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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Filipino FriendFinder.
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Ihab5 48 M
7  questions
First Love - 9/16/2008

Why we can not forget our first Love"?
Why we always Compare our first Love" with any new one?
How we can find the second Love easily?

Ihab......

12 response(s), 6 votes
cecille2005 62 F
26  questions
DO MARRIED GUYS GO FOR SECRET RELATIONSHIP? - 9/16/2008

THERE ARE ALOT OF GUYS MAKING FRIENDS RIGHT HERE FFF SITE, SOOO THEY DO HIDE THEIR STATUS BUT IN REALITY THEY'RE MARRIED....ANYTHING YOU WANT TO SHARE ?

8 response(s), 13 votes
True_Blue22 50 F
11  questions
FAN MAIL - 9/15/2008

HAve you ever loved/idolized/liked a celebrity that you decided to write them? Did you get any reply?

When i was 13, i wrote a letter to Ricky Martin ( one of the boyband Menudo ) telling him i love him and i want to marry him. Im still waiting for a reply....

5 response(s), 4 votes
True_Blue22 50 F
11  questions
Annoying Habits: The Other Side - 9/15/2008

Its easy for us to point out someone else's annoying habits. But can you honestly say you dont have one?

I for one have a few: social smoking, offering unasked-for medical diagnoses without a shred of evidence and buying lots of things during sales seasons most of which i have no use for.

Im workinhg hard on the first one, its not too bad because of the smoking ban on public ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
cecille2005 62 F
26  questions
DO OLDIES GO FOR DAYTIME ON THEIR FIRST DATING ? - 9/15/2008

MAKES ME WONDER, WHY DO OLD MEN PREFER TO GO OUT DAYTIME DATING ON THEIR FIRST DATE ?

8 response(s), 11 votes
nathalie28 44 F
18  questions
sincerety - 9/15/2008

is your guy really sincere?or is he just ngpapakitang tao?

7 response(s), 8 votes
Ms_Behavin 40 F
20  questions
* Can a person love more than one person at the same time? Why or why not? - 9/15/2008

Oh Yes. But I can imagine it would be very complex and very difficult. But of course they can. It's one of the reasons why when you are with someone, you don't allow yourself to get involved with someone else you feel attracted to. Mixed feelings and emotions get carried away, and you lock yourself in a really nasty position. You can not only hurt others by allowing yourself to ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
Ms_Behavin 40 F
20  questions
The Dating Game - 9/15/2008

I'm not cut out for casual dating. I suck at making small talks. I don't enjoy the company of strangers. In a party situation, I stick around with my circle of close friends. Basically, I'm shy, unsociable and very conserved. I also dislike talking about myself as it makes me uncomfortable.

Casual dating has been an awkward experience for me. My fair share of bad dates have opened my ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
Ms_Behavin 40 F
20  questions
* Should men have a say when it comes to the issue of abortion? Why or why not? - 9/14/2008

Honestly I think they should have some kind of say. I think too often how they feel is set aside because it's the women who has to carry. But pregnancy and babies are very real. Men have feelings too. This subject can have a huge impact on them as well. I think it's a little unfair to not give them some kind of say.

I don't know. I suppose it really depends on the ...


20 response(s), 11 votes
elizabethvivian 49 F
12  questions
mutual promise to marry - 9/13/2008

hypothetical scenario:

in the midst of passionate love making, while filming a porn flick, two porn stars got carried away and pledged their eternal love for each other. to make a long story short (and less erotic), these two decided to get married. they pulled out a piece of paper and drafted a contract that stated they would be married on a date certain to no one else but each other. ...

6 response(s), 11 votes
pink_thugs 44 F
7  questions
If you are to die soon, who would you give the last phone call to? - 9/12/2008

If you are in your last minutes of life, and you think you should make a phone call, who would call on the phone and why?

I will call my recent ex-boyfriend and i will inform him that im dying lol and i will thank him for the love and will give him little encouragements. But the sad part is, i no longer have his contact numbers lol! (Cant memorize them)

And of course i still ...

8 response(s), 5 votes
nathalie28 44 F
18  questions
IS this LOVE - 9/12/2008

if you give more time, attention, care, promises, and being an exclusive to that guy.it is possible that you feel inlove to him?...

6 response(s), 3 votes
Ms_Behavin 40 F
20  questions
Does your Internet persona differ much from you in real life? Why or why not? - 9/12/2008

. . . a little bit, yes.

I think that when I have the chance to write things down, I tend to communicate more coherently. I live for the backspace key, editing, having the chance to re-word things . . . I feel like I can actually think when I "talk, " as opposed to having real life conversations and not being able to delete silly things I say.

Otherwise, though, a ...


1 response(s), 4 votes
Ms_Behavin 40 F
20  questions
smart women= threatening? - 9/12/2008

Why is it that some men prefer brainless bimbos over a woman who can hold her own in an intellectual conversation? I have several women friends who lament the fact that guys seem to prefer the airheads as opposed to a woman who actually thinks for herself and has convictions.

The mass media does not help the cause for intelligent women .Even news channels, save for a ...


5 response(s), 10 votes
mrmilktoast 57 M
142  questions
Proper English grammar and the Law - 9/12/2008

Since marriage is defined as a joining between a man and a woman, and the State of California now offers a domestic partnership in equity with marriage, but to include couples of the same gender, a marriage license no longer provides designation of parties as Bride and Groom, rather, as Party A and Party B.

Would you find that acceptable ...

7 response(s), 2 votes
sexycutie21 40 F
12  questions
why life is always unfair?? - 9/11/2008

When i born, we're poor. When i grew up we're still poor. Im . My family did nothing. My father and mother got separated and now that i think i have everything, why is it still everything is bothering me??
first my mother, she is now separated with her lazy mister. But still the fact is we still cant make family whole again. Now, my father has a mistress but all of my step mothers ...

18 response(s), 11 votes
cecille2005 62 F
26  questions
DO YOU SLEEP WITH CLOTHES ON ? - 9/9/2008

SOMETIMES, WITH OUR WARM WEATHER HERE IN PHILIPPINES.....I TEND TO GO TO SLEEP WITH SOME OPTIONS....WITH CLOTHES ON ...

24 response(s), 15 votes
True_Blue22 50 F
11  questions
Would you date your friend's Ex? - 9/9/2008

I have a friend who broke up with a boyfriend. She was devastated because she cares about the man but eventually accepted that the relationship have run its course. She moved on, well , according to her.

Then one of our mutual friend started seeing the EX. Then the catfight begins. Friend A said friend B have no morals for dating the Ex ( by the way, the ex is smokin hot!!). Friend B ...

14 response(s), 15 votes
True_Blue22 50 F
11  questions
What would you say - 9/9/2008

When you bump into your ex out of the blue?

7 response(s), 8 votes
elizabethvivian 49 F
12  questions
consenting adults - 9/8/2008

when we go beyond the norms of what society dictates upon us, we always have the excuse that it is alright because we are "consenting adults."

if a 16 year old consents to having sex... do we accept it as if she were an adult with the right discernment?

when do we actually become adults? when can we actually say that it's alright?

9 response(s), 15 votes
True_Blue22 50 F
11  questions
Does age matters? - 9/6/2008

why is it that if a man dated a woman who is 15 or 20 years younger, he is most likely be called a stud or a sugar daddy. And if a woman dates a man who 15 or 20 years younger , she is most likely be called a slut ( sometimes even worst names) or a sugar mommy.

WOuld you date someone who is 20 years younger? And what do you think of people dating others who are younger than them. ( i ...

13 response(s), 10 votes
elizabethvivian 49 F
12  questions
arrrggg!!! - 9/6/2008

i'm feeling kinda restless right now... cafe_ole is gone... gangsta's gone... loveme's gone... and smiley's nowhere to be found.

i'm missing the milk man's treads..

and where's repo?

arrggg... i need a pick me up!

where's everybody?

15 response(s), 25 votes
Ms_Behavin 40 F
20  questions
What is your worst dating experience? - 9/6/2008

This is going to be completely politically incorrect, so if you are easily offended, please stop reading *now*.

It was Friday night. I was set up for a date with this guy. We went(we were w/friends) into a bar / night club. Then we got into dancing. He was an amazing dancer. I was having a good time...

There was one slight problem. It was a busy night. Loads of ...


9 response(s), 12 votes
jane43 37 F
2  questions
who can save a relationship better? - 9/6/2008

the man or the woman?

7 response(s), 3 votes
ISLAND_FLOWER 53 F
2  questions
TURN OFFS - 9/6/2008

What is it that would discourage you about a person of interest? A "TURN OFF".

Be it male or a female.

This may have been discussed previous to my joining FFF.

Feel free to make a list as long or as short as you want.

I have mine but I'll wait.

9 response(s), 14 votes
elizabethvivian 49 F
12  questions
in a hurry to find a parter - 9/6/2008

contrary to what people say that life is short... life is actually too long. according to the national center for health statistics, the going life expectancy rate is 77.8 years. good lord, that's a long time to live.

im thinking i am 33 years old today.. and if i die at 77 that would be more than another lifetime for me. (shoot.. im feeling like a baby right now... hahaha!)

so ...

25 response(s), 14 votes
jane43 37 F
2  questions
What Do Men Like To Hear? - 9/6/2008

Women like to be pampered and told that they are beautiful. They like to be told that they take care of their man and they love him. Women enjoy hearing these words. What about men? What do they like to hear? ...

10 response(s), 3 votes
cecille2005 62 F
26  questions
FOR LONG DISTANCE LOVE AFFAIR, ARE YOU ABLE TO TRAVEL THAT FAR TO BE ABLE TO GET YOUR LOVER? - 9/5/2008

NOT EVERYONE OF US IS ABLE TO TRAVEL THAT FAR, BUT FOR OTHERS IT WORKS! YES IT DID WORK OUT FOR THEM.......

11 response(s), 8 votes
mrmilktoast 57 M
142  questions
Ugly Ducklings called to Mount Isa, Oz - 9/5/2008

The mayor of high desert mining town, Mount Isa, in Australia, says that there is a 5 to 1 shortage of women to men in his town, and that ugly women ought to move there, to find a man.

The current female residents of Mount Isa, marched in the streets as protest, and are calling for the mayor's resignation. Seems they think he was calling THEM ugly.

I've seen photos, they are ...

17 response(s), 8 votes
Ms_Behavin 40 F
20  questions
If you could only be remembered with one word, what word would it be? - 9/4/2008

I've thought about this for a while now, and I think I've finally come up with an answer I can give comfortably. I think I speak for a lot of people when I say that it isn't easy narrowing yourself down to one word. Words are powerful. Just one can go a long ways and carry a lot of meaning behind it. But...personally, it gave me something to think about and even had me questioning how ...

7 response(s), 6 votes