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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
12/26/2013 1:20 pm
Tougher not wiser - another new years resolution to make.



Someone:“... do not fall in love in the chat room.”
Me: (face blushing with both hands covering face in embarrassment) “ I have.”

Silly me, with that big L sign, that was in my first week of joining FFF. Looking back I did not really fall in love to the handle/person because I did not really know him. I say I fell in love because I felt the feeling of being in love. That feeling of surrender, the willingness to do anything and to give up everything in the name of love. Does that make sense?

Wiser? Me: Doing the same mistake second time is not a mistake it is stupidity whether in or out of the chat room. So, before I make the same mistake I will have to prove first that the first one was really a mistake. Let me elaborate my point a bit more. If you bought something which you thought was a genuine item but later proved that it was a fake then buying from the same store or supplier again aiming to get a genuine article then that is stupidity.

Oh wait, I just realized I am talking about myself here. Well I guess that makes me stupid not wiser. The first time I call that my baptism, I did not handle that well I hang my handle very quickly and I was born again.
The second one I now call that initiation. Look I’m still here I survived and laughing out loud. I may not have been wiser but I say I am tougher, so let’s see what the next one will be if ever there may be. I guess it won’t be long I will be expert in this field. So watch this blog. Ah, an addition to my new year’s resolution, “don’t fall in love too easily, stupid.”

I believe they meant no harm and no reason to harm me, it is just their game or fantasy and I accidentally traverse their playing field. So no harm done. Come on you! Don’t laugh at me, laugh with me laughing at me.

Hey I'm ready I have my thick jacket on to protect my onion skin and I have a shield to protect me from whatever you will throw at me for being stupid and shouting it all over blog land, ha, I'm a tough girl ya' know.

Aray ko, binatukan ako! Sige kayo pag nagalit ako sa inyo ha - iiyak ako.

One of my true love now blogging and emoticons.

So is tougher wiser? What do you think?


“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
12/26/2013 2:54 pm

Bizzy, we all got hurt with online love. That's why you should always keep your guards up. I too fell victim of online love, not once but twice. I guess three times the charm, now very much in love. Don't get me wrong i tried to not to fall in love. But the more i got to know her, the more i fell for her. The best thing was the feeling was mutual and that was what made it so easy for us. We communicate everyday and tell each other how we feel. Sorry don't mean to sound cheezy...lol. Don't rule online love out, it can come true ...


TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/26/2013 3:54 pm

    Quoting racerx428:
    Bizzy, we all got hurt with online love. That's why you should always keep your guards up. I too fell victim of online love, not once but twice. I guess three times the charm, now very much in love. Don't get me wrong i tried to not to fall in love. But the more i got to know her, the more i fell for her. The best thing was the feeling was mutual and that was what made it so easy for us. We communicate everyday and tell each other how we feel. Sorry don't mean to sound cheezy...lol. Don't rule online love out, it can come true ...
thanks racer like I said you and paw are awespiring, awesomely inspiring,

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/26/2013 3:56 pm

    Quoting jorg_ge2:
    They say,
    You need to be "born again" before you can enter the Kingdom of Happiness.
aha, I have the prerequisite then, good to know.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/26/2013 3:58 pm

    Quoting  :

Ta Jane. I will remember that matsing quote of yours and I will apply to monkeys that comes my way.
Happy New Year too.
Che

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zb1020 66F
102 posts
12/26/2013 4:17 pm

bizz, love comes when you least expect it from unexpected places -- online, offline, outline,underline or any lines you can think of...

meantime,enjoy!


zb1020 66F
102 posts
12/26/2013 4:26 pm

    Quoting jorg_ge2:
    They say,
    You need to be "born again" before you can enter the Kingdom of Happiness.
‘they say‘????..hmmm, i gather you are not speaking from experience , jorge...

hello and happy holidays!


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/26/2013 4:45 pm

    Quoting zb1020:
    bizz, love comes when you least expect it from unexpected places -- online, offline, outline,underline or any lines you can think of...

    meantime,enjoy!
Love it doll come live in OZ please asap.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


sunshiny_f 70F
1221 posts
12/26/2013 8:48 pm

    Quoting zb1020:
    bizz, love comes when you least expect it from unexpected places -- online, offline, outline,underline or any lines you can think of...

    meantime,enjoy!
hi Zb love these sort of lines belated meripasko!

susan


sunshiny_f 70F
1221 posts
12/26/2013 8:53 pm

Bizzy, urgggg hh it hurts really.. but learn the lesson and enjoy.. Next time don't just plunge into it. Wear ur SCUBA suit CReate a wall to protect our feelings and leave some love to ourself.

kaya lang masarap ma-inlove di ba???

belated meripasko!

happpy hugss..

susan


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/26/2013 10:09 pm

    Quoting sunshiny_f:
    Bizzy, urgggg hh it hurts really.. but learn the lesson and enjoy.. Next time don't just plunge into it. Wear ur SCUBA suit CReate a wall to protect our feelings and leave some love to ourself.

    kaya lang masarap ma-inlove di ba???

    belated meripasko!

    happpy hugss..

    susan
yes sun but I am just laughing about it seriously .

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racerx428 110M
1000 posts
12/27/2013 5:44 am

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    thanks racer like I said you and paw are awespiring, awesomely inspiring,
Bizzy, thanks for the kind words .


TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/28/2013 12:36 am

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    Fall in love all you want - but if it be here... keep them thoughts in your cyberspace world. Because really, until you have a face-to-face meet, all of the chats and talks and sweet nothings exchanged is for naught !

    I had earlier explained my position on on-line affairs to a fellow blogger... perhaps if she has the time to expound on that, she will.
    We shall await her exposition (on the basics of love).


Yes I know now like I said it was stupid of me but I have learned and ready to take another test I am sure I will pass it with flying colours after 2 fails.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/28/2013 5:56 am

    Quoting  :

ill drink to that girlfriend or maybe just have a nail spa

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/28/2013 5:49 pm

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    try falling in love with me - and I will tell you how you fare
too late now dimas , I am smarter now in this game like i said.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/28/2013 5:54 pm

    Quoting  :

Good luck to you sherlock thanks for d comment

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/28/2013 5:59 pm

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    too late now dimas , I am smarter now in this game like i said.
I WILL BE MY OWN JUDGE AND JURY, THE EXAMINER, THE CHECKER AND EVERYTHING , TIME WILL GIVE ME THE MARKS

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”