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I Remember
Posted:Feb 15, 2019 4:53 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2019 6:27 am

I am 55 y.o. now, and there have been many special ladies/relationships in those years, but, in one, in a particular early relationship I remember a woman, who like myself liked to get up early and greet the sunrise, I haven't met another since who does the same. There have been so many years of me and the dogs and cats enjoying mornings just us, it is still my favorite time of day, but, I do miss having someone who actually speaks to enjoy a beautiful sunrise with. LOL GREAT MORNING TO ALL!!!
Honesty Above All Things
Posted:Dec 22, 2018 4:02 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2019 6:27 am

I am above all things an honest man, I will not lie because the truth may hurt your feelings, or because it will make my life easier. The only way that I know of to prove this is with time, no one admits they lie, so I have to accept this and waste my time talking and getting to know someone in order for me to know if they lie. In my fifty-fives years I have not found anyone who values honesty as I do, sometimes it is acceptable to me and I will remain friends with this person, but, I will not just go along as if nothing has changed, I tell them they have lost my trust and why, then come the excuses, the indignation, and my favorite is when they blame me, because everyone does it and I should change. LOL! I have no desire to change, to learn to lie or to learn to accept lies, or to waste more of my time explaining why, I just don't! Oh well just venting here, hope everyone has a great day, jim
New To Online Date Sites
Posted:Sep 10, 2018 11:52 am
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2018 4:21 pm

I am new to online friendship and dating sites, I have been either married, or working and never had the free time to look for that one special lady online. In the past year or so that has changed, I am spending most of my time at home, and am over my last relationship, and have been looking for the lady I want to spend the rest of my life with for a while now. I have got to say it isn't as easy to find her as it should be, most of the sites I originally found are full of either scammers, bots, or members who don't exist, I paid for a few whose e-mails I had to block just to keep sane, constant promises of love and zero results. I started doing more research before joining any new sites, and found many good comments about the friend finder network of sites, but, nothing in the past couple of years other than complaints. I have a special affinity for Philippine and Asian ladies and so I went ahead and signed up for a free membership on both Asian Friend Finder and Filipino Friend Finder, and am enjoying the blog posts, and a couple of friendly interactions on both sites, but, both sites seem to be on the verge of shutting down, as members say they were well maintained in the past, but no longer seem to be. I seriously want to find a good, honest, affectionate and loving Philippine or Asian lady to be the love of my life, as the beauty and grace of Philippine women is known throughout the world, and I know from experience, that good and bad people can come from anywhere. I would like to find a lady who is seeking an honest and loving relationship and possibly marriage, and with a willingness to eventually relocate here in the US. I would like to come to her after we have become quite familiar online, so that we can meet face to face for the first time, both because I would like to see the Philippines and so she will feel more at ease. I hope that some, or at least one, special lady, will read this and contact me, so that we can begin our journey to a happy life together. Anyone else looking for an honest and good friend is also encouraged to send a message I can never have enough friends, thanks for reading and have a great day, jim
Beautiful Ladies
Posted:Sep 9, 2018 6:10 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2018 10:34 am

I am a man, I like women, I have known gay men and women, some were my friends, some weren't, I can honestly say the same about race, religion, nationality, rich, poor it really doesn't matter, I judge people by their actions, honesty and compassion at the top of my list. My point is, that I like women regardless of their race or nationality, it is a good heart, honesty and intelligence, that makes a woman truly special, not her place of birth or her skin color. While I fully believe this, I also understand, that I am more physically attracted to particular types of women, which is why I came to Filipino Friend Finder to search for a special woman, among the type of women that I find physically attractive, namely Philippine and Asian women. I, like most men, enjoy the female form, their is however something uniquely special to certain ethnic groups that appeals to each of us in a different way, me, personally, I am simply very attracted to the grace, sensuousness, and beauty that Philippine women posses, and so if I have the opportunity to have both the particular physical attributes and the honesty, intelligence and compassion I seek, in one special woman, I definitely want to. I am just trying to put some of my thoughts into words, and am hopeful that some of the beautiful ladies on this site will read them, and contact me, so that we can get to know each other, and maybe we can both find the special person we need to make ourselves complete .
Woman in Jeans
Posted:Sep 9, 2018 9:22 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2019 6:27 am

I want to start by saying, I mean absolutely no disrespect, to me, intelligence and honesty, are the two sexiest attributes, any woman can possess, but, a woman walking past me in a pair of tight jeans, does always, draw my attention. It may be because I went through puberty, in America, in the 1970s, when Levis blue jeans were the absolute must have apparel, of the casually best dressed woman. I like to dress up, and take a woman in a sexy dress, to a nice restaurant for dinner and dancing, but, if you want to see me smile, from ear to ear, pull on some old faded jeans, and invite me for a walk by the river. Just saying, sometimes, simple and easy is the best, have a great day, jim
internet scam girls
Posted:Sep 9, 2018 8:13 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2018 9:24 am

I have gotten into the habit of doing an internet search on anyone I meet online, sometimes even after I find out that they are running a scam, I don't let on, I keep the conversation going. I am very bored, anyway, I am just wondering why once a particular name and or email address has been identified online the scammer doesn't move on to a knew name and address? I recently traded emails with someone whose name and address had been listed on alert web sites for over two years, one site even had the pics she would send each morning posted, are the scammers as gullible as the scammed? They don't even run a search on the id they use? Just curious, getting fake id to pick up the money too hard? Are they just that lazy? I don't know, its just one of the weird things I consider when I am bored, jim
Pets are Wonderful
Posted:Sep 9, 2018 8:01 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2019 1:43 pm
I have almost always had pets, as a young boy, I had a dog, took in a stray cat, and took over the care of my stepfathers hunting dog, after he realized hunting dogs have to be trained. I didn't always give them the care they needed, a 10-12 year old simply doesn't know how, until someone teaches him, and growing up in rural Alabama nobody taught proper pet care. When a got sick he was on his own, a new puppy was free, vets cost money, that's just how it was. I look back now and feel guilty, but, you cant change the past, and I did what I was told to do, by the adults in my life. I left my family behind when I was 14, they didn't treat any better than dogs, and so I have never regretted it. I lived in trailers, small apartments, army barracks and so never had another pet until I got a house and a wife, the wife only lasted a few years, the dog, from a local shelter, about ten. His name was Bear, a black Labrador mix, he was my buddy, just a thoroughly sweet boy, the wife left, no problem, Bear passed, I was a wreck for months, I couldn't be around dogs without wanting to cry like a baby. At the time I thought I would never do it again, never put myself through that pain again, but, some months later, I came home from work to find a sick kitten on my steps, she was so tiny I immediately knew I had to try and help. I spent the night with her wrapped in a warm towel in my lap, until the vet opened the next morning, a few days later she was running around, climbing the drapes, like she owned the place. That was Lilbit, I honestly don't know how many years we were friends, close to twenty, but, she opened the door to so many more wonderful furry friends, I have come to realize that yes it always hurts when they leave, but, the love, honesty and friendship they give makes it worth it.


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