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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
9/27/2014 10:13 pm
Little things that makes women happy and I don't mean in bed.


Forget the I love you whisper in her ears, specially if you don't mean it. There are many simple things that a man can do to show a woman how much he cares. Some of these little things you don't even know we appreciate just because we don't say so. You don't have to search so hard to find ways to please her most of the things you do are anough if they come from your heart.

Here is my list :

Listen to her, no matter how silly the topic she want to talk about like here dreams last night she will be pleased if you genuinely listen

Make her laugh without making fun of her or better laugh with her. Appreciate her more when she laugh or smile and when you do that it will naturally come out to you that you want to see her laugh or smile a lot.

Hug and kiss as often as possible.

Help with house chores without being asked specially if you both work.

Tell her she is beautiful and tell her how lucky you are to have her, better yet tell her friends.

Call her, text her, email her , chat to her at least once or twice a day. In this age there's no excuse for not being able to get in touch with her even if you are miles apart.

Take her out as often as you can even just to a grocery, to a game, to the park or just driving around. Make her feel that you really want to spend time with her.

Give her little presents, nothing expensive even just simple cards to show that you are always thinking of her.

Dance for her or dance with her, be spontaneous, be silly. She will always remember you for it.

Offer your shoulders to her be sympathetic no matter how simple it is that she was upset about and then make her laugh.

There you go, too easy? What do you do? Whatever it is if it is genuinely done because of love then it will make any woman happy.



“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
9/27/2014 11:16 pm


I just chat cam to cam with my wife, as though we're on LDR while she's in the bedroom and I'm in the living room. Then I call her to tell her BRB, I'll be taking a shower


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/28/2014 1:53 am

    Quoting freddiepearl:
    why is it men should be the ones doing all this.do we as men not need a sweet kiss. or just a hug or telling us ur special. or maybe jus say honey i love u cuz u are u.

    this is typical mind set with society, men should be the one doing the nuturing. oh wait, men have no feelings. we are only here to pamper , serve etc females. i understand now. this is why many men life alone
Fred why don't you tell us then what makes men happy. I can't speak for them but I do know of course simple things.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/28/2014 1:54 am

    Quoting  :

Yeah tinks, same here.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/28/2014 1:54 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    I just chat cam to cam with my wife, as though we're on LDR while she's in the bedroom and I'm in the living room. Then I call her to tell her BRB, I'll be taking a shower

That's cool old.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/28/2014 1:55 am

    Quoting  :

Gab I agree , time together is priceless.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/28/2014 4:15 pm

    Quoting  :

So true Socal and like I said , I am speaking for the women only, what I am trying to point is that it doesn't take that much to show love. Men knows better themselves what "little" things they appreciate , so why don't you tell us?

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/30/2014 6:10 am

    Quoting freddiepearl:
    also, read ur blog opening. i can say as an older man. each thing u say ladies like , men like wise likes. listening to him is a key. dont make him feel like a loser if he cries or gets up set. a little pamperING is good for us heartless men. we have tons of emotions. we are raised not to show emotions, you know the macho thing. men , contrary to popular belief are not immune to feeling the same as ladies. its a major dble standard. ladies can cry allday or have hormone issues???., yet men cant come home after a bad day where our boss has treated us lower than whale sh*T. IF WE DO, WE ARE DEEMED P***IES. NO BACK BONE ETC. OH WAIT...... SOCIETY TELLS THAT WE ARE NOT TO HAVE FEELINGS OR HURT OR BE ANGRY OR SAD OR LONELY OR GRIEVE. YEP THATS US, HEART LESS MEN. SPREADING LIES AN BS TO POOR HELPLESS LADIES. YEP I FORGET. PERISH THE THOUGHT. I WAS EMOTIONAL THERE FOR A MIN. TSK TSK
thanks Fred got it, listening is the key that's a good one.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/30/2014 6:13 am

    Quoting  :

Couldn't agree any less , it is a 2 way street yes.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”