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How do you take no for an answer? Someone: "Can I have your ym? I just want to see your beauty briefly on cam. Is that wrong to ask?" Me: " No, sorry I do not have one it was hacked and attacked by virus." There is this younger guy probably in his late 30's or early 40's who was persistent in asking for my messenger ID. I was able to give it to him in the past, he was persistent in seeing me on cam but I always decline. He asks like in middle of the night for which I am not comfortable. First because he has a gf, he is young and I don't really know him. It is my intuition that he is up to no good. At first we were friendly, he asks for advise about his relationship. I lost him from my messenger when my laptop was attacked by virus and my messenger was gone too. He resurfaced in the chat room one day, we chatted a bit and then later he asked for my private messenger ID, again for same reason. This time he was more persistent, a little aggressive and a bit obsessed. I said " I don't have one' again and again but he will not take no for an answer. I am getting frustrated and he is getting angry until he left. Today out of the blue a new handle turned up in the chat room and posted obscene fantasies about me. I was shocked! I don't know anyone who will do such a thing. Thankfully,there was this ignore button so I added him to my ignore list but that did not stopped him from posting obscenities. I kept guessing who will do something like that to me? Then it clicked it was him who was asking for my private messenger the other day. Well if someone can posts obscenities like that in an open chat what more in a private chat? Thank goodness I did not get sucked into his request. Thankfully the people in the chat room where nice people and friends who came to my defense and made me feel better. What a creep!. There are some people who doesn't know how to take "no" for an answer. What he did was abusive maybe can be called "verbal -abused" if I was able to read them. Luckily I did not have to because his post were hidden from me because of the ignore function of the chat room. He deserve to be punished so his actions were reported. Wiser me: Choose wisely who to chat to and who to give my private messenger ID to. No private message in the chat room from someone that I don't really know. Hmm. maybe I will stay away from the chat room a bit? Thanks to all who were with me in the chat room and gave me comforting words. He managed to ruin my time a bit but many manage to make it better. Thanks guys. To you please learn how to accept no for an answer. I'm glad it's only about chat. Gosh, I can't imagine what he will do if it is more than that and in person.  “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.” |
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bizz if this is same guy that was in chat the time i was there . his name began with a G. he has issues. u can report abuses on the flash chat. i reported him that day. never give any one , even folks u know well  , your id any where othere than here. by that i mean unlessu feel comfy chatting to them in another venue. he seems obssessed an that type can be dangerous. there is also a phone number that is listed for fff. its accessable world wide. that are very eay to work with an will monitor that name no matter where it goes. above all dont feel compelled to give any one ur id unless u know an feel comfortable with them. its like giving some one u meet on the bus ur home phone number. no way to know who or what they are.be careful. buzz me any time . i would be happy to help.  “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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They can always add me in ym - however it will be luck if they see me online - if they 're still persistent after saying 'NO' on seeing me on cam - I always take the exit door. If they want to post something nasty about me - no problem. I know myself better. 
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I enjoy chatting too I did not have any problem with others just this one handle just because I declined to give my other contact. Some people don't know how to take no for an answer. He posted his obscene fantasies he probably planned to post in private. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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There were few rejects so I am more cautious plus I learned from others too. “Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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They can always add me in ym - however it will be luck if they see me online - if they 're still persistent after saying 'NO' on seeing me on cam - I always take the exit door. If they want to post something nasty about me - no problem. I know myself better.  to tell me in private.“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”
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