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I LOVE YOU At a very young age of about 13 to 15 years old one of the ways to meet people and make new friends is by what we call pen-pal. It was the time when there was no internet and mobile phone. We can see penpal advertisement in some magazines. The curious young girl in me put my name and address or what we call nowadays sign up for a penpal. Not long after I got mails and I am very excited. One particular boy that stuck in my mind is from a far province. He sent me a letter and wrote I love you in his first supposed introductory letter. I wasn't happy about that , I was actually mad, I thought he is crazy and trying to fool me. In my mind at a very young age then you only say I love if you really mean it and you are prepared to spend your life with the other person like in marriage. Those words are sacred and precious and in his letter in my mind he just desecrated and devalue them. That was then, when I was young and innocent. I still believe that those words are precious and that when you say them you are prepared to be in a special relationship. I have learned though, that some people have different views. To some it is just an ordinary phrase. They seem to have lost their values. They are even used as tools of deception. I am not talking about love of family or friends to whom we should say I love you often. To me now, to say I love you is not just an expression of emotion but also asking someone to love you back. It should not be used as a tool to deceive and make someone fall in love. I believe no one should make someone fall in love without the intention of loving back. It is better to be straight forward like saying "I love .... " , fill in and complete the sentence. Let me ask you , when do you say I love you? What do you mean when you say it? What is the value of this sentence to you? I want to hear it from the men too. ] “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.” |
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Don't say it if you don't mean it. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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What happened to the color red? fff running out of ink line? “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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8/23/2017 12:41 pm |
Hi Che!  Good to see you again!Just call me ELZ 
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8/23/2017 12:42 pm |
I guess, nowadays, the words " I LOVE YOU" are just common expressions..  But in courtship, if you ask me, I would like to hear it, read it and say it!Just call me ELZ
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I guess, nowadays, the words " I LOVE YOU" are just common expressions.. But in courtship, if you ask me, I would like to hear it, read it and say it!“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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dont say it unless you really mean it
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dont say it unless you really mean it “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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dont say it unless you really mean it “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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thats true to them its a case of being silent is better than being hurt? hugs cc
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I totally agree, thanks for visiting. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Bizzy, I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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thank you my friend . “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Of course not. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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