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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Filipino FriendFinder.
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cecille2005 62 F
26  questions
DO YOU HAVE NAUGHTY YULETIDE MEMORIES TO SHARE? - 12/7/2008

I'VE GOT ONE ....WHEN I WAS IN GRADE SCHOOL...I'VE ASKED MONEY FROM MY MOM FOR ME TO BUY EXCHANGE GIFT....I DID NOT BUY BUT I GAVE MY IMPORTED STUFF TOY INSTEAD...AND I MADE MORE MONEY WITH THE BUY AND SELL WALT DISNEY BALLPENS AND PENCILS...

5 response(s), 11 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH... - 12/6/2008

We can only tackle our problems as we would climb a mountain if u go rock climbing and...get stuck on a ledge ‒ u suddenly focus on the present moment! You forget about the future...but step by step..inch by inch...you eventually claw your way out

Same works for everyday life when things seems desperate you fix ur focus on the present you ...


7 response(s), 16 votes
rajan2006 42 M
47  questions
Is it true ? - 12/3/2008

A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished. ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
rajan2006 42 M
47  questions
Is it true ? - 12/3/2008

Married men live longer than single men. or It only seems longer. ...

6 response(s), 5 votes
For a laugh: Priceless - 12/3/2008

The Good Husband

Jack wakes up with a huge hangover after attending his company's Christmas Party. Jack is not normally a drinker, but the drinks didn't taste like alcohol at all. He didn't even remember how he got home from the party. As bad as he was feeling, he wondered if he did something wrong. Jack had to force himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he sees is a couple of ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
RETREAT OR SURRENDER? - 12/3/2008

When you feel stressed or pained you can’t run to your partner for emotional nourishment becoz he/she is the very source of your pain and turmoil

What do you usually do when you are upset with your partner?

Do you stay and get to the bottom of the "matter" or "run away?":>
...

6 response(s), 14 votes
Manu0623 39 M
58  questions
Why Should We Stay In A Relationship? - 12/1/2008

Make out a sincere post. Thanks ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
Repo__Swappe 55 M
32  questions
What's 'da Hurry? - 12/1/2008

So here I am, writing from a cozy little cyber cafe in Pattaya. Tourists are all bent outt'a shape about not being able to catch a plane out 'o 'da country, but what 'da hey? Why not stay? It's cheaper being on vacation here, even wit all o' 'da bar fines you gotz to pay, then nursing a Manhattan in Memphis.

People are funny. There's this guy over here from Timbuktu, who was ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
mrmilktoast 57 M
142  questions
For the Want of a Shoe: Y2K Revisited - 12/1/2008

Gary North played Paul Revere for Y2K. He was concerned, and rightfully so, that if defective computer software could not be corrected before the end of the 20th Century, that there would be a domino effect from computers crashing, which would lead to the collapse of the banking system, power grid, industrial base, manufacturing, logistics, and return civilization to another Dark Age.

...

1 response(s), 1 vote
ilonggagirl 46 F
9  questions
Is a has a right to evaluate her mom....and say some words for realization? - 12/1/2008

It was almost 7 years when i leave my family and live with my friends.I worked abroad for the desire to makes my parents happy. On this year I've decided to settle my life in my home town and be with my parents.They used to depend on me. One time my mother birthday comes and i never gave her any gift and she complain due to the reason that everything i provide them even its hard for me, no big ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP...(LDR) - 12/1/2008

How can u sustain an LDR? There are lots of things that one must do and lots that one must not do in order to rescue and sustain a long-distance relationship. There are some advice that may look simple but when it comes to the actual execution, it may take more effort than you think.

I believed that...at the outset of an LDR there is nothing more ...


3 response(s), 9 votes
pink_thighs 44 F
6  questions
Keeping Photos Of Your Ex ??? - 12/1/2008

Men... any ideas, personal reasons, and opinions why a guy is still keeping photos of their recent ex? (Please as an exception, dont consider family photos where she is present). Solo pictures of her and pictures of you two. And also, her number (phone/ mobile)... Of course women's opinions are also very much appreciated... ...

8 response(s), 8 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
LOSS OF A SIGNIFICANT RELATIONSHIP... - 11/29/2008

It was said that the loss of a close relationship, especially a relationship with a spouse, can be equally as painful and stressful as the death of a loved one. Matter of fact, everyone who experienced each of both claim that the death of the spousal relationship, especially through divorce, is even more agonizing than the death of a spouse. But still, in ...

5 response(s), 14 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
D A D D Y D O L L ...:( - 11/27/2008

This is a story of a little girl who loved her dad but wasn’t sure what dads did:

"One morning my father didn’t get up and go to work. He went to the hospital and died the next day. I hadn’t thought that much about him before. He was just someone who left and came home and seemed glad to see everyone at night. He opened the jar ...


6 response(s), 17 votes
ilonggagirl 46 F
9  questions
Is it right to react when changes occur?....... In Love relation? - 11/25/2008

I was fall in love to a man 3 years ago but we never get married. I conclude him as the answer to my prayer for the ideal man whom i looking for, He never smoke cigars nor prohibited drugs and he never drink liquor too, most of all He spend time to our church. As the time pass and we live together and stay to the Philippine suddenly he adopt most of Filipino vices drinking and smoking so I want ...

7 response(s), 10 votes
pink_thighs 44 F
6  questions
Why Do Most Westerners Prefer To Go For Asians? - 11/23/2008

I dont fully understand. Why do you think most western men prefer to go for asian women? There are times that i think asian women are far more attractive in bed hehehe... so these men (not all okay?hehe) are only after ya know hehehe...

They say, oh asian women would make better wives Is is because they are easier to manipulate?
...

27 response(s), 31 votes
Email & New Members - 11/19/2008

Hi, thought you might appreciate knowing this if you don't already.

New members (at least standard members) cannot view or respond to email.

I asked FFF about this and here is the response.



Dear Member,

Thank you for your email.

The limitation for viewing/reading email has been set for our new registrants, so don't be discouraged. As your ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
Repo__Swappe 55 M
32  questions
Nursing My Drinks - 11/17/2008

Well, I've really hit the jack pot this time! I found a post card info request for some University Nursing School in the Caribbean. I tore the card from a poster that had a picture of a sail boat, full 'o babes, and only one guy.

You kind of have to ask yourself, "what kind of man would study for a career as a nurse, " but then I figured that the guy's not gay, but dumb like a fox ...

2 response(s), 10 votes
orchidlady47 52 F
42  questions
What Is the right Answer? - 11/16/2008

My ex and I have a house in Cebu.. And after the divorce the house just in my name only. But I let him stay in that house everytime he's visiting in Cebu. Since after divorce he visit Phil. 3 X a year and during that time he have different girlfriends and stayed w/ him in the house. And next month I am going to Cebu to visit my family and my ex is back in the US. So the question is What is the ...

17 response(s), 16 votes
ilonggagirl 46 F
9  questions
How you fell the Christmas season of today? - 11/16/2008

Christmas originally define as Joy & blessed. As far as i observed today Christmas means worry and anxiety. worry in the since that people think how to survive the crisis of poverty most specially in the philippines.Parents are anxious of thinking how to let their fell the real christmas if nothing on their pocket to buy a present to their .

4 response(s), 8 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
A KISS... IS STILL A KISS... - 11/13/2008

Breath is our first link to life. We live because we breathe.

KISSINGis an act of sharing one’s breath, or, to put it more beautifully, sharing ur life with another.

When u offer an intimate kiss to ur partner, u not only tell ur partner u love him/her, you also try to share ur very life, so to speak.

In a relationship ...


11 response(s), 29 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
"COMMITMENT" TO EACH OTHER - 11/12/2008

Long term relationships require a commitment from both partner. Before committing to another person, make sure this is one person whom you really want to spend ur life with. But first, spend a good deal of time understanding rather than judging.

Ask yourself these:

Are u both determined to consistently satisfy each other not just during ...


4 response(s), 26 votes
jean1013712 52 F
12  questions
languages of love.... - 11/12/2008

just to share...the five languages of love; 1.words of affirmations 2.quality time 3.act of service 4.gifts 5.physical touch using the five languages of love...for me its goes like this... act of service 20%....quality time 20%....physical touch 30%.....words of affirmations 15%...gifts 15% total of 100%......we must identify the language of love of our partner...for us to be more ...

4 response(s), 3 votes
bokboyong 61 M
4  questions
money matters - 11/11/2008

since the discussion is veering towards money matters; about the economy, gov't aid, personal money/retirement plans, i have a soul-searching question.

is it all about the money to you? is money your number one priority; acquiring, making, getting, receiving, ....so you can spend, enjoy, indulge..in life? ...

3 response(s), 6 votes
bokboyong 61 M
4  questions
do you still remember? - 11/9/2008

...your first love.

i do. i still think of her once in awhile, even after all these years. i was in 3rd yr(11 grade) then and she was in 4th(12 grade). it didn't last long, only until she graduated. the happiest year of my high school years. oh boy, was i heart-broken. i spent that entire summer vacation listening to love songs.

in my case, ...


10 response(s), 5 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
REMAINING SINGLE OR...REMARRYING? - 11/9/2008

For me, remaining single is simply a choice. It is a lifestyle and a vocation in itself. Remaining as one doesn’t mean not having emotionally close and ... intimate relationships with others whether men or women We all need emotional intimacy no matter what state of life we choose

Is it a stigma or a disgrace to ...


9 response(s), 31 votes
kuray_kuray 46 F
1  question
How far would you be willing to go to experience true love? - 11/7/2008

How far would you be willing to go? Are there limits? What have you done to try and have True Love? ...

8 response(s), 5 votes
nathalie28 44 F
18  questions
Be my guest.... - 11/4/2008

while:we Filipinos are knwn for our legendary hospitality, can the same be said of our houseguest manners?...

0 response(s), 0 votes
nathalie28 44 F
18  questions
Workplace..... - 11/4/2008

I told my boss that i dont mind being transferred to another department as long as the pay is good but i was only half-kidding.now i'm afraid that shes been offended, or that she's already facilitating my transfer.i love where i am now and dont want to move.what should i do?...

2 response(s), 3 votes
nathalie28 44 F
18  questions
BOY II MAN..... - 11/4/2008

what is the right potion for a guy who's no longer a boy but not yet a man?...

2 response(s), 2 votes