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crybaby912 40F
12 posts
9/10/2009 7:44 pm
5 things to make him Think of Commitment


You have been with your man for the past 6 months now but you are unsure if the two of you are still an item or is it just good companionship that the two of you have established. You hope that second is just not true because you want more out of him. So what could you possibly do to make him think about commitment?

If you are thinking that talking to him about it is going to work, then you are grossly mistaken. So what could you do? You could read the following words of wisdom to get him around to think about commitment.

1. The first thing that you could do is make some changes to your life style for his sake. Learn to be more attentive. Men do like attention. He wants to see if you are able to leave everything for him so he could claim you as his very own and walk you down the aisle. This does sound primitive but hey no one said anything about evolution getting a better hold of men!

2. Now learn to respect his space and yours. Men do a lot of thinking too and at this time he could be making many decisions with regards to how well you are able to cope with him and how good a better half would you make for him? Have your own private spaces and time. Don't infringe on that.

3. Learn to make your own decisions. Men hate to make decisions especially when they know that you would have the thing purchased with its tag to be returned later because you didn't like it. Unless it a common decision, leave him out of it. Make your own decisions and stop haranguing him.

4. Learn to cook lady. Men like to eat and he wishes to have a woman for his life who would be able to feed him even in the wee hours of the mornings. He is just not being selfish here, because when you think of a commitment, men usually jump a few steps and also think about . He wishes to find out if you would feed him and your well.

5. The last thing that you could do to make your man think about commitment is to love him dearly, show him your love and be very honest in all respects.

Try these top five things that I have imparted to you and see how fast your man decides to take the giant leap with you. Remember it's a giant leap and he would want your unfaltering support in this as much as you want his.