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odette317 48 F
18  Articles
When No Means Yes   5/18/2008

How true is it that when women say "NO" what they meant is actually a "YES"? I don't say No when what I want to say is Yes, what if the man will take my No as a real No, then I may lose that one opportunity.

Next time, never say NO if you meant it to be Yes....

2 Comments, 70 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
tresss 39 F
19  Articles
to come back   2/19/2008

you;re asking me to come back and have things the way it used to be, ,, tell me how? you turned your back on me without saying goodbye filled my life with tears and pain since then and now that i have every pieces of my life that you broke back you're asking me to come back and telling me you loved me where was you're love when i was alone and crying???I had you're love and im greatful to have ...

1 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
tresss 39 F
19  Articles
No more "You"   2/19/2008

You taught me how to love so deep that i cannot forget it, but you never teach me how to end these pains that till now in my heart since the day you left me, for years you've been gone i asked myself to go on yet each night your face is the last picture on my mind, ,, how could i ever loved once more if my heart is filled with you and your memories...i learn to put chances on the air but asking ...

1 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
2447star 59 F
18  Articles
Marriage: Not For Me   5/10/2007

I was married twice. Once divorced and then a widow.

I don't want to get married again.

I thought I wanted to because I was lonely after the death of my second husband who was the perfect man for me.

I met a lot of guys and got engaged three times. I just broke off with fiance number 3 and I think I have learned my lesson and this is, I don't need a man to fulfill me. ...

4 Comments, 64 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
twinkle23_2007 59 F
225  Articles
How to Say “No”   3/10/2007

How to Say “No” Leaders are forever being asked for something, . If you have people working for you, you also will have that problem, . You will be asked for favors, permission, advice, and a raise in pay. Unfortunately, you cannot always grant these things. Although you may feel that you would be better accepted if you could respond favorably more often, many times the proper and ...

1 Comments, 33 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
raven767 68 M
1  Article
Inconsideration is a game.   12/8/2006

Some might not agree with me, others might. I feel strongly that when someone writes to you, the very least you owe them is to say "no thanks" if you are not interested.
After all, had they not been interested they would not have written to you. Be flattered and say "no thanks" or any such statement. Especially you ladies, you do not understand how it feels when we men read your ...

2 Comments, 87 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
friendly3174 49 F
1  Article
in general   10/1/2006

be careful in saying "no thanks" make sure you won't regret, it is a final decision.

3 Comments, 128 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
deva_shyne 59 F
331  Articles
How To Say " NO THANKS"   9/24/2006

No thanks can be done in a good manners Don't ever Let somebody be Upset when you say it. Just make it simple with an attitude that your words can be true.. make it not just a habit but just use it in a right way.. Always say no if you are not worthy to what he/she ask always remember when deciding or answering must rely on your conscience....

2 Comments, 64 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
yugituyk 44 M
10  Articles
10 stupid things "you do not wanna do" online   8/8/2006

ONE If you're ugly, stop acting like you don't know it. The captions under your picture that says "top model pose", "sexy btch", "arnt i hot" doesn't convince anyone.

TWO To the people who have like 25, 000 friends, are you serious? Nobody in this universe can keep up with that many friends. You're stupid. Go play in traffic.

THREE Don't ...

10 Comments, 228 Views, 24 Votes ,6.08 Score
yugituyk 44 M
10  Articles
10 stupid things "you do not wanna do" online   8/8/2006

ONE If you're ugly, stop acting like you don't know it. The captions under your picture that says "top model pose", "sexy bitch", "arnt i hot" doesn't convince anyone.

TWO To the people who have like 25, 000 friends, are you serious? Nobody in this universe can keep up with that many friends. You're stupid. Go play in traffic.

THREE Don't ...

1 Comments, 66 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
Ihab5 48 M
3  Articles
Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines   7/14/2006

Welcome 2 Syrian Airlines Salaam Aalaykoum...((Salamat))
This is your captain “Abou Sayyah” Welcoming both seated & standing passengers on board of Syrian Airlines.
We apologize for the four-days delay in aking off, it was due to bad weather & some overtime I had to put in at the bakery baking Kaka.
·This is flight 717 to Sham Airport. Landing there ...

1 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
bingbong81 42 M
5  Articles
"NO THANKS"   6/6/2006

no thanks is usually use as an expression by our fellow filipino, especially when somebody offer something then replied "No Thanks."

1 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
JJ_philly 52 M
8  Articles
bring nice but direct   6/1/2006

saying no thanks is ok no matter what the reason is. you can be kind about it. for ex; your not attracted to someone, not to hurt them you may say "were to far apart, i am looking for some one close by." its just being nice to some one elses feelings.

1 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
No need   5/16/2006

Saying no thanks is easy. Just say it, if they still persist, then lay your foot down and say, "Did you hear me? I said no. Get out of my face already, damn!" That usuall does the job.

0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
cutygirl_22 40 F
2  Articles
to your barkada "sometimes"   5/5/2006

Its not easy for being away to "barkada" at this age! But u have also think for all the consequences u will have when ur saying "NO Thanks" to them! Being a responsible youth you have to think why you should do this or not! Be a responsive one!

0 Comments, 21 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
iceyhot4u2love 46 F
10  Articles
How to say "No Thanks"   3/26/2006

It is easy to say NO abruptly or without thinking about it.Saying No always complicate things. There are those who would say NO but would actually mean a YES.Always mean what you say and say what you mean... WHen you say NO it actually means NO.Learn to stand with your words. By saying so, you will earn respect and credibility. If you don't like someone or doesn't like ...

0 Comments, 57 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
twent47blue 56 F
121  Articles
Reinventing Mr. Right   3/6/2006

He is the epitome of a perfect gentlemen, every girl's dream guy they want to bring home to mommy. Smooth, suave, gentle and kind. What else could anyone look for? Good-looking and has the kindest eyes you'll ever see. And you thought, this is him, this is my match, I found the real one, the one I'm looking for. But, hold on, a sec....prrrtttt! Stop! Hehe...women ...

1 Comments, 59 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
pureheart35 53 F
10  Articles
Say it in a nice way   2/16/2006

It is just common to experience that sometimes we just need to decline an invitation. We may have different reason for doing so. Maybe you just dont like the person. Maybe you are not enjoying his company. And whatever may be your reason, I think it is just right for you to decline it in a nice way. Committing some little white lies is just fine. Think of a very reasonable excuse to ...

1 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
MakeLove01973 51 M
23  Articles
Peer Presure and stress play a role.   2/1/2006

Saying "NO" is easy to do but for some they do not have the confidence because they are afraid of being rejected. I work with Teenagers all the time and I get asked more by teenage girls 12-16 how to say "NO" to a boy they are head over heels for. I have found that if you talk to teenagers in small groups and friends hear it then when it happens the girls say "NO" with confidence because ...

0 Comments, 36 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Gumbyboy 48 M
1  Article
Saying "No Thanks" or Not to Say "No Thanks"   1/4/2006

If you start a long distance online relationship and fall deeply in love, it is always hard to say goodbye. But if that special someone hurts or betrays you and all attempts to fix the problem fail, you should say "No Thanks". <br> Unfortunately on the internet it is easy to just click the "X" and close your chat program. It's easy to turn your web cam off, and it's easy to turn off ...

0 Comments, 33 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Angela2005ph 59 F
44  Articles
Learning to Say No   12/18/2005

Sometimes the most difficult communication is the shortest of them all-saying 'no, ' but it's a skill everyone with arthritis has to develop. If someone asks you to join in some strenuous activity, you probably don't want or need to get into lengthy explanations about why you don't want to go. Here are a few tips that may help with someone who 'won't take no for an answer': <br> ...

0 Comments, 38 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
LegallyRomantic 47 M
33  Articles
Can I Call You Sometime?   9/16/2005

I have learned from my female friends on how to say no to this with less pain is as follow: <br> If someone asks for your number, if you don't feel comfortable with it, instead ask for theirs. It will not be as rude or uncomfortable as a straight out "NO!". Plus you have the option to call the person or not. If you already gave your number, face the consequences. Using your caller ...

4 Comments, 179 Views, 16 Votes ,3.86 Score
wildwolf_ej69 42 M
9  Articles
syang lang ang pamasahe ko   7/8/2005

does it have to be like this every time i go to school walang pasuk <br> it looks like im wasting every single cent for the pamasahe

3 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
politeness   7/3/2005

when saying no thanks or im not interested you should be as polite as possible because as others have feelings to and its not nice to hurt anothers feelings uneccisarily after all you wouldnt want your feelings hurt either no would you

1 Comments, 47 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
speedhunter97 50 M
18  Articles
Is it!   5/29/2005

Is it difficult to walk? When you know you have to go? Walk on! <br> Is it tiring to keep watch? When you know you should? Wait on! <br> Is it difficult to cross the sea? When you know you have the wind? Sail on! <br> Is it difficult to call on the Lord? When you know you should? Pray on! <br> Is it difficult to speak the words? When you ...

0 Comments, 33 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Right_Rider 40 M
13  Articles
Reverse!   5/27/2005

The reverse psychology of saying No thanks in any matters is somtimes an invitation saying Thank you!

1 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
dsatd 73 M
5  Articles
Sex As Discussion   5/16/2005

Believe iot or not there are women who attempt to initiate sex conversations. Some after the second or third contact. Call me old fashion, but I want to meet, get to know, and trust a person before I go that far let alone start talking about via email or chat.

0 Comments, 94 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
dsatd 73 M
5  Articles
Asking For Money   5/15/2005

There is no quicker way for me to quit talking to someone is when they ask for money. There are horror stories out there that abound with lonely people getting thousands taken away on the basis of words and a lovely photo. Trust, love, friendship all those things are not built upon money and how much the other person can give you. Of course I know some women will need help joining ...

6 Comments, 279 Views, 26 Votes ,5.72 Score
jane228din 53 F
1  Article
How can I say No to you?   5/12/2005

I know you will agree to me in my views of having a problem in saying NO. We are all here in search of someone who we can talk with, dine with and perhaps friendship leads to deeper level of relationship. Yes, we fall inlove.. how can we say NO to that? Thanks to FFF that we able to experience different kind of chatting, courtship, and loving. I, myself never ever say No, Thanks to someone ...

1 Comments, 63 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
just can't say the truth, but we have to...   3/25/2005

"cold treatment" without the root of misunderstanding is just like asking for your freedom but saying is more pronounced and evident to set us free... sometimes we don't have the nerve to tell him/her it's over, this is enough... we got the wrong guy and we must say it without hurting him/her so badly, otherwise, we might be accused of being tactless or heartless... each one has the right ...

0 Comments, 68 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
not easy   3/7/2005

It's probably one of the hardest things to do, you might be flattered, but you're not really interested. The best thing to do is, I guess, to keep polite and nice without being misleading. In other words: be clear about your feelings. It's the only way to be honest with yourself and the other person. Possibly, you will even be respected for not messing with someone's feelings.

2 Comments, 60 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Happy3025 44 M
10  Articles
dream of kissing   2/20/2005

I dream of kissing someone so hard my mouth hurts. I dream of kissing someone so soft my heart hurts, so long my neck hurts, so deep my throat hurts. I dream of kissing someone so... completely that nothing hurts

0 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
tresss 39 F
19  Articles
we have our own life   2/9/2005

no thanks though your love is so great no thanks even you gave me this kind of feeling no thanks i dont need it anymore... you have you own, i have my own im with someone and so you are no thanks....i wont be needing your love

0 Comments, 63 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
9  Articles

True Story: I was shopping at local super market for my groceries a while back and had a cart full when I approached the checkout counter. In front of me in line was a little old grandma type lady with her groceries. She commented how much I resembled her . I just smiled. She asked if she could call me "", and I said , "sure, it's ok". So, we continued talking and she ...

0 Comments, 163 Views, 18 Votes ,5.03 Score
36154 64 F
5  Articles
In response to Mike "The Inferno"   10/9/2004

Wow, i'm totally amazed about your reactions towards rejection. You have to remember, don't go down to their level. Some women , like some men , think they are irresistible. That's sad but it's the reality of life. If you let them turn you into a sad and miserable person then you are letting them dictate you. It's your life, if they say "No thanks", that's their lost not yours. The Blue ...

0 Comments, 198 Views, 43 Votes ,5.73 Score
MIKE GO...NO THANKS   9/24/2004

id been reading your article and as usual you got me replying to them. and the communication was then between you and me. but this time i wanna write something that i want others to know (understanding is much appreciated)and maybe let them also speak up their minds. <br> WHAT HAS WOMEN GOT TO DO WITH THE WAY YOU EXIST? WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS ON THE LOOK OUT OF THEIR FLAWS???? ...

0 Comments, 102 Views, 14 Votes ,6.18 Score
Kamasutrachic 67 F
37  Articles
~~~Akala Mo~~~   9/3/2004

~ ~ ~ Akala Mo ~ ~ ~ ( kamasutrachic ) <br> <br> Patuloy ang pag-ikot ng aking mundo, kahit na ako'y iniwan mo... Nakatayo pa ring taas ang noo, taliwas sa buong akala mo. <br> ***** <br> Inaamin kong kailan may di ka naging akin Puro kasinungalingan ang lahat ng iyong sabihin Pagod na ang puso kong ...

1 Comments, 31 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
goodcop 56 M
12  Articles
Don't be pressured   6/25/2004

If a guy offers you drinks and you don't drink alchohol at all or are a light weight, don't drink. Stay firm and don't let him pursuade fact, you have every right to end the date at that point if he is making you uncomfortable. He may end up taking advantage of you! especially since you don't know the people from the internet, what their real intentions are. Don't go back to ...

1 Comments, 24 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
Friends dont try to destroy you   5/21/2004

a recent article here touched on a subject about Drugs: If you are offered Drugs by what you call a friend, think about it is this person really friend , for friends are for support not to tear you down. I support the NO word very much and hope more young people learn how to use it , and really avoid those that cannot say NO , but succumb to a fate that will ruin there lives DRUGS. To all ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 15 Votes ,5.58 Score
disyembre 68 F
3  Articles
Mature women and younger men   2/7/2004

NO, Thank you. (…. Again) <br> These are the common words we normally say in a polite way if we want to decline an offer without embarrassing the person concerned. But what are you going to say next if that same person would still to try to communicate with you and would say offensive words to you? Nothing of course…just click him delete and he would disappear! ...

0 Comments, 32 Views, 73 Votes ,7.82 Score