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godiva0824 63F
2894 posts
2/3/2008 2:09 pm
AMBIVALENCE...

Sometimes, it is so difficult to make a decision when you have no choice but one, or when you are faced with too many options, but what appeals to you is none.

Lucky are those who only have a few clothes to wear, for they won't have the hard time deciding which one to don for the day, compared to someone who has a closet of wardrobes and yet cannot pick which one is best.

Blessed are those who need to repeat the same meal 3 times a day, for their appetite shows the gratefulness for the food on top of their tables, than those whose abundance yields to waste.

Happy are the hearts who only beat for one, than those who fickle and cannot contain the complexities of loves intertwined.

Why must we be ambivalent in this life? Why can't we be satisfied by the simplicity that love presents itself? Why does fear of the unknown hold us back?...WHY?


ELZ


ImAllHeartNSoul 62F

2/4/2008 1:10 am

hi there Dee...

life is always a gamble my friend...thats how i see it. You either win or lose. It is how you prepare to accept life's surprises that is most important to learn.

MARIE


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/4/2008 3:59 am

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    hi there Dee...

    life is always a gamble my friend...thats how i see it. You either win or lose. It is how you prepare to accept life's surprises that is most important to learn.
Hello friend Marie!..You are the most loyal ever here on my blogs..It looks like it is not complete without your post..Thank you.
I can consider myself a poor gambler dear. Even in the real gamble at the casinos. I just keep pressing the "bet button" sometimes I bet one, and sometimes I bet it all. So far, I've won a couple of times, but I gave it all back, hoping to win some more. I can relate this to my real life, because I did the same thing. Here I am now, afraid to gamble again, afraid of the loss, but hasn't gained anything as well.

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/4/2008 4:05 am

And I can also relate love to my closet full of clothes.I truly have a hard time deciding which one to wear. Most of them were bought kinda "tight", they often "choke me", and putting on a couple of pounds make me feel so unright. Others are intricately designed. They are just there for special occasions, and for all the good times. The rest are "uniformed", kinda predictable which days they are to be worn. lIke I said in this original article of mine, sometimes having just a few clothes won't give me this problem to choose.

ELZ


ImAllHeartNSoul 62F

2/4/2008 10:01 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Hello friend Marie!..You are the most loyal ever here on my blogs..It looks like it is not complete without your post..Thank you.
    I can consider myself a poor gambler dear. Even in the real gamble at the casinos. I just keep pressing the "bet button" sometimes I bet one, and sometimes I bet it all. So far, I've won a couple of times, but I gave it all back, hoping to win some more. I can relate this to my real life, because I did the same thing. Here I am now, afraid to gamble again, afraid of the loss, but hasn't gained anything as well.
i myself am afraid to gamble again my friend...sometimes even if i do one step forward, once i feel just a little sting, i do two steps backwards..as a way to protect my feelings.

but being at this age, i realized i needed to learn how to take chances..or else, just be quiet in my little corner and choose to live a life alone...thats not a good option for me...

MARIE


ImAllHeartNSoul 62F

2/4/2008 10:04 pm

    Quoting  :

hi there my brother...we are all on the same journey. I thank God for allowing me to get to know you..as your friendships make the travelling a little less stressful.

goodluck to all of us, may we all find our own destinations in life.

MARIE


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/5/2008 3:44 pm

    Quoting  :

And Ed, we know that you are indeed, a gambler!..Just be very careful..Your ANGELS can only watch over you, but the decision is yours to make.

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/5/2008 3:45 pm

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    i myself am afraid to gamble again my friend...sometimes even if i do one step forward, once i feel just a little sting, i do two steps backwards..as a way to protect my feelings.

    but being at this age, i realized i needed to learn how to take chances..or else, just be quiet in my little corner and choose to live a life alone...thats not a good option for me...
And it's not a good option for me either, but I live life one day at a time..Who knows what tomorrow brings?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/5/2008 3:47 pm

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    hi there my brother...we are all on the same journey. I thank God for allowing me to get to know you..as your friendships make the travelling a little less stressful.

    goodluck to all of us, may we all find our own destinations in life.
Our journeys are all at some point ON the roads less travelled, and yet, we all met at the junction, and our lives are never the same again...I'm thankful to God for the friendships as well...

ELZ


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
2/5/2008 4:06 pm

I suffer all that u mentioned above, so I also wonder, WHY?b)


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/5/2008 9:31 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    I suffer all that u mentioned above, so I also wonder, WHY?b)
Sulei, brother, you have a lot of wonderful and beautiful followers in HVP, and reading from your latest blogs, you kinda have SOMEONE SPECIAL already...Hold her dear in your heart, BRO...Don't let go..This time, maybe it is sweeter for you...

Thank you for visiting!


ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/5/2008 9:32 pm

I beg your pardon, I meant FFF, not HVP (my group)...btw, care to join us Sulei? it's an honor to have you there with us...

ELZ


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
2/6/2008 1:53 am

I will godiva, I will! thank you very much for the advice and for the invitation! see u soon at the HVP


Yanie24w 41F

2/7/2008 3:18 am

Ate...
...difficult times have helped me to understand better than before,how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way,and that so many things that one goes worrying about are of no importance...

Have a blessed day


Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught...


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/7/2008 11:33 am

    Quoting  :

oiisssstt! Bossing ED!...Ang"kuwan" ay kay Gemma yan!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/7/2008 11:34 am

    Quoting Yanie24w:
    Ate...
    ...difficult times have helped me to understand better than before,how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way,and that so many things that one goes worrying about are of no importance...

    Have a blessed day

What an attitude Marian!...You are on your way to the highways of LOVE

ELZ


dunlop3764

2/24/2008 11:28 pm

so The moral lesson to everybody here is:

" Let's hang on to what we've got
Never let go because we got a lot
Got a lot of blessings to lean on
Hang on ... hang on ... hang on ...
To what we've got!


Be swift 2LOVE make haste 2B kind
DUnLop


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/27/2008 6:12 pm

    Quoting dunlop3764:
    so The moral lesson to everybody here is:

    " Let's hang on to what we've got
    Never let go because we got a lot
    Got a lot of blessings to lean on
    Hang on ... hang on ... hang on ...
    To what we've got!

It's just like you're saying, better with someone than NO ONE...right MOD?

ELZ