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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
12/16/2013 1:13 am
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Someone: “You are in your 50’s and you have the landi of my teenage gf.”

Me:Nganga, speechless, dumbfounded with mixed emotions. I really did not know what to say.

I was hesitant to post this one because I am afraid I will be drawing attention to me but I have written it so I might as well. Can I please draw your attention to the situation? I was thinking is that a good thing or a bad thing? The icons that followed the post made it look like a humour or mockery. Is that offensive? If it is coming from my sons it is definitely not a good thing. If it is coming from a stranger I will probably slap him in the face, joke. So it really depends on who said it I guess. I just wonder. I was never called a landi in my life at least not in my face and to be called that at 50? Honestly it’s not my balat sibuyas, I wasn't offended but I was left wondering did he just judge me? Who cares.

Wiser? me: Well I have no control of what anyone wants to say or think but I definitely have control over my own reactions and that’s what matters. I have no control over what your comments will be but I can ignore them, delete them, rebut or fight you they are my reactions all under my control. Any comment?

Ladies what do you think will be your reply if that was said to you?


“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


zb1020 66F
102 posts
12/16/2013 5:01 am

hays speechless din ang lola!...

perhaps you also have to consider the manner and the way he sounded when he deliver the word...


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/16/2013 6:24 am

    Quoting zb1020:
    hays speechless din ang lola!...

    perhaps you also have to consider the manner and the way he sounded when he deliver the word...
Thanks ZB the manner was not bad but with the tone can't really tell in here could be humour or mockery. There is other part of the story that's why it wasn't offensive but that part I was just speechless.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


sunshiny_f 70F
1221 posts
12/16/2013 6:31 am

WHATTTT???

Well it truly depends on how it was said n who said it. and it can only be uttered if they see over flirtatious(landi) behavior..

wag lang si madam auring nakita nya ha ha ha!!


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/16/2013 1:45 pm

    Quoting sunshiny_f:
    WHATTTT???

    Well it truly depends on how it was said n who said it. and it can only be uttered if they see over flirtatious(landi) behavior..

    wag lang si madam auring nakita nya ha ha ha!!
just like my reaction. there was really no flirtatious behaviour as far as I'm concern, Thanks Sun.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/16/2013 1:51 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks tajane I have learn to take these comments with a grain of salt, one said I am a stick in the mud and another said I am cold as the snow. Tsk! I don't know what I am now. Like I said I am in control of my reactions, thanks for dropping by

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/16/2013 4:08 pm

    Quoting jorg_ge2:
    Hmmm I suggest you only chat with me when it comes to personal " matters"like S.
    I can be trusted.
but you cant trust me jorg I wil blog about it.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/17/2013 8:15 pm

    Quoting  :

that's the way to go mizel , I should learn from you.
I don't really take these seriously anyway.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/17/2013 8:18 pm

    Quoting  :

that's true bee I also do that when we have girls talk.

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/17/2013 8:19 pm

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    In this forum... "it's only words, and words are all THEY have to take your heart away..."

    "THEY" - you have to classify and qualify. Some say it constructively albeit perhaps the choice of words are poor, but well meant, nonetheless. The greater majority are just out there to put you down - just because it is their low-life way!

    Get to know who said it and why - then maybe the reason will be clear to you.
Are you sure you are not the one who said that?

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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
12/17/2013 8:22 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes I'm back and back from suspension too, felt like I was grounded for no reason. Stink suspension.

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sunshiny_f 70F
1221 posts
12/18/2013 4:23 am

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    just like my reaction. there was really no flirtatious behaviour as far as I'm concern, Thanks Sun.
bizzy ..maybe I will just give him a a"killer look" I just cross the bridge when I am there.. and I will find out how I react and respond