Blog : Few Tips on How to Keep the Love Flame Alive in Your Relationship

12 posts
9/10/2009 7:48 pm

Few Tips on How to Keep the Love Flame Alive in Your Relationship

How do you fan the fires of love when the embers are cooling? After years of loving commitment, the first thing that slowly loses steam and dies down is romance. Couples often complain that they are not romantic and intimate anymore. They have begun to take each other for granted and there is no sweetness and goose bumps anymore. Romance is so important that if it is lost, problems start to creep in. So how do you keep the romance through the years ever burning?

All relationships go through rough patches. All of them encounter problems and have troubles with how to keep the flame alive. The anticipation, excitement, and contentment that they feel at the beginning of the relationship and during the wedding planning process have now waned. The greater challenge is how to keep the love flames burning day in and day out through the years. This is where our creativity and effort will have to come to play.

First of all, have a vision of a good and enduring relationship which you will really work for. Relationship books will give you a good view on how you will do this. It's basic however, to find something that you and your partner will enjoy. Spice up your relationship with sweet dates; special evenings reserved for the two of you; go to settings that would lighten the mood up. A shared field of interest can really do wonders to your communication and bonding. It will keep the romance alive.

Here's how you start, try being creative with your intimate other. There are relationship books that will elaborate on these topics. A general view would be finding something both you and your partner enjoy.

Improve your sex life. You could improve this by incorporating creative thinking, like being daring and putting on sexy lingerie. Make your partner more excited and stimulating his or her interests and longings. Always try something new and be sensitive to his or her responses. Then you can do it better next time instead of having that monotonous sexual routine.

All relationships encounter problems, but it is no excuse that they stop trying to make their relationship grow and get better. You can show how much you are committed to a relationship by trying to create a higher level of intimacy with your significant other. Find creative ways to express your love. Improve on your relationship and show each other how much you are willing to make each other happy.

Both partners should be willing to try, to experiment, and be more daring. You should be willing to go another mile to satisfy the needs of your partner. If this happens, then there would be an easier way of communication, making both lovers feel happy and content thus lessening the chances of having arguments and misunderstandings.

It starts with having an open mind for change and improvement; a drive for being daring and taking risks that would lead to the improvement on the relationship. A change in setting, routine, small gifts and sweet gestures, these are not the things that build a relationship, but they are the elements that make relationships worth being in.