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BoleroAno 64M
5 posts
10/26/2009 9:27 pm
Why I'm still Single

To get off the plane and walk around such a beautiful country, is a joy. But with so many beautiful women form which to choose, it is very difficult. I'm a friendly and talkative person, and I converse with almost everyone I meet, male or female, adult or . Women tend to get jealous when I engage a conversation with other women, so it's best for me to remain alone.

I'm looking for advise on how to still be the outgoing, gregarious me, and be able to convey to the woman I love(i'm looking)that she is my hearts only desire. Being an extrovert hampers my efforts to sustain a good relationship. Maybe I should spend my time in a place where the women are not quite as attractive as the phils????
TJ from Chicago


localyokel 48M
166 posts
10/27/2009 11:33 am

just be yourself
as long as you have good manners and are well groomed,am sure you will have no problems
happy fishing


mutatis_mutandis 113M

10/27/2009 12:42 pm

From one Bolero to another

I'd say you are doing just fine... you haven't met the right one is what the problem is. Or you are mingling with the wrong crowd/s and meeting the wrong people.

Association with a woman is supposed to be a "complement" (with and "e", not an "i", for emphasis)... and not a liability. Thus, in your case, the vivo is really not supposed to diminish, but rather enhanced It is to say, that someone you look for hasn't come around just yet

When she does come, the understanding becomes mutual and goes both ways. You will tone the the "extroversy" out of your own volition-and not because of her say so. And she as well will meet you halfway in those areas that are gray; or totally just lay them aside out of ur mutual respact for each other.

The road will not be easy sometimes...

I too am searching, but am that close to finding that one As such, I shall raise my glass of Bundaberg and toast to your Good Luck, and Good Health. As mutatis_mutandis hopes it will be for you and for all who grace these pages, it is my prayer you will find that 1 special someone that your heart desires.

Cheers TJ, and welcome to the blogs