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theta2011 53F
781 posts
7/26/2013 7:20 am
LOOKING BACK

Today I open up my 'closed' albums in FB. I decided to share it once again to my new and old friends there. Pictures of happy moments together with a person I was so attached that time. The person's gone, but fond places and faces captured in that photos will never disappear from my memory. I have a knack for forgetting someone easily those that wanted to be forgotten, well - easily.

When I was in the 'mourning' period (over a lost love), I evaded that area of pix world for about a couple of months, its like rubbing salt in my raw wounds then. Then I forgot all about it until 3 hours ago. I scanned pix after pix and brought a smile to my lips. Not bad at all - good times remembered can make you cry or laugh. The latter for me. It means another thing tho' - I forget the love I had for the person - and he's now only a part of a beautiful memory.

A good sign indeed for I'm now starting a new phase of my life
..


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
7/26/2013 10:39 am

Thet,

I'm really in awe of amazement to you. A very strong and phenominal lady! For me takes years to recover feeling for eternity. Yet, in reality nothing good last forever. Kaya, yes enjoying fond memories na lang...

Happy weekend...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
7/27/2013 6:16 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you Maia..And also the same good wish for you


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
7/27/2013 6:21 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Thet,

    I'm really in awe of amazement to you. A very strong and phenominal lady! For me takes years to recover feeling for eternity. Yet, in reality nothing good last forever. Kaya, yes enjoying fond memories na lang...

    Happy weekend...
'te Tess,

Its not about moving on in a day or a month or a year, sometimes it takes forever - what's important is our own ability to accept 'end' of a thing. More importantly - the 'beginning' of a new thing.

Life goes on as long as one's breathing. I always remember that. There's hope. Happy weekend


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
7/27/2013 6:23 am

    Quoting  :

Jeff,

We enjoy their company while with us, but when they're gone - their memories na lang.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
7/27/2013 6:28 am

    Quoting  :

Whoa Screen, give me a break hehehe...kidding.

Only as a FRIEND!


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
7/27/2013 6:37 am

    Quoting  :

Tajane,

Mismo. Thank you for the lyrics - I knew it by heart. Not only reminded me of the recent one but the love I lost so long ago. You know how songs can touch our hearts when we're in love or in the exact opposite - while we're falling out of love and broken down.

This one's not for going back, only to reminisce the feelings. No regrets, no pains just plain truth about stating how good one love once had.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
7/27/2013 6:52 am

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    i'm a-rubbing on you, I see



    P.S. in my case, I loved; but I never lost
Shin,

How your love-novela inspired me

Yeah, I used the word 'lost' because I believe that 'LOVE' is the biggest game one has to gamble. Laying down all the cards, win some, win everything, lose some - lose everything. In my dealings, I won some eventually lost some. There's something always left behind so I can start afresh everytime..


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
7/27/2013 6:54 am

    Quoting  :

Tinks,

Tho' the learning process can be so painful at times - cant complain for everytime I got an 'A' grade.


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/28/2013 12:12 pm

Thet, at least, the relationship did not go deep enough to cut like a "knife". May not be superficial either, but love, short or long is still love..Good to know that you can look at those pix again without feeling the "pain"...Mine was so painful, I had to literally put all the memoirs inside a huge box...for about 6 long years. And that's when I became an FFF member

ELZ


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
7/31/2013 5:19 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Thet, at least, the relationship did not go deep enough to cut like a "knife". May not be superficial either, but love, short or long is still love..Good to know that you can look at those pix again without feeling the "pain"...Mine was so painful, I had to literally put all the memoirs inside a huge box...for about 6 long years. And that's when I became an FFF member
ELZ,

For a (very short) time I can't look at the pix coz it brings back all the feelings behind every shot especially love, happiness and the feeling of belonginess - and then pain. I must admit the love wasn't that too deep coz the relationship suspended at the early stage. But I know I had 'love'..

Through the grace of years and constant learning - I learned the virtue of 'understanding'. Universally applied, life is easy.


crissy_1972 50F
11 posts
8/20/2013 5:32 am



Love and hurt goes hand in hand..we love and get hurt,whats important is that we learn how to move on and face the future with a smile on our face....130556


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
8/26/2013 4:39 am

    Quoting crissy_1972:


    Love and hurt goes hand in hand..we love and get hurt,whats important is that we learn how to move on and face the future with a smile on our face....130556
Thank you missy for sharing your insight about love and lost, and for visiting my pages. And I must say - life goes on sans love, but who knows??