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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
4/21/2014 2:44 pm
my one night stand on video chat


OMG! First time I chatted to a man that I met from IM, he looks decent from his profile so I agreed to meet him online and had video chat. He was 2 years younger than me ( well that's what he said). he was decently dressed too, good looking white European man.

He threw some compliments at me and with occasional nods. He doesn't speak English very well. After a few more exchanges of posts he said he wanted to see more? I asked what he meant, he said he wanted "to know me more". He stood up and turned around to gesture he want to see my body so I did the same. Again some nodding and he said "very good."

Then he wanted me to bring the camera down a bit more. I said to myself, hey wait a minute something is fishy here. I asked again why? He said I want to see your body. That made me furious. So I asked blatantly "so you want to see me naked?" with the emoticons. He said no just maybe with your bra, Grrrr!

I wanted to slap him but I just laughed. This man wanted to see my boobs and did not even bother asking my name. I told him off. I told him that he is not in a meat market and not in his wildest dream will I ever do what he wanted. I was still polite to say that I don't want to chat with him ever again and bid him goodbye. He was shocked and asked why and if I was angry. Duh?! I just laughed to know that I was talking to an idiot. Obviously his brain is somewhere down there. Oh boy what a night.

Is that common? Have you ever experienced something similar? I want to understand what was he thinking and what was that all about? But whatever it is, to me it is unacceptable. I will not expose myself on cam other than my bf or my h
usband.


“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/21/2014 10:31 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Tinkah, you made me laugh more. Now I know. We are actually same profession that's how I know people from Pang but I am not licensed here. So yeah seen all sorts but never shown mine to any . specially to stranger. Plus there's not much to see.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/21/2014 11:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes I believe you will not do that but I don't believe in showing flesh online until I have seen and known the person long enough. In real and in person I don't have a problem I will be glad if he is interested.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


zb1020 66F
102 posts
4/22/2014 1:28 am

ugh! kalurkey talaga!.

haysss okies na lang makipagbalitaktakan sa chat room than makipag bilaran ng body sa video cam...

I think there's a cultural factor in the idea of "nakedness"..sa ibang lahi, normal and common daw..but, if there's a sexual connotation,that becomes no longer common...eekkk, lumabo ang isyu.. basta, wak patol sa mga manyakis!..


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/22/2014 3:57 pm

    Quoting  :

Ta Jane I guess I am not bold or modern enough to do such thing. If I will ever do I will blog about it

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/22/2014 3:59 pm

    Quoting zb1020:
    ugh! kalurkey talaga!.

    haysss okies na lang makipagbalitaktakan sa chat room than makipag bilaran ng body sa video cam...

    I think there's a cultural factor in the idea of "nakedness"..sa ibang lahi, normal and common daw..but, if there's a sexual connotation,that becomes no longer common...eekkk, lumabo ang isyu.. basta, wak patol sa mga manyakis!..
Thanks Dai for making me laugh,

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/22/2014 4:03 pm

    Quoting jorg_ge2:
    Nothing's wrong showing yourself on cam nekkid.
    I did it at times showing my self half nekkid on cam while playing with my black bird as requested by my lady friend.

    Yes i've got a black bird which was given to me by a friend from Mindanao,some folks call it Mayna,it can muster a few tagalog words.


Hmm I bet u really did it, Oh no I hate to imagine it.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/24/2014 6:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Iris I tried just to see how it is u should give a go and let us know what the outcome. It was disrespectful but I did not take it seriously I just found it hilarious. Having said that though I feel sorry for others who agrees for the wrong reasons or those who were tricked. You are right too they can be recorded without our consent.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


zb1020 66F
102 posts
4/26/2014 12:13 am

    Quoting  :

tinkah. the answer is nope and never..jeeezzz, walang guts ang lola mo eh..

and, not even for the money dai....I have known what's like to live with just a little so, no problem if I have to go thru life like that again...

stay safe .....


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/26/2014 10:52 pm

    Quoting  :

North like I said I feel sorry for those women who got tricked. Thanks for the warning I hope others read your comment too. I have learned my lessons earlier so now I don't trust easily.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


racerx428 109M
1000 posts
5/3/2014 3:56 am

Bizzy, they might be sweet and flirty in the beginning... the real self will show up !!!


TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
5/3/2014 8:06 am

    Quoting racerx428:
    Bizzy, they might be sweet and flirty in the beginning... the real self will show up !!!
Hey Racer glad to see you again. How are you and yours doing? Hope all is well with you. Yes hard to trust someone at the start.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


eb1209

5/6/2014 5:55 am

Which is why I NEVER engage in videocam or chat with Looneys or any MEN online...You are better off exchanging emails first, and take it from there...Thanks for sharing..

Just call me ELZ


racerx428 109M
1000 posts
5/17/2014 2:57 am

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    Hey Racer glad to see you again. How are you and yours doing? Hope all is well with you. Yes hard to trust someone at the start.
Hiya Bizzy, I'm doing well and lets say my other half was never meant to be...


TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
5/17/2014 10:07 am

    Quoting racerx428:
    Hiya Bizzy, I'm doing well and lets say my other half was never meant to be...
Oh sorry to hear that Racer but I'm glad to read your doing well.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
5/20/2014 7:29 am

Bizzy,

Clash of opinions. I, myself was a victim (or should I say prizecatcher ) many times. In different colors, height, sizes (I mean body built ). And each time twas a different reaction. If the guy sounded pleasant - I let him do his thing while I watched, other times I got off. Oh when they asked me to shred off some clothes, thats was my cue word to escape.

I don't entertain that kind of chat anymore, too old for child's play


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
5/21/2014 2:10 am

    Quoting skydancer4u:
    Bizz the man just like a freebee entertainment...perversive acts in videocam so common scenario...u learned a lesson just be aware next time...
Thanks sky, yes I think I learned my lesson.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
5/21/2014 2:17 am

    Quoting  :

Tinka I like to go in sexy lingerie tho just to leave something to the imagination but NO NEVER on camera unless if he is my husband and he is away.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
5/21/2014 2:20 am

    Quoting theta2011:
    Bizzy,

    Clash of opinions. I, myself was a victim (or should I say prizecatcher ) many times. In different colors, height, sizes (I mean body built ). And each time twas a different reaction. If the guy sounded pleasant - I let him do his thing while I watched, other times I got off. Oh when they asked me to shred off some clothes, thats was my cue word to escape.

    I don't entertain that kind of chat anymore, too old for child's play
wow theta that sounds interesting. I always ask the guy first that he must be decently clothed because I have a little apo with me. Thanks for sharing.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”