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MARRIAGE ADVICE 12/1/2004
Have you wondered "what is the secret to a long and
happy marriage?" These collection of tried and true
marriage advices will help you answer that very question!
These secrets to a happy marriage come straight from the
's mouth -- those who are happily married!
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Never assume.Compliment more than you criticize. For
each time you vent about your husband/wife to your friends, ...
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10 COMMANDMENTS OF LOVE 12/1/2004
1. Give 100%. 2. Treat your partner as the unique individual
that he/she truly is.
3. Stay connected through word and deed.
4. Accept change and support growth in yourself and your
partner. 5. Live your love.
6. Share the love, fear, work, and play.
7. Listen to your mate. 8. Honor the subtle wisdom of the
heart and listen to the powerful insights of the mind. 9.
Do no be a jerk ...
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HAVE CONFIDENCE 12/1/2004
There is one thing I kind of struggle with, and that is confidence.
Everyone knows they are attracted to confidence, but what
exactly is confidence? How do you show you have confidence?
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Confidence - it is the #1 thing that women report as finding
attractive in men. In fact, I do a lot of readings and watching
TV's. Every time there is a women host, or one working
with the ...
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SEVEN SIGNS OF INFERIORITY COMPLEX 11/28/2004
"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool
than to speak up and remove all doubt" is a coined expression
which provides an apt description of those with inferiority
complex.
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Psychologist Dan Hamachek has outlined the seven signs
of inferiority complex and they are as follows:
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1) sensitivity to criticism - people tend to perceive commentary
or analysis ...
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BUHAY SA AMERICA 11/23/2004
Salamat kaibigan sa pagbukas mo ng article na ito. Marami
na akong na-post na different articles, but this one is
quite different. ito yung life in america. sana you have
time to read this kasi gusto kong i-share what my life was
and is in america, and para naman may ma i-share ka rin sa
iba o kaya tanungin mo muna ang sarili mo before coming to
america. to tell u the truth, i am rainman22; ...
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JUNK FOOD: WHAT'S IN IT FOR YOU AND FOR BABY 11/15/2004
Picture a mother giving her baby a doughnut for breakfast,
a hot and cola for lunch, and a fried-fish sandwich and
fries for dinner. Not a pretty picture, but, sadly, a real
one. Though no mother would feed her newborn a diet of junk
food, many expectant mothers feed their unborn just that.
While you can eat what you choose to eat, a fetus has no choice.
It eats what you've ...
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Overcoming depression 11/7/2004
Depression is a persistent sadness and despair. If you
have ongoing feelings of helplessness, hopelessness,
guilt, or worthlessness. Sadness, crying, tearfulness.
Difficulty in concentrating or making decisions, loss
of interest in pleasurable activities, anger or emptiness,
fatigue, sleeping too much or too little. Maybe you are
just feeling blue. Here's some self help strategies ...
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Seven things he won't know he's doing wrong until you tell him 10/29/2004
Seven things he won't know he's doing wrong until
you tell him by Mark Mason
1. Being abrupt on the telephone. Men see the phone as a means
of communication, nothing more. A typical male telephone
conversation goes as follows: 'Drink in the pub tonight?'
'What time?' 'Seven-thirty?' 'See
you there.' Men do their talking in person, when they
get to the pub. (From about eight-thirty onwards ...
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MAKING EYE CONTACT 10/23/2004
First, keep in mind that you don't HAVE to have eye contact
to go meet someone. This is often more of a courtesy than
a rule. I've gotten women's that
never even looked my way. However, that said, getting eye
contact helps to insure you're advance is welcome.
It's part of the mating game. If you're not bothered
by rejection, don't worry about eye contact.
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Another thing to ...
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THE UNFAITHFUL BOYFRIEND 10/23/2004
Women often make the mistake of trying to impose their own
needs on men. Men are pre-programmed by nature to have sex
with as many women as possible. Sex has nothing to do with
love to men. Sex is a biological necessity; love an emotional
one. Women have a much more difficult time breaking these
up.
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That is why men can still be in love with one woman and have
sex with others. ...
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GET OVER BEING SHY 10/23/2004
If you're too shy, then just lie down, do nothing, and
be alone the rest of your life.
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My brother, I fully understand how you feel, but you aren't
going to use the "shy guy" crap with me. I know
how much anxiety this can give you, but you're just
going to have to get over it as it's going to affect you
the rest of your life negatively if you don't.
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The good news ...
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FINDING THE 'G' SPOT 10/23/2004
Not everyone even believes that the "g-spot"
exists. I do however, based on my experience, and most women
agree with me on this.
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The “g-spot”, (or "Gaffenburg Spot"), is an
anatomical structure located inside the vagina, usually
about an inch to 2 inches inside. If the woman is lying on
her back, it is located on the top wall of the vagina. You
can find it by ...
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WHY ARE MEN OBSSESSED WITH PORN? 10/23/2004
Wouldn't it be nice if there were a one-sentence answer
to that question? The fact is it is rather more complicated.
However, let me try to help you understand.
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To understand this, you have to know one important key about
men: men are NOT monogamous by nature. This isn't my
fact by the way; it was here when I arrived! It is actually
one of the reasons why humans have been so ...
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CONTROLLING JEALOUSY 10/23/2004
Jealousy is really personal insecurity. It says that the
relationship is more important to you than it is to her,
(in your eyes), even if this isn't true. Further, it
says that you don't feel good enough about yourself
to expect - and demand - that your partner stays true to you.
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Let me offer another way to think.
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In my personal relationships, I have never had a ...
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HOW DO I GET HIM TO MARRY ME? 10/23/2004
Let's begin by me asking you a question: what's
so important about being married?
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It appears that you have everything you really want in a
partner. You have an amazingly deep emotional relationship,
you have love, you have a best friend, you have someone that
is always there beside you and that has committed in every
other way - other than marriage. What are you really ...
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HOW SLOW IS TOO SLOW? 10/23/2004
First, let me congratulate you on your attitude! He asked
you out first, but then you turned around and invited him
out. That's a "new millennium women" at
work, and very few women can or will do this. I'm very
proud of you on this point.
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Regarding the Holiday party, I agree with this guy. It's
too soon for you two to be meeting each other's friends.
I'd reserve that until at ...
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HOLIDAY PRESSURE FOR COMMITTMENT 10/23/2004
First, I NEVER recommend that anyone make life-changing
(or enhancing) decisions during the holidays! Things
are just too stressful and the pressure to "do the
right thing" is awesome. Yet, few people take this
advice, and do just what you did; start trying to get some
commitment from their partners during this confusing
time - knowing deep down that this confusion exists - and
that you ...
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IS SEX ALL THERE IS? 10/23/2004
Being single and/or divorced, I'm a little surprised
that you equate being committed with being married. The
fact is, marriage is only one form of relationship - even
a committed one - and you should consider the quality of
the relationship well before the format in my opinion.
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Regarding the connection issue you're feeling. The
trouble here is that you're selecting the wrong ...
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HELP WITH STUTTERING 10/23/2004
First, you need to get rid of that belief that stuttering
makes you sound stupid - nothing could be further from the
truth! A lot of people stutter, and have all sorts of other
speech impediments that don't reflect at all on them
personally - including me!
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One of the best tricks I've ever heard of to deal with
stuttering comes from music. Have you never noticed that
some ...
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LEARNING TO TRUST 10/23/2004
Hello "Untrusting"!
Yes, I agree - you definitely want to get this handled right
away. Your overreactions and mistrust will serve to push
him away from - and right out of - what apparently is a very
good relationship.
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It's also important that you recognize that this is
an issue of you, not of him. Many people blame their partner,
thinking that he (or she) isn't doing enough ...
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THE TEST AND THE CHALLENGE 10/23/2004
"The Test". It's such an insidious feminine
tool that I devoted in this entire article.
As far as I know, It has discovered - and talks about it. I
actually talk about men using The Test in a few cases, but
frankly, it's not a very good idea - at least as women
use it. When men use The Test, they come off as insecure -
something you don't want. On the other hand, there
IS a way for men to ...
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COMMUNICATION AND SEXUAL CONVERSION 10/23/2004
Now, let's deal with the topic of "sexual conversion".
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Converting a date to a sexual encounter is a skill that many
men lack. It's not difficult, but most men just don't
know how to do it and actually wait for their dates to do all
the work! In fact, this rarely happens for the reasons previously
stated. Women know that this is YOUR job and will wait for
you to do it. I can't ...
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NOTES ON WORKING BARS AND CLUBS 10/23/2004
The most likely situation is that you're working the
wrong rooms. This sounds like you're talking about
clubs and bars, and yes, you're going to get a lot of
"same as" from women there - that's exactly
what they're expecting in those places.
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When women go to clubs and bars, they have their "bitch
shields" firmly in place. You need to know this ahead
of time as it's going to ...
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REVIVING STALE RELATIONSHIP 10/23/2004
It sounds like you've made her the entire focus of your
life - her every thought, feeling, concern, bit of happiness,
etc. This is NOT a healthy relationship!
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Let me offer you another picture of what a healthy relationship
looks like: two people that have their own lives, their
own directions that are growing everyday on their own.
These people spend time apart pursuing their ...
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BE A MAN DURING A BREAKUP 10/23/2004
First of all, "rebound relationships" don't
exist. They are a figment of an over-active media, but nothing
real. This is not the cause of your problems.
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What appears to be the cause however is your feminine behavior!
Sending flowers to someone that just broke up with you is
a classic AFC ("Average Frustrated Chump")
maneuver that never, ever works. In fact, it makes you look ...
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WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT? 10/23/2004
Well, aren't we full of questions today!
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First, I don't believe that there is any one "model"
that fits all men or all women. Everyone is different and
is motivated by different things. With that said however,
I do believe that marriage and commitment isn't as
attractive to most men as it is to most women, and I think
that's what the bulk of your questions are about. ...
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IT'S REALLY ABOUT YOUR GOALS 10/23/2004
I was asked by my friend with this question.
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I really need your advice. My boyfriend and I have been having
problems about my neediness and his independence. I have
a hard time finding a balance. I'm the type who always
enjoys quality time with my boyfriend every chance we get,
however, he's the type who needs his space and likes
to hang out with the guys. We don't see each ...
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DOES MY GIRLFRIEND LOVE ME 10/23/2004
Frankly, she probably loves you, but your question (if
I understand it) is if she's "in love" with
you.
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Obviously, I can't read her mind to be able to tell you,
however, let me offer the following:
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Poets, song writers and romantics have been trying to define
exactly what love is since man has been around. To date,
nobody has been able to give a definition that ...
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THE CHEATING HEART 10/23/2004
Hello!
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First of all, you need to get over the guilt and shame right
now. These aren't going to help you. They are only a
sign that you somehow believe you should pay some price
for all of this.
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The interesting thing is that women do this all the time!
They have a boyfriend before they start dating someone
else. Things get going really well with the new person ...
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MATH OF MOVING IN TOGETHER 10/23/2004
Hello!
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Well, I AM good at math! If you want an equation in order to
be equitable, try this one:
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Step 1: your income / his income = percentage difference.
Step 2:. Purchase amount * percentage difference = your
share of the costs
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That will give you an exact breakout of your costs based
exclusively on income. You have many other issues about
moving ...
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