRULY MARRIED UNTIL HE UNDERSTANDS EVERY WORD
HIS WIFE IS not SAYING.
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~~~ WHEN CANDLES NO LONGER BURN ~~~ 11/23/2005
~~~ WHEN CANDLES NO LONGER BURN ~~~
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When feelings start to fade, like diminishing at the start
of light, a once beautiful relationship must end. Breaking
away from a love you thought would last has finally come....It
happens. And it cannot be avoided. An early break-up is
better than continuing a relationship that is dearly bound
to end... to people hopelessly in ...
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Peace of Mind 11/23/2005
If you were to ask your neighbor,
"What would give you peace of mind?" he might
tell you,
"A vacation in Bermuda!" or
"An extra hundred grand would give me peace!",
or
"A new Ferrari would make me content!"
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But going places - and getting stuff - is usually a temporary
solution ...
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Let's say you buy a lottery ticket and by some miracle
you win your dream ...
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somthing to ponder:for all unmarried men and women out there 11/23/2005
5 Golden Rules for finding your life partner by Rabbi Dov
Heller, M.A.
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A relationships coach lays out his 5 golden rules for evaluating
the Prospects of long-term marital success.
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When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life
partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce
rate of close to 50 percent, it ...
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LOVE IS ETERNAL 11/23/2005
Once you have learned to love;
who you are, what you do, and those around you,
you will have truly learned to live.
Search for love, for it is the most important ingredient
of life.
Without it, you life will echo emptiness.
With it, your life will vibrate with warmth and meaning.
Even during any hardship, love will shine through.
To love abundantly is to live abundantly.
To love ...
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EVERY FAILURE IS A STEP CLOSER TO SUCCESS 11/9/2005
People who try to do something and fail
are infinitely better than those who try to do nothing and
succeed.
Experiencing failure is inevitable on your journey to
be successful.
Every defeat is merely an installment to victory.
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You'll find that the number of times you succeed is
in direct proportion
to the number of times you fail and keep trying.
You won't be judged ...
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BEING SUCCESSFUL IS A CHOICE YOU MAKE 10/24/2005
Your success isn't a matter of luck,
it's simply a matter of the choices you make.
Success isn't something you can wait for,
it's something you'll achieve with effort over
time.
Things won't turn up in this world until you turn them
up.
You can choose to be lazy or ambitious.
Stop and think about your choice again.
You always do your own choosing.
The great opportunity in your ...
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KNOWING OURSELVES 10/18/2005
Before making a commitment, we must get to know the other
person, but more importantly, we must get to know ourselves.
Most of the time, deciding to share a lifetime with another
person calls for mental and emotional preparations that
take several months, even years. Some people need a series
of experiences before they feel redy to make a definite
commitment to a relationship. Throughout ...
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Welcome to the Male Psyche 10/16/2005
Ok fine, the stereotypes are all around, we men are extremely
competitive (in whatever endeavor) to the point of satisfying
(or even overwhelming) the egoistic in us, ano pa?
motivated only by "sex" when hitting on the
opposite sex, ano pa? manloloko ng kababaihan, liars...
well there may be many more of those stereotypes pero girls,
ladies, never ever generalize that all of us belong ...
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a lesson to ponder on... 9/30/2005
dont force something thats not meant to be. You may think
that something absolutely has to happen in a certain way,
but it could end up doing more harm than good.
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A Different Way Of Breaking Up?? 9/15/2005
My gf recently told me she want`s to break up! I ask why? She
say`s, You`re just to good for me! You`re just to handsome
(what a joke) You will leave me anyway! I cant give you the
type of sex you want!
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Till now, I cant understand what she was really talking
about. I would appreciate having someone from the outside
to tell me what or why? She say`s that...
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Misunderstanding ends to breaking up 9/10/2005
One night (thursday) I have to stay at work in my cafe. We
(programmer, her girlfriend, my sister and  have to reprogram
all my computers to delete spywares and viruses on them.
We started 7 pm. and when we are about to finish at 12:30 am
I told my sweetheart (on net ) that i am going home.
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Sad to say after telling him goodbye, some of the reprogrammed
computers were ...
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WORD for the day... 9/10/2005
"The Lord your God is in your midst, a victorious
warrior. He will exult over you with joy, He will be
quiet in His love, He will rejoice over you with
shouts of joy (Heb. ear piercing shouts of
jubilation)." ( Zeph 3:17 NAS
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Masochist and Sadist 9/4/2005
Masochist
1.The deriving of sexual gratification, or the tendency
to derive sexual gratification, from being physically
or emotionally abused.
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2.The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure,
from being humiliated or mistreated, either by another
or by oneself.
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3.A willingness or tendency to subject oneself to unpleasant
or trying ...
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SUCCESS IS A DETERMINED ACTION AWAY 8/20/2005
Foolish people with all their other thoughts, have this
one too:
They are always getting ready to live, but never living.
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Your success will start when you begin to pursue it.
To reach your goal or to attain success,
you don't need to know all of the answers in advance.
You just need to have a clear idea of what your goal is.
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Don't procrastinate when ...
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how to let go a person without hurting.... 8/14/2005
Sometimes, relationships run their course. You may be
at fault or not, but when its time to bring your relationship
to an end, you want to do so cleanly and effectively. Here
are some suggestions:
Sometimes, relationships run their course. You may be
at fault or not, but when its time to bring your relationship
to an end, you want to do so cleanly and effectively. Here
are some ...
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HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY 8/10/2005
You always experience the consequences of your own actions.
If your actions are right, you'll get good consequences.
If not, you'll suffer for it.
There are always two choices, two paths to take.
One is easy. And your only reward is that it's easy.
You cannot do wrong without suffering wrong.
Morality may consist solely in the courage of making a choice.
Wickedness is always easier ...
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LOVE WHAT YOU DO, OR DO SOMETHING ELSE 8/8/2005
When your vocation becomes your vacation,
you'll never work another day in your life.
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No one can succeed in any endeavor that they don't like.
If you don't love what you're doing, then don't
do it.
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Your chances of success are directly proportional
to the degree of pleasure you derive from what you do.
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Do something that you have a deep personal ...
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Dating Tips: The Best Place To Meet... 8/3/2005
the Guy (or Girl!) of Your Dreams
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Tired of spending every weekend gripping a bottle of light
beer, meeting the same people in different clothes, and
listening to the same jokes? Ever wonder where all the "good
ones" are hiding?
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Most of us think we'll never meet somebody great in
a bar, but for lack of better alternatives, we continue
to go anyway. We all know ...
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how i will i know i met the person i should marry 7/25/2005
The choice of a marriage partner should not be based on "I
get a warm,
wonderful feeling whenever we're together and I want
to have that warm
wonderful feeling forever, so let's go get married".
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Feelings, as we have discussed, have no logic on their
own. They need to be
acknowledged, of course, but they need considerable assistance
from your
brain.
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...
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CHARACTER ASSASSINATION 7/19/2005
We kept quiet for a long time. We never complained even if
he bombarded our friend's blog and write-ups of his
malicious attack and name calling. We still understood
him though he caused another friend of ours severe depression
and emotional trauma. We kept our mouth shut even though
he calls her wacko, psychopath, abnormal, philandering
lesbian, master plagiarist, and so on. But this time, ...
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Think Beyond Tommorrow 7/3/2005
Now is the time to get real with today.Once you can look into
your very own heart your vision will become more clearer
and you'll understand.You now need to stop and think:What
are you going to do with you life and how are you going to live
it?Start making your own decisions and choices based on
your heart, what you value, not on what a friend or your
friends may think.The path is your ...
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