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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
9/18/2014 6:51 am
I was late for a date.


If you are meeting someone for a date how many minutes to be considered too late? How long are you willing to wait? Should one be in a hurry because time is precious or should one slow down and enjoy the time? Truly time flies, it can be so late so soon and we can never bring back time so we should not be wasting time.

Time holds the key to many and time tells of our destiny. True, time can never be brought back yet many more time is wasted thinking back. Wondering of many other possibilities or just reminiscing memories. To me its fine to dwell on memories because memories too will be gone but make sure we only look back on what makes us happy because time enjoyed is not wasted time.

Is time relevant to a relationship? Is there an ideal time when to move on or move in? How long should one wait? Is it okay to sleep with one on your first date? If not how many? How long should one wait before he jump into another relationship and how long should one wait before one leaves? I think we will all agree that time is important in a relationship but for a better and loving relationship it should be time spent lovingly together.

Wouldn't it be better if relationship are like cars or machines, if something is wrong you can get it fixed? When you are sick of it you can upgrade or downgrade. You don't need time to wait when you are going to get it. But they are not cars or machines, we can't buy them. We have to spend time with them. Overtime, they become better or bitter but we can choose to stay or leave. On the other hand will one be happy making love with a machine?

Thank you for your time reading my blog, now if you can spare a moment to leave a comment
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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/18/2014 8:51 am

    Quoting  :

Very good thoughts , thanks.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/18/2014 1:19 pm

    Quoting freddiepearl:
    bizzy as always u pose interesting blogs. gab summed it up well. i feel if u are intersted enough to want to date some one u should be on time. having said that, there are variables to consider. if its first date, yes by all means be on time. if u are meeting ur date at a chosen place, be early an have the resturant know you are expecting a date an its ur 1st with them. slip the waiter an small amt to make them aware of the need for special attention. if you are invited over to some ones house. by all means be early. if im cooking for a date im flexable regarding time to arrive. if u see ur going to be late call an explain. nothing irritated me more than some one bing late an not take time to call.
    regarding sleeping with some one on 1st date!!! . being a man , my views will be some what opposite of your bizzy an gabs. not that i mean walk in the door an crawl in bed. men tend to become more aroused an easier much quicker. thus we become more " romantic" gab made a great point. in our age, well your ages , im old hahaha. we are mature an not kids. sex at our ages is better due to no kids less stress in life an in my case quickies are longies, meaning the quickies of teen years taking 15 mins not takes me 15 mins to remove my clothes an a hr to find it, mine i mean an then who knows how long till the rockets goes off. well in my case rather than rockets its small firecrackers. bizz uan gab are in your prime sexually. so either of u would be guilty of abuse of an elderly if you had sex with me, hahaha.
    bizzy i know ur comment regarding making love to a machine was to be funny. how ever i have known ladies that tell me vibs are much better an orgasms more intense. yes yes i know there is no one to cuddlewith or have foreplay only stating whats told to me.

    also, not sure if either of u have ever heard of a sybian. if no google it. its expensive but haveing known a lady that used one she said she is still weal from it 2 years later hahaha
    kisses to both of u,
Very funny Pat or Fred , made me laugh. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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racerx428 109M
1000 posts
9/20/2014 5:26 pm

Bizzy, being late is better then not showing up at all [/SIZE]


TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
9/20/2014 11:36 pm

    Quoting racerx428:
    Bizzy, being late is better then not showing up at all
I agree Racer. Hey nice to see you back.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”