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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Filipino FriendFinder.
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nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
ASSUME - 4/30/2008

In our daily life misunderstanding, misconception and misinterpretation happens and most of it boils down to one's assumption.

In the dictionary, it explains ASSUME = Take to be true without proof.

When we assume, we would be 50% correct and 50% wrong but if we choose to confirm and clarify then, we are 100% correct.

It is a simple thing but we sometime get into ...

8 response(s), 14 votes
bluesapphire9365 58 F
10  questions
Road music this summer time... - 4/30/2008

Nothing can bring a family closer together or make them fidgety and irritable as quickly as the choice of music on long road trips. The trick is to find a happy compromise that can have everybody singing along in harmony...any suggestions?...care to share some type of music you enjoy while long driving? ...

14 response(s), 12 votes
odette317 48 F
25  questions
Bossy Person - 4/30/2008

How would you interact with a very controlling person?

Within a group, we usually find one who wants to lead, who wants to control, leading may not be bad but if leading goes hand in hand with controlling I don't think that is a healthy practice. We should not impose what we want to happen, rather we plan out and work out with others what we expect to happen.

If you were in such ...

11 response(s), 8 votes
TEXASIA 61 F
6  questions
Mixed Marriages Part 2 - 4/29/2008

Since this was a controversy lets clarify something.

Lets define a "mixed" marriage.

Is the marriage between 2 minorities a "mixed marriage or just 2 people from different heritage and background and beliefs?

Say, Asian & Hispanic, ,

or a person of mixed heritage & a white person? Jewish & Muslim

Catholic & Protestant?

Buddhist & Taoist? ...

7 response(s), 15 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Virtual Disappointment - 4/29/2008

This is a friends experience shared to me this afternoon...

She met him in a chat room. They began instant messaging, and then came the phone calls. She was leery at first, having never wanted a long distance relationship, but things progressed into something more.They talked for hours each day. Finally after 14 months, They were going to meet. She received flowers for her ...

10 response(s), 19 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Singleness - 4/29/2008

I guess I always thought I'd be married by around the age of 25, spend quality time with my husband for a couple of years, and then think about having . On my 27th birthday, I started to get just a little worried about my single state. Nothing major, just a little meltdown.Don't get me wrong, I'm not moping, I'm not unhappy, I love my single life, but there are times I wish I had someone to share ...

6 response(s), 19 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
If only, If only one can say................ - 4/29/2008

One Saturday a month our frriends will gather in some pubs to watch some live soccer matches. Normally we go to the same pub where a lot of filipinas work. These girls work there as enetertainer, meaning, they sit with the customer and talk to customer.

We have know most of the girls there because they have been coming back to the same pub to "work" after every 2 or 3 months of stay in ...

4 response(s), 8 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
I feel like a "Hottie" - 4/28/2008

I am really feeling bored this afternoon logged in at FFF ...tried chatting but there's word war at ELR so i left.

I clicked on "who viewed you" and i saw diffrent profiles that viewed me... my attention was turned to the list of handles that placed me in their "hotlist" i was like wowoweeee!!! am i HOT???

So my question is what is your criteria of puting someone on their ...

13 response(s), 15 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
Question for the Women (Wife) - 4/24/2008

Guys (Men), your opinion are welcome ==================================== Just curious.

Both of you - GF and BF were together for 6 years and then got married for 12 years. You both have (3 sons) together, He is a loving husband and a loving father too. A responsible man too.

One day you (wife / woman)found out ...

7 response(s), 13 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Deduction - 4/23/2008

I have this belief that if you're "ugly"/"nasty" to even one person, then you're considered an "ugly" or "nasty" person.

Do you think this is true?


EDIT: I guess this question was phrased improperly. I blame my lack of sleep. Anyways, my belief is not about exterior looks, but about the character of the person.

An example: If someone is nice to you, but is a ...

6 response(s), 6 votes
breakthrough65 59 F
1  question
why it hurts? - 4/22/2008

i'm in love and i know i am loved...but why it hurts?...

12 response(s), 4 votes
TEXASIA 61 F
6  questions
FRIEND NETWORK - 4/21/2008

How do you feel about this "Friend Network" feature of FFF?

Is it really used to make friends?

Is it used to see how many you can get to join?

What do you use it for?



I am not impressed by someone with many opposite sex friends in his network. I will not be one of them.

If he is not a friend, he is not welcome.

5 response(s), 13 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Perfect Person - 4/21/2008

What matters the most:

Having the perfect lover or having the perfect friend?

No, don't pick both. Compare the ideas. Consider these identities disjointed and separated. Anyways, if you pick both, it ruins the point of the question.

10 response(s), 9 votes
rubedude 66 M
3  questions
Pinoy in the eyes of Pinoy? - 4/21/2008

I was in Metro Manila last year attending a some kind of fund raising gatherings, couple of months before they had bombing incident in nearby Hotel. Needless to say Filipino Security Personnels were at the entrance of this gathering. Gentlemen and ladies alike are frisk, but I can't help to notice also that most foreign race were just let thru and greeted better than their Filipino counterparts, ...

4 response(s), 6 votes
jean1013712 52 F
12  questions
ENERGY POWER OF SEX? - 4/20/2008

SEX CAN RECEIVE AND GIVE ENERGY TO OUR BODY.. CAN YOU DESCRIBED THE POWER YOU GAINED AFTER YOU HAD SEX TO ...JUST A BED MATE? A LOVED MATE?

4 response(s), 4 votes
cutiebaby122569 43 F
19  questions
College Degree - 4/20/2008

Is having a college education or college degree can give you a better life or can make you become successful, powerful and rich?

13 response(s), 14 votes
TEXASIA 61 F
6  questions
Interested but unnoticed - 4/20/2008

I am very much interested in a certain man here in FFF. He is still sulking over a lost love. How can I get his attention and in a subtle way show him that I am interested? I do not want to throw myself at him. Don't suggest winking.

10 response(s), 6 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Fidelity - 4/19/2008

Studying protein synthesis provoked me to write this questions. Now, we all know that proteins and nucleic acids must be synthesized with high fidelity, and with that said, shouldn't be love?

I remember my childhood best friend and how she and I would play kitchen, dress up, and talk about our dream guys. We had such a great imagination, but wouldn't most 2nd graders?

Anyways, ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
Plight of Single Mother - 4/16/2008

Excuse me!! Is that true? Single mother’s population in the Philippines are ncreasing? And some single mother’s age is as low as 19yrs old and in the average age of the single mother is between 23 to 25 years old? Most of the single mothers are not a married!

If it is true, if the boyfriend does not support her or if he ran away, the baby has to be taken care by the mother, ...

10 response(s), 17 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
If your life were to end now, what unsettling business would you settle? - 4/15/2008

What would you do? Would you tell the love of your life that you love him/her? Would you spend more time with your family and ? Would you travel more? Would you spend all your life savings on that one dream car? Would you go sky diving? Be it one thing or a list of things, I would still like to hear it!

5 response(s), 6 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
Common? Acceptable? - 4/15/2008

One interesting topic I had with a Liberia footballer in Singapore last Saturday. We were talking about a very famous footballer in Liberia who made it big in France and Italy and now retired from the sport as a millionaire and residing in the US. The topic was about his “” whose mother was not married to the famous footballer.

He said, it is common in Africa to have a ...

4 response(s), 7 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Think of something you need to be successful in the dating and commitment world. - 4/14/2008

What do you think is something you need to be "successful" in the dating world? What do you think is something that keeps a relationship strong?



What is going to make you stand out amongst all the possible bachelors and bachelorettes in the pool?

What will make you the hottest item in the market?

2 response(s), 7 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
"No Pain, No Gain" - 4/14/2008

You've heard it at least once if you were once in a sports team.

however this is all about women's high heel shoes " a pair of pumps, a pair of stilettos".Whenever I go shopping and I do try on heels, I always feel a sense of unnaturalness once I place my feet in 3 inch heels. It's some kind of feeling in which you're thrown forward, but you have to pull it off by throwing yourself back ...

11 response(s), 11 votes
smiley1957 66 F
74  questions
B L A B B I N G@#$%$#@&%$#@# - 4/13/2008

It’s a common belief that when a guy is "blabbing too much"

1. He’s said to be "“bakla"(gay)/:>/:>/:> Of course we know "bakla" are just the same with women who are naturally... Blabbers

2. Sometimes…they are even told to be like a... "Masahol pa sa putang-babae" (Worst than a real ...


40 response(s), 34 votes
GagahGurl 45 F
1  question
Just an Observation - 4/10/2008

Hello to all of you out there. As a new member in this site I'm kinda confused on how people vote for the most respected responders. No offense meant to anyone in particular, but I can't understand why people here seem to take things >>>> personally ??? Do each of you here know each other in person? How come good responses don't get good results and so-so comments gain lots of votes ? Or it ...

9 response(s), 12 votes
loy312 52 F
21  questions
ATTEMPTED ?/ WHAT EVER!! HELP? - 4/10/2008

>>A WOMAN IN MID 30'S, OWNS A BUSINESS AND HAVE AN EMPLOYEE WHO IS ALMOST LIKE HER FATHER(PAST 50), AND HE'S THE ONE WHO MANAGE THE SHOP. >>>3 YRS.AGO, KNOWING THAT SHE DOESNT HAVE ANY RELATIONSHIP FOR SUCH A LONG LONG TIME THIS MAN ALMOST TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER>> DROVE HER INTO A MOTEL, AFTER A BUSINESS MEETING, THE LADY SAID TO HERSELF, ONCE HER FOOT STEP OUT OF THE CAB, SHE SHOULD MAKE IT ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
Natural Way to Enchance BB - 4/9/2008

Read an article sometime ago about enchancing the boobs in natural way. All you need (1) committement, (2) water or tissue paper or toilet paper.

Direction:-

Rub in between of your boobs (in the middle, in between of the 2 boobs) with water, 1 or 2 times a day for about 10 to 20 seconds everyday.

In the absence of the water, you can use tissue paper or the toilet paper. ...

9 response(s), 14 votes
mayumi_brooke 45 F
14  questions
Biggest Misperception - 4/9/2008

Most of the people I've met thought I was a snobby and stuck-up type of person when infact I was just shy.

So my question is...

“What’s the biggest misperception people have about you?”
...

6 response(s), 7 votes
mayumi_brooke 45 F
14  questions
Jealous? - 4/9/2008

"Who's More Jealous, Men Or Women?"...

6 response(s), 9 votes
mayumi_brooke 45 F
14  questions
What Group Did You Fall Into In High School? - 4/8/2008

What Group Did You Fall Into In High School?

Ako, I was one of the bullies...LoL.
...

4 response(s), 3 votes