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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
10/10/2017 1:28 am
3 Stages of Love


I received this article in one of my subscribed emails, I can't help but share it with you and get your view. According to the article there are 3 stages of love. First stage is the the "delight". It is the exciting and spark of the moment. It is the time where everything is beautiful and colorful and it feels so right. It is effortless it just happen. This is when we fall in love.

The second stage is "disillusionment". This is when we get to know more of each other and we are having second thoughts and feels like everything is wrong. We find faults in all angle and flaws get magnified. It is a reality check that what we thought was the perfect partner is actually not and that the relationship is far from perfect. This maybe a difficult stage you may think. Could it be a bad thing? Should you walk away? This is the crucial period to find out if it is really love.

The third and last stage , is the "decision". This is the stage where you decide to stick together, to overcome all the perplexities. You decide that you really love this person despite the disillusions, despite all the flaws and imperfection. True love is constant decision to stay together and accept all flaws."Love is a decision. And I believe it’s not just a decision. Love is a commitment. In order for love to last, it should be a series of endless decisions to love. It’s about our actions more than our emotions."

So I agree.


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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
10/10/2017 1:29 am

What stage are you?

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eb1209

11/2/2017 7:10 am

I never get to stage 3 for the past 19 years...lolz.

Just call me ELZ


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
11/2/2017 9:33 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    I never get to stage 3 for the past 19 years...lolz.
maybe you have not found the one worth all that but who knows maybe give it a try next time?

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/27/2017 1:59 am

    Quoting  :

I go Phil and Aus.

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