Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > freddiepearl > PONDERING OF THOUGHTS |
|
shocked, hurt an amazed i was not sure if i would write this till just now. tonight in the ELR chat room i saw rude an crude an mean comments aimed at me with no reason. please for give me if i dont make sense here but i am hurt an still up set. i was in the chat waiting for some one to return. a few folks i knew where there an i spoke. me only speaking english i was not able to follow all the chat but it was ok . some how the subject of men being circumsized or not came up. i saw the word but want able to understand they reast of the sentence. then one of the female chatters aske me if i was or not cut, to use their word. i had never seen this person before. so i ignored the question. then 2 of the folsk i thought we my freinds began asking also. the 1st person began using all caps an kept asking me over an over telling me DONT IGNORE ME. i finall ycollected my self enuff an politely asked whey they wanted to know. the person replied to me, that they ask cuz they wanted to know. DURING ALL THIS. 2 BEGAN SAYING HE IS OLD AN MANY OTHER THINGS NOT NICE. i finally replied i choose not to answer cuz its an very private question,. an that i would never ask any lady i wasntin arelationship that type of question. this person was rude an contiued to make fun of me . one female said that uncut is an way to catch aids or hiv. male chatter said its not clean to be uncut an washing doesnt make any differnce. reading all this made me think, how dumb can any one be. u catch aids ir hiv by not using condom. also. a man washing his private area daily an stays clean isnt nasty or smelly. i was hurt by the2 females that i thought were my freinds. the lady i didnt know. made fun of me said i acted like a . one female was said to be a doctor. i finally ask the 3 ladies please ignore me an dont speak to me again. i dont treat folks that are my freind like that an dont want any one with such rudeness an meaness as a freind. seems there is some kinds of mind set that all men not"cut" are not clean. hardly modern thinking. for give me for venting. i try to treat every on nice an get hurt when some one talks to me like that. mainly cuz i have been very freindlyan polite to both of these females. the one i dont know, i surely hope i never see her again. nor the other 2 so called freinds [/COLOR] RAVE ON |
|||
|
Hey freddie, One thing we have in the site is choice. When you see something or someone you don't like, you have the right to ignore it or her.. There is just no sense arguing about a point if you can't stay cool about it. I would suggest that if this situation happens again, you can leave and come back later when the situation changes. Not everybody will please you however nice and polite you are. Just avoid those who you don't like and enjoy the chat room with those you like. When the conversation doesn't please me, I just .mosey on to the another room hoping to have a better chat there. You know I take shots at you too in blog and chat. I hope you know that I do it for humor. Stay nice and cool. I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything 
| ||
|
hi Freddie..I popped in at the chat room very seldom n I was there when this happened but just got the gist of some disrespect to older men. The best thing is maximum tolerance or just leave n be back later..bullies, rude people, gross people n kind people are there. It's just like a jungle Freddie..so keep safe! susan
|
×
×