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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Filipino FriendFinder.
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fight_provoker 48 F
4  questions
Can They Count On Us? - 7/1/2004

Some members ask our help so they rely on the words we give them. Can we be civilized and educated enough to post non-sarcastic, non-discrimating advice?

9 response(s), 1 vote
cuttie9577 46 F
3  questions
say somethn - 6/28/2004

is it possible to begin and build a relationship based on a lasting love???

8 response(s), 0 votes
thewriter1193 64 F
9  questions
My Heart Still Belongs To Her... - 6/28/2004

I just received an e-mail today (June 2from a female FFF member who happens to be a friend of mine since January. She was there when I was heart broken twice in a row sending e-cards, encouraging words and special pages. She knows me as a bisexual woman and she's expecting an affair which is more than I can offer (comradeship). I told her I am tired of loving for the moment and that I ...

6 response(s), 6 votes
simply_abbie 52 F
2  questions
How Can I thank you??? - 6/25/2004

I'd like to thank all the FFF members who took time to enjoy reading the article I posted under RELATIONSHIP-HUMOR entitled: PINOYS' FOOD TRIP--FROM A BRITISH POINT OF VIEW. I have noted that most of you voted EXCELLENT for the article. Although I posted the article, all due and acclaim goes to Mr. Sutherland---his article was written entertainingly! To those who haven't seen and read ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
Rodrigo2000 48 M
1  question
Warning to all the Filipina Ladies here - 6/25/2004

I´m an expat working as an Engineer here in Manila. Recently, I came across this website and got really interested. I spent quite some time just browsing. Anyway, I saw someone here that I recognized. I did a double take as I wasn´t sure if this is the guy. But when I went to see his profile, I saw that he had another picture and yes, an English guy. Sure enough, it is him. My ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
chitsexify 63 F
12  questions
Dont fall in love with an internet guy/gal...can you handle it? - 6/25/2004

On too many instances and experiences, one is left stuck in his/her room facing the pc for such hope that this is their realities long been awaited. I believe there is much in the real world out there but how do we convince ourselves in the age where technology is high and cyberspace is just about here and there.

3 response(s), 0 votes
Maybe its time for me to bid this portion temporarily a farewell.... - 6/24/2004

To everyone i have reached and felt that somehow, or that one way or another i have given them good insights on my opinions, suggestions, comments and advises, i sincerely hope that u find them worthwhile heeding or even for just reading and then agreeing...even to those who commented neutral and especially to those who believed otherwise, i appreciate them all..i am giving way to those ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
fight_provoker 48 F
4  questions
Magulang na mas inuuna ang sarili... - 6/22/2004

Ano ang masasabi nyo sa ama o ina na mas inuuna ang pansariling kaligayahan kaysa sa kapakanan at safety ng kani-kanilang anak? Maraming pangyayari sa US at Canada at maging sa Pilipinas na napapariwara ang mga anak (ang mga bata naman ay namamatay) dahil di mapigilan ng magulang nila ang tawag ng kamunduhan, na di sila mapakali na walang kasiping sa pagtulog. Any comment?

4 response(s), 1 vote
chitsexify 63 F
12  questions
If an email/chatter BF sends money, is he really true? - 6/21/2004

Kevin is an american chatter who just wooes me for over a week now but he offered some gifts and assistance, say, money particullarly. Will I accept it? and can i brand him a real one indeed with pure intentions?

4 response(s), 0 votes
chitsexify 63 F
12  questions
Why is it I enjoyed seeing the afterglow than the sex itself? - 6/21/2004

I love seeing a guy who had just gone through with sex with me...i want to enjoy the afterglow. But I believe most of the guys will just tire and sleep after sex...on usual occasion will turn their backs on their bedmates...and sometimes will just shy away...those i dont like! <br> Why do I like the feeling of a shared-afterglow? I much likely enjoy it than the actual sex, but of ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
chitsexify 63 F
12  questions
Are Pink Dudes Better Than Filipinos? - 6/21/2004

I begin to like caucasians specifically americans, why? simple...in the sense that they dont hold me in the neck. If they begin to love me, they see to it I still have wings to fly...when filipinos would love caging me instead. Let me ask your advise now and see if we tally or differ.

7 response(s), 2 votes
Sexylady2003 41 F
12  questions
Are all guys the same, making a broken promises? - 6/20/2004

Hi, I dont know if I am going to call myself a fool for believing in a promises and looking forward on it that it will happen or the guy will really give it. Dont think I am materialistic but I dont mean material things here. I mean here a promises of LOVE and never LEAVE me. Better dont say anything than promising all things then break it up. You guys, are all of you like that? Why youre ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
thewriter1193 64 F
9  questions
THE FEELING GROWS STRONGER EVERY SINGLE DAY! - 6/19/2004

It’s been five months since we met via cyberspace but I still can’t get over her. I tried to preoccupy myself with paper works, write-ups, babysitting my and surfing the net but to no avail. She’s always on my mind and I even pretend she doesn’t exist in my world anymore. I hurt her real bad and I know she’s not ready yet to forgive me but I terribly miss ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
gozen 57 M
3  questions
how do you say 2 a girl..break n tyo na hndi cya massktan? - 6/18/2004

cugro mg usap kyo ng mabuti at sabhin m sa kanya na frends nlang kyo pra hndi cya msaktan at humanap na cya ng ms higit sa aken.kzi na papabayaan n kita.

6 response(s), 0 votes
gozen 57 M
3  questions
anu ang ggwin m my asawa kna tapos my dumating sa buhay m ms higit pa sa asawa mo? - 6/18/2004

ang pg ibig msyado malalim hndi ntin alam kung panu gumawa ang nza taas.dmrating sa atin ang pg subok akala ntin yun na hndi pla my darating sa atin n hindi ntin inasahanpero tyo rin ang ggwa ng paraan pra maayos e2.

4 response(s), 1 vote
gozen 57 M
3  questions
bketz my babae msarap mg mahal at msarap sa sex? - 6/18/2004

ang mga babae ay hndi pare pareho at cugro swerte ntin pg ang babae npunta sa atin ay nza kanya na ang lahat ng katangian.. sana isa ako dun ..kung ako isa sa swenerte hndi na ako titingin sa iba.

3 response(s), 0 votes
She Is My Friend... - 6/17/2004

Nakilala ko siya dito sa FFF 6 months ago, hindi pa kami nagkikita ni writer, but i know na totoong tao siya at alam na alam ko ang naging affair niya kina Pam at Cristy, wala siyang itinago sa akin. I even chatted with Cristy before the end of May.I tried to save their relationship. Miss Cristy, kung sakaling mabasa mo ito, please naman, tigilan nyo na si writer! maganda naman ang ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
machete77 47 M
1  question
How can i keep a long distance relationship work? - 6/15/2004

As most Filipinos would say: "(its very hard to find a job in the phils)", and live a modest living, so a lot of us would rather work abroad. I used to have a gf before i left abroad and lasted a year after. i would really like have some advice on how to keep a long distance relationship work, i would really appreciate it if it would come from a girl's point of view!,

9 response(s), 0 votes
am i still in love with him or not? - 6/15/2004

weve been friends 4 almost 9 yrs. and slowly, im beginning to like ang love him on a different aspect. yeah, im in-love with him 4 a more than 5 years now. havent had the chance to tell him how i feel coz im afraid of losing the friendship and losing him. but, now.... i lose him anyway, we're not that close anymore. havent seen him 4 a year. but then, one time i had the chance to see him. ...

8 response(s), 1 vote
Is it proper for me to speak to my fiance's ex-wife.... - 6/14/2004

I want opinions if it's okey for me to speak and identify myself to my fiance's ex wife who happens to be my townmate in PI. My boyfriend haven't told her ex wife who is this 'lady' he's meeting in July(that's me) when they spoke regarding where there will stay while he is away. The ex insisted to know who's the girl but my bf told her it's not her business anymore. After knowing that ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
thewriter1193 64 F
9  questions
I WASN'T THE ONLY ONE WITH DIFFERENT APPELLATIONS! - 6/13/2004

Cristina (lonely2004jpn) was so persistent to have a relationship with me. I had no intention of courting her because my heart still belongs to Pam but Cristy was so persistent so I had no choice but to accept her and be my “panakip-butas” for a while. I tried to break off with the affair for several times because I didn’t like to deceive anymore but she would leave ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
pyrhum 37 M
5  questions
Aout Gayness and Homophobia - 6/9/2004

What is it with some of the people nowadays that they seem to narrow-minded that they don't understand us GAYS. When I mean gays, I am talking about the whole homosexual world including as well are bisexuals and transgendered people... Oo nga, umuusad nga ang teknolohiya, bakit ganun, ang utak naman ng ibang mga tao parang lalong kumikitid??? Hindi ba being a prejudice un??? Although not ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
thewriter1193 64 F
9  questions
What's this...the real man is insecure of me! - 6/9/2004

I received an e-mail from Gambit_13 of Caloocan last June 9 at my yahoo add. He is the current bf of my ex-girlfriend who I never loved. I was forced to accept her because she was lonely, depressed, would leave FFF the soonest and wouldn’t go online anymore. She admitted crying out loud and missing me so badly. I wanted to tell her about myself but I was hindered when she said ...

7 response(s), 5 votes
Ivy27 48 F
11  questions
why there are some guys can't understand? - 6/9/2004

I have a friend of mine who is verry close to me.We shared a lot of things, laughster, jokes, crying times and etc.Until one day he reveal his true feelings with me, he loves me..I like him too but I can't start a relationship with him becoz I'm already engage to somebody..I'd explain everything to him that it couldn't possible anymore, and I love my BF too!!He could never understand me..he ...

5 response(s), 0 votes
he was there, then gone, then there again, gone for the second time and finally came back again.. - 6/8/2004

yes, that was how it went and finally he is with me again..it's an on and off thing and now things have stayed this time, more than usual, so do u believe it will last this time?..i just was too insistent and believed that things will turn out for the best, despite what happened so i did not turn my back on him..no, there wasnt a third party, no petty arguments, no altercations, no hidden ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
SimpleMe2003 54 F
3  questions
A society that's cruel on singletons......... - 6/8/2004

First my question - why does society look down on successful, single people? Why can't people believe that some people are happy living the single life, in the same way that we singles believe in love and marriage for other people? <br> I said this because I'm in my early 30s, and modesty aside I am successful both in my career and my small business. I could say I have the good ...

6 response(s), 1 vote
why do some people on the net lie? - 6/3/2004

i have met a quite number of people, who would lie what their real name is.they seemed not to have remembered giving a different name the next time they were asked again for their names.i wonder why a person with the same handle can have different names?i asked one and he gave me his name.i thought it was his real name, the next time i asked him again, he gave another name.why??i once heard ...

9 response(s), 1 vote
thewriter1193 64 F
9  questions
Be on guard when you're online! - 6/1/2004

This is just a reminder to those cyber space fanatics like me. For four months, I was indulged to a one-on-one chat with two women from Bulacan and Japan. Both of them talked to me from 4-8 hours daily on a separate ocassion. The woman in Japan and I had cyber sex twice a week, we had “tampuhan” and we joked around. Either of the two never knew the real me although I never ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
SimpleMe2003 54 F
3  questions
What attracts opposite sex on the Cyber World? - 5/31/2004

What is the first thing that attracts opposite sex on the cyber world? Is it the stunning photo, well edited profile, age, location, etc.? <br> Appreciate if you could share your views on the above.

3 response(s), 0 votes
was i wrong... - 5/31/2004

i met a friend in another site.we became familiar with each other through constant emails and talks over the phone.everyday he made sure, informing me on his whereabouts, whether work or family-related.one time he left for las vegas with friends and we said our usual bid of goodbyes, nothing too emotional or very attached for that matter, just a simple take care, etc.he got jammed in the ...

2 response(s), 0 votes