Beware!
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Posted:Dec 31, 2005 8:47 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 2413 Views
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it's a bloghopping day today.. this was actually requested to repost...
A lot has been said about how to prevent .
Women should learn self-defense. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't wear short skirts. Women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. fuck, they shouldn't dare to get drunk at all.
Instead of that bullshit, how about:
If a woman is drunk, don't her.
If a woman is walking alone at night, don't her.
If a women is drugged and unconscious, don't her.
If a woman is wearing a short skirt, don't her.
If a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don't her.
If a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you're still hung up on, don't her.
If a woman is asleep in her bed, don't her.
If a woman is asleep in your bed, don't her.
If a woman is doing her laundry, don't her.
If a woman is in a coma, don't her.
If a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don't her.
If a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don't her.
If a woman is not yet a woman, but a , don't her.
If your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don't her.
If your step- is watching tv, don't her.
If you break into a house and find a woman there, don't her.
If your friend thinks it's okay to someone, tell him it's not, and that he's not your friend.
If your "friend" tells you he someone, report him to the police.
If your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there's an unconscious woman upstairs and It's your turn, don't her, call the police and tell the guy he's a .
Tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, sons of friends it's not okay to someone.
Don't tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid .
Don't imply that she could have avoided it if she'd only done/not done x.
Don't imply that it's in any way her fault.
Don't let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he "got some" with the drunk girl.
Don't perpetuate a culture that tells you that you have no control over or responsibility for your actions. You can, too, help yourself.
If you agree, repost it. Email it to your friends and family. It's that important.
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Whispering to the light
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Posted:Dec 31, 2005 5:03 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 2447 Views
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It's been almost 4 months since I last blogged, and much has happened since then. I don't want to enumerate them, for I maintain my conviction NOT to turn blog into an online journal. Still, the facts remain: I am alone at home just a little past midnight; it's raining outside (the first rain in a month, I dare say); and I am left to contemplate on these past 4 months.
But what's the use of contemplation if in the end they just fade away into the darkness of night. So instead, I whisper them to the light, from whom the past 4 months came from, and was witness to all these, and kept all these in his heart.
The light consumes those who whisper to him, and makes them his own. And those of the light overcome darkeness.
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Demons, The Witching Hour and Emily Rose
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Posted:Dec 30, 2005 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 2397 Views
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Watched The Exorcism of Emily Rose with Jevin at home. After dinner, we went looking for some video tape to watch, I spotted the exorcism of Emily rose, she was little scared at first and told her it'll be okay tho.
The movie never got me scared like "Fung Shei" did. I got more interested in the court room drama. Erin Bruner was so smart to come up with a case that showed the scientific basis for and exercise of faith. That gave me something to think about.
I did not know that more than one demon can invade your body until I watched the film. Emily's body was possessed by 6 demons. I'm quite familiar with 5 of them. The other one, Belial, got my interest. I did a little reseach on him and I found out that he's the Demon of Lust and Pride. My research lead me to finding out Angel Sanctuary, an anime about a fallen angel who got reincarnated in to a young boy.
The movie also highlighted the significance of 3:00 AM for Catholics. Normally, when we hear The Witching Hour, we think of 12 midnight. We say that this is the time when Dark Magic and Witchcraft is at its strongest. That's why most witch can spells and rituals are suggested to performed during midnight. For catholics, our Witching Hour is 3:00 AM. They consider it the unholy hour because its an inversion of 3:00 PM which the holy hour, the Death of Christ. Dark forces use this time to mock the Holy Trinity.
I extended my research to cover things about the Witching Hour and Anne Rice suddenly came into the picture. The popular author of the Vampire Chronicles also came up with The Mayfair Chronicles. This trilogy is about the Mayfair Family, one of the most powerful and wealthy in the world, but they have a very dark secret. Yes, they are witches. The Mayfair empire only exists because of the power of the spirit. I've read a few of its reviews and they all got me interest to read the whole trilogy.
Again, I never really found the movie scary while watching it. However, it gave me a lot of things to think about when I got home. It got me anxious about waking up at three in the morning and suddenly smelling something burning. Looking at my glass window when the lights are off started to give the goosebumps. But ultimately, the thought of demons possessing me...
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An angel
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Posted:Dec 30, 2005 9:01 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 2417 Views
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drunken_angel"if one day you need to describe how an angel looks like..
Please just send your picture,that will be enough..."
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Random Thoughts
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Posted:Dec 30, 2005 8:44 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 2218 Views
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Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, coworker, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, will, power, or heart.
Everything happens for a reason... nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.
Even the bad experiences can be learned from... in fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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Torn between two lovers
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Posted:Aug 20, 2005 5:17 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 3401 Views
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<rated pg>
Fine fine and fine. Who's fault it is? NOT ME.
I recieved a call last night from my suitor's girlfriend, (after recieving text messages) (oh how stupid he is for courting me when in fact she does have a girlfriend.. hey. Im not aware of that)
Girl : "Stop flirting my boyfriend"
Me : WHAT? Tagalugin mo na lang mali malin naman ang grammar mo.
(ang loka nagtagalog nga)
ME : As you were saying?
Girl : " Wag mong landiin and boyfriend ko...Anong klaseng babae ka? siguro ang pangit pangit mo.. walang pumapatol sa'yo kaya boyfriend ko ang nilalandi mo. " ( Sounds familiar?) (sounding so pathetic)
ME : ( trying to stay calm) excuse me? is that how insecure you are? You know what? if your'e confident enough you wouldn't react that way. You cannot measure love by the beauty someone sees in you physically. Love is the feeling and not the look.
Girl : "what?" "ANG KAPAL NG MUKHA MO!" PUta%^$$$$mo....
ME : Oh... can you feel it? and thank you.
Girl : Ang kapal talaga ng mukha mo! malandi ka.
ME : I am! ( ahahahah! umamin?)
Girl : "Anong gusto mo? sabunutan na lang tayo ano? sapakan na lang"
ME : Sorry, may pinag-aralan ako. Di lahat ng bagay nakukuha sa pakikipag-away. Ikaw, baka laking squatter ka kaya ganya ang asal mo. Edukada ka bang tao? kung edukada ka, alam mong mali yan.
At bakit ba? nabuntis ka na bang ng boyfriend mo para maghabol ka ng ganyan sa kanya. Mahiya ka nga sa sarili mo, bakit ba habol ka nga habol sa lalaki eh kung ayaw nanaman pala sa'yo? isang ka ipokrita.
Girl : ( pissed off ).. putang ina mo talaga! (galit na galit na talaga ang lola)!
ME : Bless you!
Girl : Tigilan mo na ang boyfrind ko (take note, bisaya sya) ....
ME : Sa kanya mo sabihin yan. Dahil sya ang nanliligaw at hindi ako.. and will you please stop bugging me.. I don't wanna waste more time talking on a sh&%*$ like you are. Don't worry, iyong iyo na sya. Isaksak mo pa sa P.U.K.E. mo! ( Di siguro naintindihan yung english part kaya....)
Girl : Okay thank you. Bye.
ahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!!! ang laswa. ayyy nahighblood ako!
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I touch Myself...
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Posted:Aug 20, 2005 4:49 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 3167 Views
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Hey, my friend gave me a record of this song.. and it sounds fun...
I TOUCH MYSELF
by divinyls
I love myself
I want you to love me
When I'm feelin' down
I want you above me
I search myself
I want you to find me
I forget myself
I want you to remind me
Chorus:
I don't want anybody else
When I think about you
I touch myself
I don't want anybody else
Oh no, oh no, oh no
You're the one who makes me come running
You're the sun who makes me shine
When you're around I'm always laughing
I want to make you mine
I close my eyes
And see you before me
Think I would die
If you were to ignore me
A fool could see
Just how much I adore you
I get down on my knees
I'd do anything for you
Chorus
I love myself
I want you to love me
When I'm feelin' down
I want you above me
I search myself
I want you to find me
I forget myself
I want you to remind me
Chorus
I want you
I don't want anybody else
And when I think about you
I touch myself
Ooh, oooh, oooooh, aaaaaah
I, I, I, I, I don't want anybody else
When I think about you
I touch myself
Oh I don't want anybody else
When I think about you
I touch myself
I touch myself (7x)
I honestly do
I touch myself (3x)
I honestly do
I touch myself...
* I totally love this song...*
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11 Minute Monologue
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Posted:Aug 19, 2005 9:26 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 2928 Views
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Hay naku. ikaw kasi. now look at you. feeling miserable? i bet you are. i hate to say this, but... i told you so!
dangan naman kasi umasa pa rin. i don't want to blame you, but you know that you did that to yourself. i thought you're over that person already. i guess not.
so what's gonna happen to you now? iyakan portion? nah. you're way too cool for that.
your problem is you tend to fall too fast. even though you haven't even [emphasis supplied] met the person yet. blind faith ba kamo? or is it plain stupidity? no, no, i ain't judging you.
okay, fine. maybe just a little. the thing is, you should've learned your lesson. how many more times do you have to suffer these kinds of things until you realize that you don't deserve to suffer at all? sure, what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger. aren't you strong enough?
better yet, haven't you wisen up just one bit?
really. then prove it. get over it. move on.
i know what you mean. it's hard to be friends with someone you've expressed interest in and then it doesn't blossom into something desirable for you. shit happens. you know that. sometimes some things just love getting fucked up. did someone say love??? hahaha!
you'll get over it. you had. you will again. but this time, i do hope you get over it for good. you believe in moving on with your life, right? so why not do it? you've challenged life a lot. you've challenged love a couple of times. there'd been a lot of hurdles and other stumbling blocks, but you managed to make it through.
falling down is a part of life. you know that. you believe in that. but apart from the fall, what matters most is getting up on your feet and continuing your journey. you know that, too. just grab everything that comes your way. you won't get anywhere if you don't dare try, right? right. you know that there isn't always a next time. just suck everything all up. rights and wrongs.
remember that everything that happens in your life contitutes a part of your learning experience. learn from everything. right decisions. mistakes. everything.
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Isn't ironic?
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Posted:Aug 16, 2005 8:26 pm
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2011 5:46 pm 3405 Views
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i don't know why, but i think my life's is like a complicated maze... if i don't get to the right exit, i have to go back and start all over again... and true enough, I'm back to where I started. Some things happened that changed my life in an instant. i found myself back to where I was months ago. i thought i was on the right track. but apparently, i wasn't able to handle the irony. the wrong move was not to have a back up plan. now, it's too late... i have to start all over again.
my mind's messed up right now. things didn't go the way i wanted them to. i feel like i have no one to talk to, i feel so alone.i feel so depressed.
it's a good thing i never lose hope. something tells me that again, for the nth time, i'll be able to stand up and move on.
this is enough. don't want to elaborate. i just have to stop and analyze everything before it's too late.
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So deep it didn't even bleed
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Posted:Aug 14, 2005 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:28 pm 3003 Views
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<I see him again, I hear him, and I could bite my hands at the agony of not being able to describe it.>
Henri Alban Fourier
The Wanderer
My heart-- It's broken... And I keep cutting myself every time I try picking up the pieces. It must be made of glass: to be so fragile as to break at the drop of a word. The way a word resounds, glancing off its sides, reverberating and shaking it to pieces. Although the music it makes is splendid, enough to raise the hairs on my arm, to curl my toes, what risk it must be-- to play for echoes at the price of tragedy.
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