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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
3/31/2015 6:48 am
Love Myth Number 1 "if it is meant to be, it will happen"


Someone : "If love is meant for me it will happen."

Me:

Love don't just happen, just like fishes don't go jumping to your frying pan. You have to at least go to market to get the fish if you don't want to go fishing. ,

But if you want to choose the best and enjoy the catch better to fish for yourself. To go fishing you have to go where the fishes are, you have to get a boat or a fishing rod. Even that is not enough, you have to have a bait or a net.Almost nothing good in life happens by chance,so why leave “finding” a life partner up to fate.

The truth, according to experts Love is learned. Chemistry between two people ‘happens.’ but lasting love has to be worked on, nurtured and allowed to grow. We learn by making mistakes, learning from them and applying what we learned. We don't learn by making same mistakes and expecting different outcome. Love will not come to us we have to develop it but first we have to find someone to love. Initially there maybe some attraction, then acquaintance, then friendship and finally love. If you are attracted to someone and you don't make a move then there's no chance for love to grow. Just like dreaming of winning the lotto but not buying a ticket. That simple. You'll never know until you try. So give love a chance, go fishing!




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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
3/31/2015 4:07 pm

    Quoting achmed_abo:
    Last march 26 I saw a lady celebrating her 2080 weeks of being like a celebrity and shes donning her blue dress so elegantly and oh boy so electrifying to see.belated che.
Thank you better late than never.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
3/31/2015 4:08 pm

    Quoting  :

It works for both thanks anyway for visiting and agreeing less than 100% , good enough for me.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
3/31/2015 4:11 pm

    Quoting  :

Exactly Tink altho it doesn't always happen the way we want it to it's still best we tried.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/14/2015 8:09 pm

    Quoting dreemer1:
    looking for love is tough...attraction and getting along works so much better for me...have a nice day...
thanks for the comment , so does that mean attraction and getting along well is enough ? No need to go step further? If it works for you why not.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”