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TessRb 64F
2590 posts
9/20/2015 1:07 am

Last Read:
8/13/2017 3:23 pm

Doormats of the world...



Doormats of the world unite! What is a doormat. An object right in front of your door so people/guest can wipe their shoes before stepping inside your home. Okay, this is in association of a doormat and a lady. In every relationship when it's not healthy. One or the other be it female or male. Takes advantage of the other one. Even if they do things for each other equally or not so fairly. My friend once refered this to me and now another also stated, "just because he fixes your car for you doesn't make u a doormat". Now, it dawned on me. Of course we don't count every single things we do for others because we do it out of the goodness and kindness we have. But, when do u draw the line. When it's ovbious that's getting out of hand. Now, the forgiveness factor. You do count when enough is enough, right. The 3 strike rule your out. Thanks to the 80's for the drug issue. Very conflicting though in the bible, when someone slaps u in the face. Should turn the other cheek so it can be slapped??? Like 77 times? Or would you just hell i'm gonna slap this person silly for doing this. Revenge, hahahaha!!! Sweet.
No, if you were a normal person with a heart of gold yeah why not forgive but never forget. Like say for instance the dude keeps two timing. Then does it again and again. Are u gonna be a doormat? And forgive. Or have that short fuse like Lorena Bobbit of the 80's or 90's just cut that off man! You know what i mean ladies. It was in the news and a headliner too. Too bad with all that operation putting every nerve didn't pan out well. Saw the movie not much of action going on. LOL

Peace to all and have a wonderful sunday everyone!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
9/20/2015 6:15 am

    Quoting  :

Pam,

Believe so. The choice to choose the right path. And to forgive.
Happy Sunday

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
9/21/2015 6:37 am

turn the other cheek?
"didn't the bible also quote än eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth""
cheers cc


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
9/21/2015 10:33 am

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    turn the other cheek?
    "didn't the bible also quote än eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth""
    cheers cc
ccdomonic,

Yes, it does!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


ccdomonic 73M
225 posts
9/21/2015 6:29 pm

so really it all comes down to your own mind and conscience
cheers cc


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
9/23/2015 2:04 pm

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    so really it all comes down to your own mind and conscience
    cheers cc
It has too. Consequences in life. We have to first see the scenario then do action. Foremost not to hurt anyone. Last, to see if any lesson was learned.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
10/14/2015 3:32 am

Tess, what I personally think is that YOU ARE TOO NEEDY. YOU WILL DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING TO BE HAPPY BELIEVING THAT HE WILL CHANGE FOR YOU. BUT IN THE END, NEITHER OF YOU WILL CHANGE. IT IS A VICIOUS CYCLE. But it is your life, it is your happiness, and it is your decision.

ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/2/2015 9:25 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Tess, what I personally think is that YOU ARE TOO NEEDY. YOU WILL DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING TO BE HAPPY BELIEVING THAT HE WILL CHANGE FOR YOU. BUT IN THE END, NEITHER OF YOU WILL CHANGE. IT IS A VICIOUS CYCLE. But it is your life, it is your happiness, and it is your decision.
Elz,

Tams, ako ang may problem. Good to be alone...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...