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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
8/22/2014 2:57 am
Is he interested?


Wow like they say time flies when you are having fun. I have been on holiday going on 6 weeks now. Stayed 3 weeks in LA and 3 weeks in Philippines. I promised I will share my experience to some people here. It was overall a happy holiday meeting my family in LA. Unfortunately I was unable to meet any fff members when I was in USA though there were plans. I met old classmates and of course mostly family.

I met an old suitor from way back in university. He is now twice divorced. His 2 marriages lasted 10 years each. He has not been in any new relationship for the past 3 years. We went out for dinner twice and we talked on the phone. We talked about life and of course the past.

Silly me, I was hoping he will state his interest in me, but like in the past he never did. We call them "torpe" (sheepish). He said I was more than a crush way back then and he said he will miss me. That's all. He said keep in touch but he never does. I really enjoyed being with him but I don't think he is romantically interested.

He showed gentlemanly gestures but could hardly look me in the eye. There were some awkward moments but I really enjoyed my time with him. It was good while it last. I take that he is not romantically interested, he is not ready for another relationship or he thinks I'm not ready. I don't assume anything.

Well I can only guess. Shall I ask him? Should I be bold to take further steps and flirt with him? Nah, never, I don't think he's worth it. If he really liked me he should take further steps. Right? What do you think?

More coming up, meanwhile I will be waiting for your comments. I will still be in Phil until the 27th I still have some time for eb. Let me know if you want us to meet for lunch but no buffet please! LOL


“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
8/22/2014 7:29 am

    Quoting  :

Hi sis Pamela,
Thank you for the comments. I can only wish that he come to his senses sooner than later.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
8/22/2014 7:32 am

    Quoting  :

I will be having eb with mumay , cris and mavil on Monday 25th lunch time at Trinoma and ZB on Tues at MOA, maybe you can join us if you like?

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
8/22/2014 3:06 pm

Well, maybe he doesn't want to rush in for a third divorce and taking it easy.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
8/22/2014 4:48 pm

    Quoting freddiepearl:
    each time i see a question like this asked, iam tempted to reply. how ever with my track record with females , both gfs, wife, dates as well as friends. i know it is not wise. even at my age 69. i should have better level of experience. how ever it seems no matter what i say, do, not do, advise, comment, IT TURNS OUT WRONG. so i understand it is me an how i speak, act , conduct, my self. so , you say . why not change??? this is a mystery. i must be blind dumb an stupid. cuz as i go thru my life i dont seeme doing or saying any thing wrong. so i guess i am saying, ifi dont know what im doing ot saying thats wrong how can i change.
    this is reason i am alone an will be till THE LORD calls me home. i know this is some one else's blog but thought i would offer some flawed thinking??
    maybe answer to the bloggers question is very simple, WHAT EVER IS MEAN TO BE WILL BE.......
Whatever is meant to be will be, I agree, Que sera sera . Thanks for you reply my friend, I will always be your friend and I consider you the same.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
8/22/2014 5:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Ta Jane,
Mon 25th lunch at Trinoma is fine , meet up at stabucks, I lost your numeber but mine is zero , syam, tatlo, anim, nine, lima, syam, walo, pito, apat , tres. I tried messaging you but cant. See you then.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
8/23/2014 5:58 am

What can a woman do aside from waiting? take one step bolder and ask him of what he really feels? Reap the reward or rip your heart? Sorry, more troubled questions. Truth is, I wouldn't know what to do myself, were it me..I'll probably wait till kingdom come

Hopeful to join your eb on monday to meet you


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
8/23/2014 9:05 am

    Quoting theta2011:
    What can a woman do aside from waiting? take one step bolder and ask him of what he really feels? Reap the reward or rip your heart? Sorry, more troubled questions. Truth is, I wouldn't know what to do myself, were it me..I'll probably wait till kingdom come

    Hopeful to join your eb on monday to meet you
looking forward for Monday Theta but I don't want to look forward about him, no guts no glory.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
8/23/2014 9:50 pm

    Quoting san_miguel911:
    if neither of you will make a move, then let the interest take care of itself. If it is fated, it will happen.

    I see a meeting of minds happening... have fun y'all
"If it's fated it will happen" I believe in that.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
8/23/2014 9:53 pm

    Quoting  :

I wonder who? Her fate has not not arrived.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
8/25/2014 5:53 am

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    looking forward for Monday Theta but I don't want to look forward about him, no guts no glory.
My apologies for not coming..there will always be next time.

Sorry..


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
8/25/2014 9:48 am

    Quoting theta2011:
    My apologies for not coming..there will always be next time.

    Sorry..
Yes we were sorry too that you were not able to come but of course we understand and yes we will have it again next time.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”