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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
12/7/2014 11:06 pm
This is when I leave you.


I was watching a movie yesterday titled, "This is when I leave you." Picture this scene from the movie in your mind and tell me what your reaction is. Husband is rushing home to surprise his wife because it was their 3rd wedding anniversary. He brought home a cake with 3 candles, lighted them and brings the cake inside their room. Husband opens the door and find his wife in bed making love with his boss on their wedding anniversay. Obviously he was shocked, speechless, turned around and walk out the door. Sat on the table quietly and blow the candles. I say wtf that's all? I would like him to throw the cake to their faces that would have been more realistic, wouldn't it?

Well obviously we all react differently, some bottle up their angers while others are more vviolent and volatile. Fast forward the movie, the woman then found out that she is pregnant and told the husband that it was his. He was thrilled about it specially after hearing the fetus heartbeat via ultrasound. To cut it short they are getting back together despite the wife having an affair with his boss for about one year. Seriously? Was the writer out of his mind? There's a little twist, the husband met an old friend and slept together one night. This girl has been in love with him and he had some feelings for her too.

One day while he was with the other woman his phone rang , it is his wife having bleeding and possible miscarriage. The girl heard and push him to go to his wife. In the hospital the husband's boss also came rushing to the rescue even kissing his wife in front of him. Again to cut the story short his boss, the other man is leaving his wife behind because he doesn't want responsibility looking after a step . The other man leaves, easy for him, it was just an affair . The husband is also leaving the other girl and staying with his wife because they are having a baby.

Unbelieveable! So when will you leave someone you love? is it really easier to leave an affair? This is just a movie I know but it can possibly happen in real life. If you were the main character, the one who was cheated on , on your wedding anniversary, will you stay just because you are having a baby? I am sure we will have different opinions. I want to know, when will you leave someone you love? What will it take to leave?


“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


ass_ungot 58M
53 posts
12/8/2014 12:33 pm

One can never define love in its infinite essence unless experienced. We all have in a way felt what it is but differ in exposure. No matter what and who is at fault, if one sacrifices their feeling for a better outcome, then leaving is never an option. And this applies whether its an affair or not.
Kampai !!! ..til I die

It is never my intent to discontent the imminent...


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/8/2014 9:19 pm

    Quoting ass_ungot:
    One can never define love in its infinite essence unless experienced. We all have in a way felt what it is but differ in exposure. No matter what and who is at fault, if one sacrifices their feeling for a better outcome, then leaving is never an option. And this applies whether its an affair or not.
    Kampai !!! ..til I die
Wow, you seem to love reaaly so deeply, she is a lucky woman.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/8/2014 9:22 pm

    Quoting  :

ta Jane that's me too once trust is broken then it's goodbye from me.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/9/2014 4:59 am

Che, stories like this do happen in real life. Prudish to say, ditch the wife and start a new life with the other girl. Just support the baby after all not gonna be the first time a baby will born fatherless. I suppose its the trend now.

The way it ended, we can only commiserate with the pathetic husband. An uninvited comment and violent reaction, we're only onlookers...

Miss you here for a while..


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/9/2014 12:34 pm

    Quoting ORTENSA:
    if am a man an i love her very much....and promised me not to do it again still ready to accept her but once she repeated again..... there i have to delete her in my life no matter what...coz in our life no one is perfect n temptation is everywhere so give chance....
Orten she was doing it for a year so she has repeated it over and over, glad it did not happen to us.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/9/2014 12:37 pm

    Quoting theta2011:
    Che, stories like this do happen in real life. Prudish to say, ditch the wife and start a new life with the other girl. Just support the baby after all not gonna be the first time a baby will born fatherless. I suppose its the trend now.

    The way it ended, we can only commiserate with the pathetic husband. An uninvited comment and violent reaction, we're only onlookers...

    Miss you here for a while..
Theta I agree with you , thanks for dropping by. Yeah I have been quiet for a while coz I have been a bit busy and nothing much to blog about.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”