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insensitive guy You can never teach a guy to love you the way you wanted to be LOVE.... Thats the saddest part of being a woman... BUT..... You can never teach a woman to love the guy and care for him the way she did before, If she already grew tired and fed up understanding and waiting to be appreciated and be loved the way she deserved..... Thats the saddest part of being an "INSENSITIVE GUY" |
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12/2/2007 7:41 am |
So true girl. Hope women find more men who aren't insensitive.   within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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100% totally agree with it..it must be coz both sexes are made 2 different anatomy, with 2 different function in dealing w/ relationship... that we cannot communicate and be able to connect the same way.. When you get tired and fed up with the understanding and waiting.. take a break sis.. it would do you good in your life as well as your heart (take a rest) but also in ur relationship w/ him.. I think, men prefer you spent your life and time to other ppl than focusing on him...in that way, u wont have to deal his insensitivity, in that way, he will appreciate u more when he sees u..Good luck!
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Things happen for a reason…. And wisdom needs to be nurtured because if we pay no attention to it or disregard its authority and power then we will loose ourselves in every situation, turn and twist that will occur… it would be unwise not to know when to say enough because everything has its limitation… flaws are given but its not a reason to commit mistakes all over again… I am the paradox_nyt and I am neither your enemy nor afraid… I have come in peace…
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Maybe you cannot TEACH a man, but you can SHOW a man (surely not everyone!), how you want to be loved. If he does not react accordingly, he might not be the right one for you. Then possibly you also don't love HIM as he is, but just a dream of what you think, he should be. Also I agree with the speaker above. If you accepted a certain insensitive behaviour, how could he know, that he was wrong, as long as you did not tell him? Never try this "teaching" during an argument, only when you both are in a good mood. Tell him, that you love him, but this and that behaviour hurts you, or how you'd like him to behave every now and then. See above my chapter one.
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thats true...its hard to be in that shoes.. love like youve never hurt before!!
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1/29/2008 11:28 pm |
why bother to spend time with a man who doesnt appreciate you for who you are and for what you are? why spend time with a man who only loves himself and never understand that in a relationship there must be a concerted effort in order for it to flourish.. why spend time with that someone who is so selfish and never sees your goodness but merely focus what he can get from you.. So why stay? There are so many fishes in the oceans so let go and let live. Your heart deserve someone who is willing to receive and reciprocate. It must not be a one way traffic but a sort of covenant for both of you. So If he cannot give what you truly deserve there is no point in staying but walk away and never look back.
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3/27/2008 5:42 am |
I agree with Gentleman, Alien and Freesis et al: one makes one's own choices in life.It is a common mistake made by both sexes to fall "in love" with someone whom you already know has certain downsides that may not fullfill you ultimately. The trick is not to continue doing this. If you have to "teach" anyone anything then it's a no-go from the get-go. That's the way I approach things now and while it may make for a quick gettoknowyou and then possibly a quick exit, I'd rather that, than hang on with someone who I know cannot be taught. A person who loves you will teach themselves - they'll WANT to know, they'll want to learn.Believe,I've seen it and experienced it and its beautiful - for both parties!
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8/6/2008 10:02 am |
HI. JUST HAD A LONG BEER WITH MY DAD, WHO'S VISITING FROM LA-LA LAND AND GOING THROUGH A THIRD DIVORCE. HE SAYS "INSENSITIVE" GUYS EXIST IN THE MINDS OF "SELFISH" GIRLS... I GAVE HIM THIS OLD DIRTY LOOK HE USUALLY DESERVES, AND HE ASKED IF A NICE GIRL EVER ACCUSED ME OF BEING INSENSITIVE. HE HAS A POINT. IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO, SO INSENSITIVE GUYS DANCE WITH YOU-KNOW-WHO. THE QUESTION IS: HOW DID THE TWO HOOK UP IN THE FIRST PLACE? CHEERS...
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8/6/2008 10:12 am |
IT IS AN OPEN QUESTION WHETHER THE LEGAL CONCEPTS IN CONTRACT LAW CAN APPLY TO RELATIONSHIPS. TRUE, PARTNERSHIP IS A CONTRACT, BUT IT IS NEVER BREACHABLE, BECAUSE IT IS ALSO "AT WILL." THE PROBLEM IS WHEN ONE PARTY THINKS SHE HAS VESTED RIGHTS IN WHAT IS REALLY STILL A COURTSHIP, AND THE OTHER IS STILL MULLING THE OFFER-ACCEPTANCE NEXUS.. AS ALWAYS, THE THING TO DO IS TO LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP. AND IF YOU DIDN'T, YOU ONLY HAVE YOURSELF TO BLAME (THE CLOSEST THING TO THIS IS ESTOPPEL, SINCE YOU SHOULD NOT BENEFIT FROM YOUR OWN NEGLIGENCE)..
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