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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
4/2/2014 6:11 pm
Romantic Date


Someone: "What will be a romantic first date?"
Me: "If the 2 of you really like each other it will be romantic already the first time wherever you go or whatever you do. Even if you go to Luneta and eat fishball. The follow up date is a different story because there could be some expectations"

We sometimes forget simple things in life and the real purpose of the date. If we are talking about special someone and spending romantic time together then if there is romantic connection then we shouldn't sweat it out too much because being together on a date for the first time with someone you like romantically is romantic itself already. The challenge here is how to maintain and elevate that romantic interest.

The question by someone was followed up and explained that it is a friendly first date to get to know someone. Well if it is a friendly first date then you don't have to be very romantic either. I prefer that you be as natural as possible in order to know each other.

Having said that, that you don't have to be romantic on a first friendly date doesn't mean you shouldn't. You certainly can if you want to, specially if you want to impress. There is certainly a vast options there but first, I think there are 3 main things you need to consider before planning. First is it worth it? Second your budget and third your time.
So, when and how should we have romantic date?
After taking into consideration these 3 main things then you can plan.

Here are some of my ideas:

Flowers , most women love flowers so pick her up from her place and bring her flowers. Go for a walk and talk in a place after dinner where there are many flowers like the botanical garden.

Bring lots of humor. Make sure you remember some funny stories to break the ice specially. Make each other laugh out loud. So that you will both be smiling and thinking about the date until the following days.

Music brings out romance but if you go in a loud noisy club then you will not be able to talk. Just stay in a car then and cruise with soft music or park at a beach with soft music in the background. Your theme song might even come out this way.

Other things you can do:

Go on a cruise dinner.
Go to an arcade and play some games.
Go to one of your fave sports or sport you want to learn like bowling, archery, golf driving or even poker or other card game. Preferably where you are playing close to each other.
Attend to some charity events like charity dinner or ball.
Go shopping together and cook together.
Go on a picnic.

I'm sure there are a lot of suggestions out there. Can you please share it? What will be a romantic first date for you?



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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/3/2014 8:20 pm

    Quoting  :

yes, camping too with bonfire oh so romantic.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/4/2014 1:39 am

    Quoting jorg_ge2:
    go on swimming!! put on the bikinis!! and bring out some wine...

    right inside your bedroom!!
Not on a first date , sobra ka naman.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/5/2014 1:52 am

thanks for sharing ta Jane.Incidentally, I just read that if you put viagra on the vase the flowers are more erect and last longer.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/5/2014 10:03 pm

    Quoting  :

oh can I go on double date with yous? But you have to find me a date.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/6/2014 3:37 am

    Quoting  :

Yessss, veryyyy! If not then you have to work more.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
4/8/2014 11:02 pm

    Quoting Onyok79:
    I think its really daunting task to be romantic on the first date like walking down the beach under the moonlight like Miss Mujer suggested or goin to the movies pag kasama nya ang LOLA ! as her chaperone HAHAHAH. But if I was given a second date with her lola's approval of course LOL, It would be something simple like cooking dinner for her with champagne and candle lights and soft music playing in the background. If all works well ehem maybe a little foot massage if she's ok with it. Naks ! heheheh
Nyok ok yan perhaps maconvince mo si Mujer with lola's approval pa. San ka pa with champagne and candle lights pa wow! Keep us posted ha?

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”