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Goodbye? I hate goodbyes, I think most people do but what I hate even more is someone disappearing with no good bye. Leaving you with so many unanswered questions. Where are they? What happened? Are they coming back? Shall I close the door? Should I wait or move on? If ever they come back what will I say? Shall I take him back? So frustrating. If there is a proper goodbye then we know where we stand and we can make some plans. Leaving or stop communicating without goodbye is cowardice and a betrayal. Correct me if I'm wrong but as far as I know there is a law in the Philippines that after 7 years of non communication between spouses makes the marriage void or the other partner can be considered dead therefore freeing the other. . Seven years is such a long time but law is law. What about people who are in relationship specifically virtual relationship when communication cease how long before you can say it's all over? In this age there is no excuse for not being able to communicate, we have all the means to say anything even goodbyes. Maybe the others party's reason is that they don't want to hurt the others feeling. But come to think of it goodbye can be painful but hanging on to false hope is cruel. It leaves a very painful wound that will surely get rubbed with salt often That wound may never heal. So tell me, what can be done if there was no goodbye, no closure in a relationship? How long will one wait before closing the chapter of your relationship and say goodbye forever and for good? “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.” |
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2/22/2015 3:28 am |
Bizzy, if it were just an online relationship, I'd probably convince myself he is dead, post it in the obituary, then finally allow myself to wallow for his death. If the relationship where in the flesh, then I'd somehow know his whereabouts. That makes it easier to get even...lol... no need for closure when all's fair and square.
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Yes we should move on but I do like to give some benefit of the doubt and it is still better to have answers. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Mabuhay Rut and thank you. I would have closed the book and start a new one but he keeps coming back I won't hate to see him go but I I like him to tell me so.  “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Adios, paalam , sayonara, Au revoir, “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Bizzy, if it were just an online relationship, I'd probably convince myself he is dead, post it in the obituary, then finally allow myself to wallow for his death. If the relationship where in the flesh, then I'd somehow know his whereabouts. That makes it easier to get even...lol... no need for closure when all's fair and square. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Bizzy, if it were just an online relationship, I'd probably convince myself he is dead, post it in the obituary, then finally allow myself to wallow for his death. If the relationship where in the flesh, then I'd somehow know his whereabouts. That makes it easier to get even...lol... no need for closure when all's fair and square. I responded to you before but did not appear, I wonder why, maybe I forgot to save it. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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I responded to you too earlier Ta Jane and it also disappeared like my response to Vivian and there was response from that guy Rut I hope you read them. I can feel your frustrations, like grrr!@# ! “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Yes you are right but given a choice everyone will probably prefer straight answer or goodbye over sudden disappearance without any clue. Being jerk is not always the case sometimes others just suddenly go MOA and the other is left wondering. Thanks for dropping by. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Waiting for the answer doesn't mean waiting for him. I am definitely moving on and saying goodbye. He is history but we keep history , look back at them and find answers so yes it may take "Till The End of Time"  to find answer or maybe no answer.“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Thank you I like your comment I can wait for the answer but not wait for the person forever. The 7 year non communication or non contact is definitely a law in Phil my sister has applied that law to gain back her freedom but I am not just sure about the details but definitely cost lots of money. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Hi Sam, it's not that it's not working out, it's not just working the way I wanted it to be so still undecided. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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I agree and I believe that if we manage to get through those times we should be able to look back and smile or even laugh about it. Thanks for sharing. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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Thank you sis you are so kind and sweet as usual. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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