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REBOUND REJECTION... ...happens when one's heart is badly bruised by someone else's inability to reciprocate true love. ...is subconsciously warding off any opportunity to find love and happiness due to past hurt. ...is the negative trajectory motion to return the love offering at a speed of a jet. ...is a displacement of one's anger and ill feelings to someone who is innocent of the pain others may have caused the rejector. ...is basically saying "NO" without even trying to see if there is an opportunity to find love in return. ...is a REJECTION unresolved.   ELZ  |
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1/27/2008 9:28 am |
true , true my dear friend, sometimes we dont see whats infront of us because of the tears...
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Hello there Palos!..Thank you for visiting and commenting on this particular blog. When I saw the picture of that yellow chick "rejected" by a group of black ones, this topic came to mind, and I can easily relate myself to this...and I guess a lot of readers too. It's not easy to be "rejected", and most of the time, due to that, we tend to create a "barrier" or "shield" unnecessarily to protect us from being hurt again. Only time can tell, when it is really resolved. ELZ
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true , true my dear friend, sometimes we dont see whats infront of us because of the tears... ELZ
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I am not ashamed to admit that I am a victim of rejection (not limited to romantic love) and I tell you, my life is such that I sometimes do not trust my feelings anymore. Modesty aside, I am not in dire need of suitors or lovers, for they come in pretty handy. But, I feel sorry for those who really want to be given a chance to prove their worth. I seem to create a "wall" between us, so much so that it becomes impossible to co-relate. ELZ
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1/27/2008 3:15 pm |
Dee, I can see where you're coming from. You have been hurt many times. And that trust is gone. Far beyond repair. Thinking always does this guy really love me. Or will he just use me. Because i'm a nurse and fully capable of taking care of my own. But, the bottom line is we feel really lonely at times. And that's where the hurt bothers us. In time you will give someone a try again. God is the answer and will give that to you. And you will be free.  cheers
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Dee, I can see where you're coming from. You have been hurt many times. And that trust is gone. Far beyond repair. Thinking always does this guy really love me. Or will he just use me. Because i'm a nurse and fully capable of taking care of my own. But, the bottom line is we feel really lonely at times. And that's where the hurt bothers us. In time you will give someone a try again. God is the answer and will give that to you. And you will be free. cheersGod bless, ELZ
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1/28/2008 10:47 am |
hi DEE... sometimes, it takes us a long and hard time to get over painful experiences like those u mentioned. Sometimes the pain cuts too deep that makes it hard for us to forget that easily..and makes us wary to let others come in and see that insides of our hearts. ...but in spite of the pain that we go through everytime a LOVE isnt given a chance to grow, cause' it wasnt meant to... just because i am still alive and being given a chance to search for what will truly make me happy...i feel honored and blessed that i am one of the fortunate ones... as i feel that u are too DEE... like i always say, i am hopeful, that eventually, sincere LOVE will find you... MARIE
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1/28/2008 10:49 am |
hhhmmm... a different ed i am reading this time, very very sewyus ka yata kuya ed? but nice to read serious thoughts from you from time to time... MARIE
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1/28/2008 5:58 pm |
"Do not waste yourself in rejection;do not bark against the bad,but chant the beauty of the good." I hope in due time god will grant all your wishes sis Dee...   Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught... 
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Thanks Bossing Ed...You too, you need to be very careful with who you deal with. I know that you are equally vulnerable..That;s why you have 4 ANGELS (including ROXY) trying to protect you and keep you safe from harm. Hindi lahat ng maamong tupa ay santa...Always remember that. Take care, Bossing Ed! ELZ
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Naku Gem! you spoiled yung mood ni Bossing ED...Feel an feel pa naman niya ang magbigay ng advice...Hayan, naudlot tuloy... ELZ
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Hi Gem! ..Thanks for the phone call this afternoon..I appreciate your return call...Regards kay Charlie at saka Angel Jaclyn...(teka, sino ba sa inyong dalawa ang Jaclyn at si Farrah? ) ELZ
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hi DEE... sometimes, it takes us a long and hard time to get over painful experiences like those u mentioned. Sometimes the pain cuts too deep that makes it hard for us to forget that easily..and makes us wary to let others come in and see that insides of our hearts. ...but in spite of the pain that we go through everytime a LOVE isnt given a chance to grow, cause' it wasnt meant to... just because i am still alive and being given a chance to search for what will truly make me happy...i feel honored and blessed that i am one of the fortunate ones... as i feel that u are too DEE... like i always say, i am hopeful, that eventually, sincere LOVE will find you... ELZ
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hhhmmm... a different ed i am reading this time, very very sewyus ka yata kuya ed? but nice to read serious thoughts from you from time to time...  ELZ
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"Do not waste yourself in rejection;do not bark against the bad,but chant the beauty of the good." I hope in due time god will grant all your wishes sis Dee... ELZ
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Dharling, thank you very much for gracing my blogs and for your personal input. You can't be wrong in what you wrote here. It takes time for someone who was hurt, betrayed and rejected to open his/her heart again. To some, it maybe easy, but to most, it is harder than one thinks...If it happened to you personally, then, I wish for your heart to listen, open, and be in love again. It is a good feeling. Take care sis! ELZ
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naudlot, meaning cut short or stopped. ELZ
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CAT, having experienced both side of the coins, I think we know just how it feels. You are extremely right that we have no right to treat someone badly, and vice-versa. There must be a graceful way to get rid of the person without giving him/her false hopes. ELZ
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Well said CAT. WE can be the prettiest and smartest person on earth and yet, the love of our lives may go after the simplest and plain person. Not that we have air in our heads, but that, it can happen. In the same manner that we might fall for someone who is not even halfway near our ideal. Love works its own wonders, and people cannot help but just be surprised. Thanks. ELZ
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2/3/2008 11:21 pm |
Every time you see a couple walking by, hand-in-hand, take it as a sign that romance exists, and that those particular two people showed up to tell you that YOU can have it, too. Be swift 2LOVE make haste 2B kind  DUnLop
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Every time you see a couple walking by, hand-in-hand, take it as a sign that romance exists, and that those particular two people showed up to tell you that YOU can have it, too. ELZ
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Caloy, my dear. It feels the same with women. The only difference is that, women are more expressive in their woes. Some go to the extent of "giving all that they have" and yet, in the end, STILL REJECTED. It is a sad thing, you know...People lose their sanity at times. ELZ
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I hear you Doc!...I am guilty of those who won't take getting to know each other further if on the 3rd email, the person cannot produce a picture of himself. NO, I don't chat...I am more comfortable with email exchanges, then phone calls later on when we get to that point of being comfy...That is of course, if the other party is here in the USA... ELZ
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btw, what's wrong with showing one's picture?...That is not a rejection by itself...I would like to associate words with the person I am talking to. I show myself, and I think it is just fair to see the face of the other person..No guarantee?...Well, it is the game that people play. Getting to know someone on the internet is a big risk we have to take. REJECTION HERE IS A SURE GUARANTEE...NO ONE IS SPARED...even if at least for once.. ELZ
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And may I add, sometimes, REJECTION is apparent from the beginning, sometimes towards the "heat" of getting to know each other, and the most painful part is when after quite a while, with all the emotional investment and time spent with the person, s/he just disappears...Ouccchh!  ELZ
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