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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
5/18/2014 12:41 am
Do you believe in love at first sight?


Someone: "Do you believe in love at first sight or do you want me to walk by again?"

Me: " I don't know. To see is to believe I guess."

Can anyone tell me please? Is it possible to fall for someone you saw the first time? Worse is you saw her online only and chatted with her for the first time. Seriously is that possible? If not the first time, is it possible to fall in love to someone you have not even seen? Not even a picture?

I'd say yes it's possible but that doesn't mean you fell in love with the person per se. You fell in love with the words, the gestures, the ideas brought into your mind and you mistake that for loving the person. You fall in love to the idea of being in love. You get what I mean? After all anything is possible.

Emotions are hard to control. Have you heard of the word emotional intelligence? Emotional intelligence [EI} is the ability to monitor one's own and other people's emotions, to discriminate between different emotions and label them appropriately, and to use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior.

Love is an emotion so we should use this information to guide our thinking and behavior. To guide us in our decision to be in a relationship or not. So if there is love, be it at first sight or not then why not. Many more emotions will follow and then these emotions will guide us again on our future decisions.

So to me analyze that emotion to make a correct decision. If it is appropriate then go ahead, if not then stop! It is not emotionally intelligent to be in a loving relationship just because the emotion is there.

What does your heart say? Tell it to your brain.
I tell my girlfriend do as I say not as I do.
Well I have not done anything inappropriate.


“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
5/18/2014 2:24 am

Oh maybe a mind that has less experience and less memory is easier target like a laundry that is less dirty? Uh oh I might be brainwashed.
Thanks Ta Jane, Yes I will see you soon.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
5/18/2014 6:21 pm

Really? Can u tell us more? I don't believe.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
5/19/2014 8:06 pm

    Quoting  :

Tinks jorg gave a clue taga Paranaque.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
6/2/2014 4:46 am

    Quoting  :

Yes u can call me tita, tama nothing is impossible, sabi nga what the mind can perceive it can be achieved.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


racerx428 109M
1000 posts
6/14/2014 8:08 am

I think it might be interest at first sight. Love will evolve upon time and getting to know the person. Plus, keeping the fire alive... just my 2 cents


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