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Bizzysback 62F
1032 posts
4/17/2018 10:05 am
Road Signs


I like long drives and sightseeing but it is a bit daunting for a woman to drive all alone. Even with roadside assistance and insurance it is still scary to take a roadtrip just on my own. A journey is definitely more enjoyable and not scary with company and so is life. There may be some unavoidable circumstances or maybe even a disaster along the way. but as long as we support each other in reaching same destination with a goal to arrive safely, hassle free, on time and together then the journey will be enjoyable. Life will be a breeze despite calamities if we stick to same goals and support each other.

When driving, we read and heed the road signs. They are our guide, they will lead us to our destinations , they give us an indication when to slow down, when to stop, when to go or when to take a U -turn. There are also signs in our relationship that we need to heed and will guide us what our next action should be. The difference between road signs and relationship signs is that , the road signs we have to follow strictly and we have to follow the road. With relationship signs we can choose what the next course of action to take.

If we suspect a partner to be unfaithful, it can be a slow down sign. Slow down to evaluate our relationship, slow down from work and spend time together. If the relationship is going lukewarm then it can be a slippery sign, we should be cautious in our actions or it can lead to a disaster if we are reckless. Be cautious with our words. If trust is broken then to me that is a stop sign or a U-turn sign. If only relationship signs are as simple as road signs that we just have to follow.

Relationship signs are vague and need to be interpreted by ourselves . Our interpretations o course can be wrong and therefore may lead us the wrong way. The best way to clarify the relationship signs is to talk to our partner about what signs we are getting, that way we can make a better decision on what road to take.

What sign can you see in your relationship now?


“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 62F
990 posts
4/17/2018 10:10 am

I'm at a traffic lights with yellow lights on.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


shadow_moon_8 65M

4/22/2018 9:53 pm

My traffic light says Go go go!!


Bizzysback 62F
990 posts
5/27/2018 6:26 am

    Quoting  :

Is that what you are reading? Are you happy with that? Will you follow it?
I think you can take another route, it's all up to you, you are the driver and you interpret the signs.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 62F
990 posts
5/27/2018 6:30 am

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Thanks ta Jane true the partner is co -pilot or co-driver even the navigator but you can also consider the partner as part of the road where the road signs are. We read and interpret each other for a sign.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 62F
990 posts
5/27/2018 6:31 am

Always on the go but go where?

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 62F
990 posts
5/27/2018 6:32 am

    Quoting  :

hello back.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”