This is how I look now
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Posted:Jan 29, 2019 4:53 am
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2019 8:08 am 112106 Views
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After all these years, Ito those of you who are not in FB and / or who are not in my friends network on that site, I want to share with you how I look nowadays. FFF does not even allow me to add new photos anymore. So this is it! I am REAL, I am a human being, and I am your FRIEND.
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FFF: My Sanctuary
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Posted:Jan 28, 2019 2:18 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2019 9:07 am 74568 Views
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There are so many things on my mind that I would rather express here than on the other side ( FB ) . Number one reason is that my family, relatives, and close friends who are "judgmental" are there. Unfortunately, they don't see things most experienced people here in FFF do. They don't care about how I feel most of the time. They just want to JUDGE, as if they are always righteous. They are "mindful" of my personal business, although, they don't want to share their hidden agenda. They just want to lurk around, have a feast about other people's lives. Over here, I feel free....I feel ME!
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Remembering FFF Friends Eye Ball in South Padre Island
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Posted:Jan 28, 2019 1:09 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2019 5:54 am 97240 Views
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Why does FFF hold a very special place in my heart? Because, here, I found friends online, then, met them in real life. As a matter of fact, we formed a group in FB named Dabarkads Forever, and we try to meet at least once a year, in Las Vegas or California, since majority of them live in those states. It was in 2012 that these photos were taken, when a few of them, visited me in South Texas. Yes, we continued the friendship that we started here, even though a lot of us have moved on from virtual to real world life. Some of them already found partners but they continue to be members of the group, because friendship should not end just because you found someone to spend your life with. WE know the meaning of real friendship, and we will continue to connect and stay in touch with each other, for as long as we live....But, thank you FFF! You filled our lonely lives with colorful, wonderful memories......In the photo with me are Jeff (zero_max), Tess, ( tessrb), and Bhabes (bday1021)
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eb1209's Account was Hacked!
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Posted:Dec 29, 2018 4:15 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2019 12:25 pm 71408 Views
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WITH A BROKEN HEART, I AM INFORMING FELLOW FFF BLOGGERS THAT MY MAIN ACCOUNT, EB1209 WHICH HOLDS HUNDREDS OF MEMORABLE BLOGS HAD BEEN HACKED AND INACCESSIBLE DESPITE EFFORTS TO RETRIEVE IT. I AM JUST LUCKY THAT I STILL HAVE THIS ACCOUNT TO USE EXCLUSIVELY FOR BLOGGING. I AM VERY SAD THAT I WILL END 2018 LOSING THAT ACCOUNT WHICH HELPED ME GAIN ONLINE TO REAL LIFE FRIENDS, WHO STUCH WITH ME DURING THE MOST DIFFICULT TIMES IN MY LIFE. I WILL ALWAYS THANK THE FILIPINO FRIEND FINDER FOR GIVING ME THE OPPORTUNITY TO MEET THEM HERE. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, FFF WILL HOLD A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART. I AM CALLING ON TO THE REMAINING BLOGGERS ON THIS WEBSITE, TO PLEASE STAY TRUE, REMAIN KIND, AND BE LOYAL. MAY GOD BLESS US MORE THIS COMING 2019. I WISH FOR ALL OF US TO HAVE A BETTER LIFE OVER-ALL. TAKE CARE! I WILL VISIT FROM TIME TO TIME.
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It Is Not Enough To Assume.....
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Posted:Aug 15, 2017 9:08 am
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2019 9:02 am 253077 Views
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He calls you once in a while. He gives you special attention. He expressed desire to visit you in your state. He interacts with you in FB. But, he never discussed anything about wanting to get to know you better, nor even wanting to open a conversation about his life as well. He "probably" likes you, or test how far you can go without "saying the magic words"....But, you are NOT like that. You want things clear and spelled out as they are, and NOT what they seem. Do you have the right to assume? or do you want to play along?...But then again, you feel that "you are too old to play games"...So, you just quit the idea of assuming, before it gets to the point of you, getting hurt again.... |
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How Late is Too Late?
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Posted:May 27, 2017 6:15 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2017 6:16 am 243873 Views
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And How Old Is Too Old? 3 years from now, I will be officially a senior citizen and I will be receiving a lot of benefits, I supposed. But probably, I will still be single, and alone at that time. Is that my fate? My Destiny?...If not, is that too late to build a relationship? Maybe, I should listen to the song of Perry Como which goes:
"I WANT TO GIVE"---By Perry Como
I wanna give I wanna give my love to you completely I beg of you I beg of you to listen to my heart
I've never prayed like this before And I'm askin' you not to close the door For I can tame the wind and smooth the waters If you just let me
I've never prayed like this before And I'm askin' you not to close the door For I can tame the wind and smooth the waters If you just let me
I wanna give I wanna give you all the strength within me To make a world To make a world that cannot fall apart
And you can sit upon a throne Oh, I'll give it all just for you alone For I can tame the wind and smooth the waters If you just let me
And you can sit upon a throne Oh, I'll give it all just for you alone For I can tame the wind and smooth the waters If you just let me
Read more: Perry Como - I Want To Give Lyrics | MetroLyrics
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Loyalty
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Posted:May 27, 2017 5:58 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2017 3:10 pm 228979 Views
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Loyalty and gratitude....These are the two traits that I show to this website. One might wonder, who, in her right mind will continue to blog on this website which has turned into a graveyard?...If you happen to visit FFF 10 years or earlier, you will understand what I mean. I owe a lot to this place. When I was feeling so low, I found friends here who helped me get back to my knees. They became my true friends until now, and we still see each other at least once a year. I may have almost found that missing romance in my life as well, but there are things that are not really meant to be....But, even those memories bring smile to my face each time I go down the memory lane. There were fights every now and then between the bloggers, as well as groups...But even those are fun to look back. When FB became popular, everyone left and deserted this place. I even rested and hibernated for a while, but I am still here, even if I am the last member standing....I am still loyal, and grateful....Thank you FFF!
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Pre-Valentine Poem
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Posted:Feb 1, 2017 7:26 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2017 7:29 pm 221950 Views
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Yesterday, yester-years, yester stories, Flashbacks, racing through my memories; The good times spent from way back then, Still inspires me to pick up a pen; To write what's beautiful from before, That nowadays I seem to find no more.
The youth had hastily left me feeling wasted, The times I took for granted and thought I never wanted; Never it occurred to me that one day I'd look back, Eating my words that tasted like salt made of rock; I find consolation and humility accepting my regrets, The times I never valued but will never forget.
Was it really all of Me, or was it just my destiny? All my journeys from here and until eternity; At times I thought I am always in full control, But things happened, even if I abhorred; Circumstances that I may have rendered sublime, Now I just reminisce in words that rhyme.
Where is the Love I used to know? Had it melted just like the snow? Will there be a new flame or will it be just a game? If I try it again, will it put me to shame? All these thoughts have given me a goose flesh, I definitely do not want a life that is full of mess.
So thank you all for reading this masterpiece, I sincerely wish your Valentine filled with bliss; Don't forget to share all the love in your heart, If you haven't done yet, now is the time to start; Wish me luck, but by all means let me be, If no one loves me, let me love ME............
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Friends With Benefits: What's your take on this?
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Posted:Jan 5, 2017 7:55 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2017 5:59 am 222149 Views
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Things happen, because 2 people agree to do it, whether the original intention was just to experience unusual practices, or two individuals are either drunk, or vulnerable to temptations because they always have each other for comfort and support. Such as those friends with benefits....Yes, it happens, at times, on the spur of the moments. But wait!...Most of the time, the guys won't take the "incident" seriously, and may just take advantage of the situation and will engage for more "incidents". Meanwhile, women who are naturally emotional, will be attached to these men, leading to their serious involvement and expectations. Next, they will take on the role of real girlfriends, become possessive, and dangerously jealous of any other women that these guys may have already been related to or just beginning to get serious with...So dangerous that these women will be so obsessed, combative, destructive, and worse scenario, may even take somebody's life. This is due to the feeling of rejection, abused, played on, and betrayal....Very rare that it's the other way around...although, men can be victims too...So, with all these, do you think friendship will ever return to the original level? or is it permanently doomed? Remember the saying: "HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED"...Be very careful....
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As We Grow Older.....
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Posted:Dec 18, 2016 5:47 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2016 4:34 am 226836 Views
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...Our beauty fades ...Our definition of love changes ...Our health deteriorates ...Our memory begins to cloud ...Our circle of friends become less ...Our needs come first before our wants ...Our hopes seem to decline ...We become more sensitive ...We look forward to the sunset, than the sunrise ...We just know that sooner or later, the end is inevitable. ...Time is precious..What needs to be done now, can no longer be put off for another day ...So fall in love, even if you are not loved back ...Give, even if you do not have much ...Appreciate what you have, and be grateful ...The simple things do matter the most ...Live meaningfully
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