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all about love , and my random thoughts about it. This post is only viewable by Filipino FriendFinder members. Join Filipino FriendFinder now! |
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Happy Valentine's Day Barbz, we miss you !!! As always a great piece I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything 
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2/14/2013 3:00 pm |
Happy Valentine's Day Barbz, we miss you !!! As always a great piece
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2/14/2013 4:23 pm |
You are very flattering naman manok... I can see that youve been busy roaming around. I like your comments this time. May tama ka! Or tinamaan ka ng magaling! Lol. Ive learned all those virtues the hard way. It was defined to me well by my own experiences. And i take all those negative lessons as a forward momentum. Yes my life is stormy for the past decade but along the way ive learned to make my own sunshine. Youve been reading a lot of the art of loving by erich fromm, tell me if im wrong....hehehe
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2/15/2013 4:04 am |
perry c? schocks! my dads gonna flip me over, i killed perry c on my list. lol
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2/15/2013 5:08 am |
I've braved the storm, hurricanes, tsunamies and all, I got so tired that these days, I just want to laugh and make everyone laugh.....You can call that the POSITIVE ATTITUDE, coz after all, HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE WE HAVE TO MAKE, and I'll always GO FOR IT!  >*  Just call me ELZ 
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2/15/2013 5:29 am |
perry c? schocks! my dads gonna flip me over, i killed perry c on my list. lol Happy Heart day amiga Barbz 
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2/15/2013 6:06 am |
I've braved the storm, hurricanes, tsunamies and all, I got so tired that these days, I just want to laugh and make everyone laugh.. ...You can call that the POSITIVE ATTITUDE, coz after all, HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE WE HAVE TO MAKE, and I'll always GO FOR IT! >*
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2/15/2013 6:13 am |
nope it will take me a lifetime to put something into paper or write something that will catch anyones attention let alone my own attention.
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2/15/2013 1:25 pm |
Hey I love Perry Como " And I loved you so! the people ask me why, how I lived till now, I tell them I don`t know " Happy Heart day amiga Barbz 
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2/15/2013 4:52 pm |
shocks ! didnt recognize you naman, you look so young there.and you look younger than me.lol! i pray i can surpass everything before i turned 41, is that too much to ask? hinde naman siguro. laughter reduces pain, connects people emotionally, and improves the flow of oxygen to the heart and brain.if that is so,its time to laugh at life now, coz it heals. Just call me ELZ
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2/17/2013 12:15 am |
thanks for your kind words zak. if in that very moment i saw someone ready and willing to sat down with me ,i will be forever greatful, most times in our nostalgic moments, more emotions can be poured out by just having someone to listen to the many iterations , even bantering you got in your head.
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2/17/2013 1:14 am |
i think tis could be the start of the many pep talk that we can have regarding relationship with a foreign germs.lol. to start with , i have my own constraint before.once upon a time in my life, I had frowned upon such relationships and found myself thinking that I couldn't possibly get into something like that. And, if I did, I'd have to be either desperate or simply out of my mind.I ve been working here for 4 years when i met my partner, you know the one who left to met with someone.Not because I had been harboring anti-foreigner feelings then, hmm mali ata ako ang foreigner dito nun hehehe, "anti caucasian" na lang. It wasn't that. Race has never been an issue and never will be an issue for me. I just never entertained the possibility of getting involved with a foreigner then, but 4 years here , i was already confident, career oriented, focus , palaban na din ako nun.hehehe, di na ako maapi nun--but i never envisioned it would happen to me. Why not? For the simple reason that I wasn't in the market for a man. I wasn't even looking, believing love would come at the right time and not something that is actively sought after or relentlessly pursued.Of course, for someone who considers herself old-fashioned and a true-blue romantic,at probinsyana at heart, for me, love had to come with all the fancy trimmings -- magic in the air and the unexplainable rush of emotions running riot in the heart, sending the senses reeling. I guess, for me, love has to be an important ingredient in a relationship because I had never been the kind who would get into a relationship all for the sake of having one. There'd be no point in getting involved with someone or even marrying if not for love.But, besides this and the fact that I'd been riding high on the wings of a dream and basically trying to carve out my own career path, one of the biggest reasons why I shunned the idea of inter-racial relationships was the usual impression or public perception or even stigma attached to exotic Filipinas involved with foreign man. what is that stigma? That a Filipina involving themselves with a foreigner are after one thing, greener pasture, but at the back of my mind, sheeesh, i got my visa base on my skills and qualification andito na ako sa land of honey on my own.but then, i have this neverrrrrrrrr attitude pa din.But life is full of surprises. More often than not, things just have a way of showing up in your life when you least expect them and the next thing you know, WHAM! You've just been hit between the eyes. Which was exactly what happened to me. I hadn't really sworn off men then but I didn't exactly relish the thought of finding someone.To make the long story short, I found love when I wasn't looking for it, and with someone I never dreamed I'd find it with -- a caucasian. Of course, love didn't happen right then and there but the "connection" was instant. I had only met him and yet it felt as though I'd known him all my life.it was bliss and full of firsts. It was as if I'd been created for him, and he, for me and we were two souls fated to meet. It was...... destiny.
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