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Love Fickles: Here Today, Gone Tomorrrow Love Fickles: Here Today, Gone Tomorrow I am so sad these past couple of days. I dunno how to express it, but I just witnessed another " intense and open to public love" that fickled and made a 360 degrees U-turn. I am still in disbelief not because things were not possible, but because things were unexpected and so sudden. At my age right now, I still would love to have stories similar to fairy tales with happy endings, but I guess, times, indeed, have dramatically changed. Even soap operas have different and controversial twists, we cannot anticipate the plot and the climax of the stories because nowadays, they're way different than the familiar and conventional ones. Looking back (not that I wanted to) to last year, 2007.I got "emotionally involved" with someone who "spoiled" me with nightly calls and attention, precious time, and even met with me in person, only after a little over a year of that very "unique closeness" and special friendship, and after I told him that "there is no future" for the two of us, the way things were with us,... things drastically changed. In less than a month, he easily found someone to take my place. I have difficulty understanding how and why is it that some people move on so easily, and waste no time "forgetting" what seemed to be an "endless love" with their previous significant others? (not necessarily referring to my experience) Is it possible for some people to be "deeply in love" for a long time, and then, all of a sudden, once the opportunity (others call it a chance) to be with another person, just like bubbles, that love will burst and fly out of the window instantly? Or is it okay to be in love with several people at the same time? And worse, it's also okay to One and All? I'm not saying that people should not move on/get on with their lives, but....The way I see it, when feelings are so intense and publicly displayed, no matter who moved on first (between the couples involved) I still find it "painful" to the witnesses (if not to the ones concerned) that again, there is another open to public announcement of new loves in the offing, thereby making the previous one a beautiful history to reminisce.Is it really a small world? Too small for once a couple,>> a love triangle>> to be now an even fair and square? Does love have to be a Merry-Go-Round thingie? I know that I am not alone in this mixed feelings of happiness and sadness for all the people involved, and I do hope that this kind of "uncomfortable" atmosphere is going to be just TEMPORARY...All is well that ends well. I wish everyone the BEST! The only thing CONSTANT in this world is CHANGE. And Yes, Love Fickles: Here Today, Gone Tomorrow..(sigh!)   ELZ  |
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it's not love that's fickle... it's "us"...
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1/6/2008 7:39 pm |
it's not love that's fickle... it's "us"...Just call me ELZ 
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1/6/2008 7:40 pm |
HERE TODAY AND GONE TOMORROW I came to you in dark despair I needed someone who would care. You held me close against your heart I felt a warmth right from the start. Then one day He took you away Why did it happen, who can say? Now all that there is left for me Is just a precious memory. That’s life, that’s life You take the joy, you take the sorrow. That’s life, that’s life You’re here today and gone tomorrow. My life has crumbled since you’ve gone But somehow I must carry on. The pain I feel I can’t describe. I can’t forget you, though I’ve tried. Each night I say a little prayer That when He takes me you’ll be there. Together once again we’ll be I’ll live again my memory. That’s life, that’s life You take the joy, you take the sorrow. That’s life, that’s life You’re here today and gone tomorrow. That’s life, that’s life You take the joy, you take the sorrow. That’s life, that’s life You’re here today and gone tomorrow. Just call me ELZ
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Well, yeah, it's true that LOVE should remain as is...It takes a human being to "fickle" and let that LOVE die or wither...But some LOVE just stay very loyal till the end..You think, there are still those kind of love out there?  ELZ
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1/6/2008 10:44 pm |
hi DEE... i think some will definitely say, MEN are from Mars, WOMEN are from Venus.. not that the line makes the MEN bad..maybe it is just how we are made up so differently, emotionally that is. some will say, the easiest way to heal or forget about a lost love is by meeting someone new..some will opt to give the heart some time to rest and heal. for some its a "piece of cake", to others, the pain feels like "heavy as a ton"... however way we try to go about it, one thing that we really need to be sure of is...if we really have put a closure to the past, as we go and try to venture into the present. life goes on Dee....  MARIE
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1/7/2008 1:57 am |
This brought me tears...most especially the beautiful lyrics you posted here... "Here Today And Gone Tomorrow" Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught... 
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Hello Mimi!..thank you for visiting my blog, dearie. And you do have a wonderful insight you're sharing not only with women here but i'm sure, for men as well..God bless. ELZ
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[bHappy New Year Shine!...I know that you still feel the "hurt" and pain of losing someone very dear to you..To some people, as soon as they meet someone new, past becomes history so quickly...But most women still have that "special concern" for that significant person even if they're already married someone else. I guess, some men feel the same way too... ELZ
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And I know, Shine, you just need a little bit more of a time, and you'll finally meet that someone..Just like me..Let's just pray for that gift sistah..After all, we deserve to be happy, 'coz we've been good naman di ba? ELZ
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hi DEE... i think some will definitely say, MEN are from Mars, WOMEN are from Venus.. not that the line makes the MEN bad..maybe it is just how we are made up so differently, emotionally that is. some will say, the easiest way to heal or forget about a lost love is by meeting someone new..some will opt to give the heart some time to rest and heal. for some its a "piece of cake", to others, the pain feels like "heavy as a ton"... however way we try to go about it, one thing that we really need to be sure of is...if we really have put a closure to the past, as we go and try to venture into the present. life goes on Dee.... ELZ
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hi DEE... i think some will definitely say, MEN are from Mars, WOMEN are from Venus.. not that the line makes the MEN bad..maybe it is just how we are made up so differently, emotionally that is. some will say, the easiest way to heal or forget about a lost love is by meeting someone new..some will opt to give the heart some time to rest and heal. for some its a "piece of cake", to others, the pain feels like "heavy as a ton"... however way we try to go about it, one thing that we really need to be sure of is...if we really have put a closure to the past, as we go and try to venture into the present. life goes on Dee.... ELZ
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This brought me tears...most especially the beautiful lyrics you posted here... "Here Today And Gone Tomorrow" ELZ
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This brought me tears...most especially the beautiful lyrics you posted here... "Here Today And Gone Tomorrow" ELZ
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Well said, CAT...I always admire your strength and fortitude. You have that personality that is so magnetic, and no wonder you are the ROLE MODEL in our group...No man will ever forget you for who you are and for what you still can be. You are one precious jewel that is priceless, and no one can take any sweet memories anyone have shared with you. You will always be UP there, and forever be on the "left side corner" of a man's chest" we refer to us HEART. ELZ
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chinatree <<< "Men only know how men are. They have to be taught how to relate to a woman. Men have different codes, different signals, different attitudes toward love, relationships & commitment, and different meanings attached." And I can easily relate to that CAT, believe you me. Different codes, different signals, so confusing at times, depending on their moods. I should know, I am still experiencing it. But we are both mature to take things with a grain of salt. ELZ
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chinatree<<<Even if they're decent guys and don't want to hurt us on purpose, they won't make us fill out a questionnaire about what we REALLY mean by hanging around with them, or just plainly being friendly or even tolerant of their behavior. They just assume it's MEANINGLESS" And no woman would ever want to hang around with indecent man. I can guarantee you, that it is more painful to deal with any love that "fickled" specially when it is coming from a decent guy.Sometimes, our friendliness and being tolerant of their behaviors make them do things that actually hurt. WHAT ARE THEY THINKING? ELZ
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chinatree<<<If it's meaningless to the woman, and just for fun, then perhaps, she can be counted as one of many women who can see a man that way." Cat, over my dead body will I make an impression to any man nor to anyone that LOVE IS JUST FOR FUN, and I don't want to see my man expecting me to be that way. ELZ
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1/7/2008 5:56 am |
Marian, kapatid namin..Promise mo sa amin, huwag ka nang iiyak dahil lang sa lost love this year, ha? It's okay to cry when you're touched by songs or blogs like this...But, don't let any man make you cry again..Be strong and stay pretty...We will face 2008 with lots of courage and hope...PLs. stay with us and let's cheer for all...We care for you, my dear. ...told yah,you don´t have to worry I will not punish myself any further...remember?Kisses  Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught...
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chinatree<<<"If spending time with a man, is ALWAYS meaningful, as it is with most women, then we have to make make sure that we have a clear understanding of how far the relationship can go, where to draw a line and if a commitment is ever possible BEFORE going to a deeper level of feeling." And I'm sure, my other sweet friend ImAllHeartNSoul and I  will forever support this idea of yours.COMMITMENT is the magic word...COMmitment for life...I thank you kindly for gracing my blog CAT, and for sharing your meaningful and wonderful insights regarding LOVE that is Here Today, Gone Tomorrow. My appreciation. ELZ
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1/7/2008 7:47 am |
And I know, Shine, you just need a little bit more of a time, and you'll finally meet that someone..Just like me..Let's just pray for that gift sistah..After all, we deserve to be happy, 'coz we've been good naman di ba? I can feel your emotions sis., I was once "in there", I`m just lucky that I found a better guy right now, we`re just taking it slowly but surely. I`m sure the best will still come your way, you`ll ever know what this year will bring you thanks for sharing sis, i love reading your blogs.
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I heard a different way how to deal with it, similar to what Marie said: "para daw etong nag alaga ka ng pet tapos nawala sa iyo, mag alaga ka uli ng another pet, at ung atensyon mo , mabuhos dito at hindi na dun sa dati" I can feel your emotions sis., I was once "in there", I`m just lucky that I found a better guy right now, we`re just taking it slowly but surely. I`m sure the best will still come your way, you`ll ever know what this year will bring you thanks for sharing sis, i love reading your blogs. ELZ
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Nope ate it was definitely your blog and the beautiful song... ...told yah,you don´t have to worry I will not punish myself any further...remember?Kisses ELZ
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And we know now Gem that after what you've been through, your sweetness and patience along with your perseverance...YOU FINALLY FOUND THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE...You deserve to be happy GEM! ELZ
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It only takes one major lie for me to get rid of a man, my dear. And no matter how I still love him, if I find out that he is not loyal/faithful to me, I OPEN and CLOSE the doors of love for him...I make sure, that we have that agreement before we become sweethearts... ELZ
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That is very true Gem...I heard testimonies from people from different places, and orientation...They say the same thing...Do not dwell on our past...Live today, enjoy and be happy, and don't worry about tomorrow... ELZ
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1/7/2008 12:57 pm |
hi there cat...this is marie... i agree with you a 100% here: " If spending time with a man, is ALWAYS meaningful, as it is with most women, then we have to make sure that we have a clear understanding of how far the relationship can go, where to draw a line and if a commitment is ever possible BEFORE going to a deeper level of feeling." some men ( i said some ) assume we can read their thoughts and actions clearly and that we understand very well where they are coming from... most women, like us, just want to be very sure of the feelings involved if ever a relationship is being offered. Some men offer "special friendships" (read as without strings attached ), some have the option for something more permanent but doesnt really offer it on the onset...and some ( i think this is the kind of MEN most women prefer ) make it clear if they are also in search of serious and permanent relationships..and are willing to go that extra mile to find out if there is that "spark" as we call it. lest i be misunderstood, it doesnt follow that if a man or woman is ready to commit, that the two of them will click right away. There is still the getting-to-know-the-REAL-you part...but at least,you both know that you are on the same page so to speak. very nice thoughts from you, cat... i just added some of my own.... thanksMARIE
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1/7/2008 1:05 pm |
honesty is one of the essential ingredients for a good relationship, you are right about that Gems. MARIE
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1/7/2008 1:23 pm |
Yes, Marie..Life goes on, indeed...Even if we already have a good closure of the past...Revisiting it sometimes, is just spontaneous. For they say, without the past, we wouldn't have the present, and at times, we have to be thankful that the past failed, because it only gave way to a better love and most of all, a better life. a good relationship, no matter what age, color, culture, preferences in life is involved..will have a great beginning and will stand a great chance in succeeding, if the intention is to really get to know someone and sincerely share your heart and soul with him/her...meaning, no games involved, no lies, no pretensions, no role playing...right Dee? MARIE
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Yes, Gem, I have no doubt that you want to enjoy life..You are not Malambing2 for nothing..You are indeed a very sweet person, and you deserve to be happy, and I really wish that this one that you have is for keeps... ELZ
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hi there cat...this is marie... i agree with you a 100% here: " If spending time with a man, is ALWAYS meaningful, as it is with most women, then we have to make sure that we have a clear understanding of how far the relationship can go, where to draw a line and if a commitment is ever possible BEFORE going to a deeper level of feeling." some men ( i said some ) assume we can read their thoughts and actions clearly and that we understand very well where they are coming from... most women, like us, just want to be very sure of the feelings involved if ever a relationship is being offered. Some men offer "special friendships" (read as without strings attached ), some have the option for something more permanent but doesnt really offer it on the onset...and some ( i think this is the kind of MEN most women prefer ) make it clear if they are also in search of serious and permanent relationships..and are willing to go that extra mile to find out if there is that "spark" as we call it. lest i be misunderstood, it doesnt follow that if a man or woman is ready to commit, that the two of them will click right away. There is still the getting-to-know-the-REAL-you part...but at least,you both know that you are on the same page so to speak. very nice thoughts from you, cat... i just added some of my own.... thanks ELZ
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honesty is one of the essential ingredients for a good relationship, you are right about that Gems. ELZ
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it always is good to look at the good memories of a nice friendship. so that if ever you come across this person at another point in your life, it would be easy to communicate again.. a good relationship, no matter what age, color, culture, preferences in life is involved..will have a great beginning and will stand a great chance in succeeding, if the intention is to really get to know someone and sincerely share your heart and soul with him/her...meaning, no games involved, no lies, no pretensions, no role playing...right Dee? ELZ
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[ti]It is my ardent wish that MEN or WOMEN who are still in communication with their EX's, that they should be very sensitive to their feelings specially if they found someone new...Sometimes, no matter how they've moved on, there are still some feelings left and it does "hurt" to know that they've been replaced. Whether it is the ego that is hurt or the heart, it doesn't matter, it still hurts... ELZ
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And it is because of people like you, too, who always have that special way of making others feel important and loved...Whatever happens, you know that you will be ALWAYS SPECIAL, and ONE OF A KIND...WE KNOW THAT... ELZ
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ROXYBARBIE<<<Roxy, you know the story of my life, as I've spoken to you on the phone about it last year. Even though I have no regrets that I've met that special friend, I also have no regret that it is now over for more than 3 months. I know that we're not meant for each other...Our friendship was one of a kind, but wasn't meant to be more than what it was. Thank you..I know that you only want the best for me, and you'll always wish me well... ELZ
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Yeah, Roxy, I cannot stand people who cannot make up their minds, and who aren't sure of what they feel and have no words of honor...It's better to be alone...I also feel "bad" about men who pretend to be so " loving " and "showy" only to double cross in the end...I'd rather be joyfully single, my dear...And that's the way I am at this point... ELZ
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1/8/2008 3:19 am |
Yes, Cat..Commitment is something most women are looking for, and you count me as one of those..And that is why, if I know that a man is not willing to give me that commitment (not necessarily to marry me), then, I think the relationship has no future...Well, that's just me...I don't play games, and I don't want to be in a limbo either, and that's exactly what happened to me last year...So, I made the first move to put an end to that "special friendship" that I had...At least, we are still civilized with each other these days...It was painful at first, but hey, life goes on... Just call me ELZ
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I agree with both of you on this...And it really takes two to tango...Hayzzzz! I'm still waiting for my better half... ELZ
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Shine, that is my wish for myself and for my good friends like you...Take care always...Thanks for visiting..Ikaw lang ang dati kong kagrupo other than Joyce and Gemma ang dumadalaw sa akin dito...God bless you. ELZ
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Hindi bale CAT, Labz ka namin ni ROXY, and the entire HVP family...You will always have a very special place in "Santa's" heart.. ELZ
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And I love you too, my sweet friend...Even though we haven't met in person..I sincerely feel your warmth.. ELZ
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And for that reason, too, ROXY, I am still A-okay being single...It's good enough to have loved and lost a couple of times, but it is also better to be lonely than to feel sorry... ELZ
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And that is the very reason, I cannot be in a relationship which is heading only in bed. Intimacy is very important in a romantic relationship, but it is sweeter and more meaningful if LOVE is the foundation of that intimacy... ELZ
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I respect and honor marriage, and it has been my childhood dream to have a lifetime union with someone who shares the same dreams and cruising the same roads that we need to travel in this lifetime, no matter how shaky, rocky, and dusty the roads maybe, when two people who are in love will walk the walks in life, everything will be bearable and tolerable. ELZ
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It's okay to cry..CRY if you must...let the tears flow, until there's no more, until it dries out....It is in crying that we get tired, and it is in being tired that we get to REST...Even loving hearts need to rest...So be it. ELZ
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Please feel free to post here, ROXY...I know, you feel the same way I do...with these things that are going on with our "special friend"....I just can't feel but emote here too...Thank you for giving me that company. I hope others will follow suit. ELZ
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Quoting ROXY ROXYBARBIE<<< A few broken promises, Leaves a broken heart, A few broken promises, Could lead us far apart, A few Broken Promises, I try to keep them all, A few broken promises, Making me slowly fall, ******************************************************** Yes, there are a lot of broken promises...Some say: "FOR AS LONG AS YOU ARE WITH ME, I AM WITH YOU."....that's a lie...We know that it's a lie... ELZ
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Quoting ROXYBARBIE A few broken promises, Now Im hard to trust, A few broken promises, Our love will turn to dust, A few broken promises, Tears going down my face, A few broken promises, I can not erase, ******************************************************************* It takes time to really trust again, we don't want to fall again. Tears of pain will always be there, for as long as the memories linger..... ELZ
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ROXYBARBIE<<<A few broken promises, That hurt you so bad, A few broken promises, Leaving you sad, A few broken promises, Im sorry I made a mistake, A few broken promises, Made my heart break, A few Broken promises, I wont make anymore, A few Broken promises, Almost lead you to the door, **************************************************************** If only promises are not broken, MY and HER hearts would have not been broken...She is a dear friend, her pain is my pain...I hope she'll get over it, and start life all over again... ELZ
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ROXYBARBIEWhen we were together you said that you'd come back to me again. But now that you have another there's no point in me even trying. ******************************************************************** Magkaminsan talaga, mapaglaro ang tadhana. Pagibig na akala natin'y walang kamatayan, sa isang iglap sumasama sa kawalan...At times, I ask myself: "Am I badly to be blamed for all that had happened in my life?" or is it fate and destiny that I cannot really fight? ELZ
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ROXYBARBIE You promised that you loved me, and promised that you cared, and just the thought of you with her drives me mad and close to tears. *********************************************************** Waaaahhhhh!  ROXY!...This really brought me into tears...BAkit naman kasi may patama talaga ito sa amin?... ELZ
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ROXYBARBIEThe lack of your arms around me leaves me alone and full of pain. With out your lips against my skin, I'll shed tears with out end. So you had left you promises broken And my heart shattered forever more ********************************************************************** [color black Hay naku! tigilan ko na nga ito...Baka saan pa mapunta ang sentimiento ko dito ah!..But really, I can relate to this, even though this blog is mainly for my very special friend..Thanks ROXY! ELZ
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Yes, Cat..Commitment is something most women are looking for, and you count me as one of those..And that is why, if I know that a man is not willing to give me that commitment (not necessarily to marry me), then, I think the relationship has no future...Well, that's just me...I don't play games, and I don't want to be in a limbo either, and that's exactly what happened to me last year...So, I made the first move to put an end to that "special friendship" that I had...At least, we are still civilized with each other these days...It was painful at first, but hey, life goes on... If U were mine I'd be yours 4ever!
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Shattered, crashed, devastated ... that's me !!! If U were mine I'd be yours 4ever!
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Can anybody tell me ... where do I go from here? If U were mine I'd be yours 4ever!
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With my broken heart ... lives a broken dream, AMS tell me how do I live without this dream now? Everything is all so final now ... ELZ
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Shattered, crashed, devastated ... that's me !!! ELZ
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Can anybody tell me ... where do I go from here? ELZ
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1/9/2008 12:50 pm |
hello....pls allow me... i may not be privy to whatever has happened...but as i feel pain and heartache in the air, may i be allowed to share this with all of you...? "grieve for what u lost, grieve if u must...but only for a while.. dont deny yourself the realization of it. For it will be quicker to forget once your heart learns to cope with it. Pain is truly a hard reality to deal with but our world doesnt really need to stop spinning at the onset of one heartache. Seek refuge from friends, listen to their wisdom or just maybe feel their love...now is the truest time to seek and feel and give and share sincere compassion and understanding..." " now is the best time to feel the truest essence of a friendship. " MARIE
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Mukhang dinibdib na mabuti ni Tracie ang lahat CAT...I am here for all of you...Nandito rin ang mga kababaihan na very supportive sa atin, even though the real situation is "vague" to them...They know it's all about "losing someone to somebody else." ELZ
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Andito lang kami CAT, just let us know how can we help...WE CAN BE YOUR CLOWNS..I am trying to put a smile on "our" faces amidst all these things...It will come to pass... ELZ
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Ako naman, in my entire life, 2 times na akong nasabihan ng :"YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART..." I've been reviewing all the anatomical parts of heart and until now, I cannot figure which "microscopic part of the heart is very special"...I'm sure, you know what I mean...PROMISES?..Wala na sa vocabulario ko yung "USAPANG LALAKI"...Ano yun? ELZ
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I know that it is very hard to smile when your heart is aching...Parang may "lockjaw" tayo...Believe me...Ang hirap...But we'll take it one day at a time...TULUNGAN TAYO DITO...Meron pang ibang magbibigay ng moral and emotional support... ELZ
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hello....pls allow me... i may not be privy to whatever has happened...but as i feel pain and heartache in the air, may i be allowed to share this with all of you...? "grieve for what u lost, grieve if u must...but only for a while.. dont deny yourself the realization of it. For it will be quicker to forget once your heart learns to cope with it. Pain is truly a hard reality to deal with but our world doesnt really need to stop spinning at the onset of one heartache. Seek refuge from friends, listen to their wisdom or just maybe feel their love...now is the truest time to seek and feel and give and share sincere compassion and understanding..." " now is the best time to feel the truest essence of a friendship. " ELZ
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hello....pls allow me... i may not be privy to whatever has happened...but as i feel pain and heartache in the air, may i be allowed to share this with all of you...? "grieve for what u lost, grieve if u must...but only for a while.. dont deny yourself the realization of it. For it will be quicker to forget once your heart learns to cope with it. Pain is truly a hard reality to deal with but our world doesnt really need to stop spinning at the onset of one heartache. Seek refuge from friends, listen to their wisdom or just maybe feel their love...now is the truest time to seek and feel and give and share sincere compassion and understanding..." " now is the best time to feel the truest essence of a friendship. " ELZ
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Hi there Trish!...I know that you are full of love and that you are enjoying your vacation there with SAM!....Hayz!...give our warm hugs to him as well, but keep the most of our love..from FFF to both of you....BEST OF LOVE AND LUCK SWEETIE! ELZ
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Aren't we all clowns sometimes? We try to smile when we hurt and try to make people happy even when we're not ... ~Life is blooey only if U make it one~
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May I quote this AMS? The healing process.... Oct 23, 2007 11:53 am Mood: pensive, 546 Views ...can be long and hard, ...it may take sometime. ...but for hearts that are never officially entwined ...it might be a good idea to just drink some red wine. ...the bittersweet taste may linger a while, ...but hold on dear heart, some memories may keep you forever an exile. ...is it the heart that really got hurt? ...or is it the ego that was broken apart? ...whatever it takes to heal the aches and mend the wounds, ...just rescue this heart in no time soon. ~Life is blooey only if U make it one~
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May I quote this AMS? The healing process.... Oct 23, 2007 11:53 am Mood: pensive, 546 Views ...can be long and hard, ...it may take sometime. ...but for hearts that are never officially entwined ...it might be a good idea to just drink some red wine. ...the bittersweet taste may linger a while, ...but hold on dear heart, some memories may keep you forever an exile. ...is it the heart that really got hurt? ...or is it the ego that was broken apart? ...whatever it takes to heal the aches and mend the wounds, ...just rescue this heart in no time soon. ~Life is blooey only if U make it one~
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Gosh this is profound, deeper than the deep blue sea, but I'm sure AMS can tackle this and explain it all to us!
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Aren't we all clowns sometimes? We try to smile when we hurt and try to make people happy even when we're not ... ELZ
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May I quote this AMS? The healing process.... Oct 23, 2007 11:53 am Mood: pensive, 546 Views ...can be long and hard, ...it may take sometime. ...but for hearts that are never officially entwined ...it might be a good idea to just drink some red wine. ...the bittersweet taste may linger a while, ...but hold on dear heart, some memories may keep you forever an exile. ...is it the heart that really got hurt? ...or is it the ego that was broken apart? ...whatever it takes to heal the aches and mend the wounds, ...just rescue this heart in no time soon. ELZ
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May I quote this AMS? The healing process.... Oct 23, 2007 11:53 am Mood: pensive, 546 Views ...can be long and hard, ...it may take sometime. ...but for hearts that are never officially entwined ...it might be a good idea to just drink some red wine. ...the bittersweet taste may linger a while, ...but hold on dear heart, some memories may keep you forever an exile. ...is it the heart that really got hurt? ...or is it the ego that was broken apart? ...whatever it takes to heal the aches and mend the wounds, ...just rescue this heart in no time soon. ELZ
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Any relationship built on physical intimacy alone as a reckoning factor does not last and never passes the test of continuity.Also relationship that come about with foundations of untruthfulness and lies never lasts and in additon to disappointments and frustrations, brings legitimate anger too. Physical intimacy is very vital in any relationship. However, if a couple do not develop emotional attachment strong enough to support it, then "BONDING" will never take place.Hence, two people easily find themselves "DETACHED". ELZ
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Jack, thank you so much for your words of wisdom..Most people find it too deep to comprehend, but it covers how a relationship can "thrive" successfully. Truth and Honesty, as well as commitment are very important in any relationship. And sometimes, the truth may hurt. However, eventually, it will set us "free". Yes, there will be several "wrong people" who'll be a part of our lives, and we sure learn good lessons from them. That's the way we should look at it. And sometimes, we should be "thankful" that they became part of our lives...In the end, it was all for our BEST interest. ELZ
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Gosh this is profound, deeper than the deep blue sea, but I'm sure AMS can tackle this and explain it all to us! ELZ
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And you are our CONSULTANT! ELZ
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This makes us PERFECT CLOWNS... ELZ
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Frank Sinatra - Send In The Clowns Lyrics (S.Sondheim) [Recorded June 22, 1973, Hollywood] [Spoken intro] "This is a song about a couple of adult people who have spent, oh, quite a long time together, till one day one of 'em gets restless and decides to leave. Whether it's the man or woman who left is unimportant. It's a breakup." Isn't it rich? Are we a pair? Me here at last on the ground and you in mid-air Send in the clowns Isn't it bliss? Don't you approve? One who keeps tearing around and one who can't move But where are the clowns? Send in the clowns Just when I stopped opening doors Finally finding the one that I wanted was yours Making my entrance again with my usual flair Sure of my lines Nobody's there Don't you love a farce? My fault, I fear I thought that you'd want what I want, sorry my dear But where are the clowns? Send in the clowns Don't bother they're here Isn't it rich? Isn't it queer? Losing my timing this late in my career But where are the clowns? Send in the clowns Well, maybe next year ELZ
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Booh, hooh,hooh,hu, hu!... ...Waaahhhhhhh! ELZ
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I'M SORRY IF I LET U DOWN. Be swift 2LOVE make haste 2B kind  DUnLop
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I didn't mean to love you, But I guess I always will; Guess you'll always be inside me, Kind of warm and soft and still. I didn't mean to need you, And I didn't want to cry; I never meant to lose you, I never meant goodbye -- I never meant goodbye. Be swift 2LOVE make haste 2B kind DUnLop
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Ooooopppsss! Sowee, Jelo..I was carried away. It's not easy you know...(wiping my tears now) ELZ
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I'M SORRY IF I LET U DOWN. ELZ
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I didn't mean to love you, But I guess I always will; Guess you'll always be inside me, Kind of warm and soft and still. I didn't mean to need you, And I didn't want to cry; I never meant to lose you, I never meant goodbye -- I never meant goodbye. ELZ
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I didn't mean to love you, But I guess I always will; Guess you'll always be inside me, Kind of warm and soft and still. I didn't mean to need you, And I didn't want to cry; I never meant to lose you, I never meant goodbye -- I never meant goodbye. ELZ
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It's okay CAT...At least, we find "consolation" with the fact that, it was not "THE TOTAL ECLIPSE OF THE HEART" ELZ
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Thank you for understanding everyone Jesy...And we love you too! ELZ
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Roxy, in this life, sometimes, LOVE is a vicious cycle. It's like like this:" I love you, you love her, she loves somebody else " kinda.When two people love each other and lose that love, and if one finds another love, the other have the tendency to find someone else too, even though both persons still have feelings for each other...Hayyzzz! ELZ
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Oh, Jesy, Jesy!...I know, I know, you are just amongst several of them, my dear. But we have to accept the fact that things, no matter how good they are, have to end. Good memories are here to stay, but eventually, they will fade away...in time.. ELZ
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Oh! so, we have another blog entry here...ahhh! LOVE, LOVE, LOVE...Some are lost, and some are found...Some stay for a long time, and some are just passing by. ELZ
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But the funny thing is, we probably are no longer in constant touch with our previous loves, but I am sure, some of our members here can attest to the fact that the relatives and family members (significant others) of our Ex's are still communicating with us..HAVE YOU EVER WONDER WHY? ELZ
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Naku mga kapatid ko..Alam ko ang mga pamimighati ninyo...Galing na ako diyan. I know how it feels, and I do understand. One good thing about it, is that it will slowly heal, and you'll feel a lot better. FRIENDS ARE HERE TO COMFORT AND SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER. ELZ
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Bayau, I do care, most of us care, if love is here today, but gone tomorrow. But you are right, let's just make the best or most out of it...Thank you for visiting! ELZ
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Cat, they say, the only way to go when you are UP is DOWN... And when we are DOWN, we don't want to stay that way. We will strive to go UP again. It's okay, things will come to pass. It can only get better, because, for as long as we live, we will learn to LOVE AGAIN. ELZ
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 Ok ka lang ate  You're my no.1 ...
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Ok ka lang ate ELZ
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And for this reason, I made mention that even though a person is already in a relationship or worse, married, there are those who "feel strongly" for their ex's, but that doesn't mean that their present loves are not important. I dunno how else to explain it, but it does happen..Fortunately for me, once that love fades, it's gone! ELZ
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It can only get better each day. ELZ
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It's just the initial feeling of a loss, something that used to be there but now isn't there regularly anymore. It is coincidence that I felt the same way too, but we've both moved on now. ELZ
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Absolutely CAT!..You know, I'd like to add that "mutual understanding" or MU can be something that two people strongly feel for each other even though they are not physically together, but they are in each other's thoughts and hearts all the time. Others call it PLATONIC. ELZ
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blogs after blogs women express their heartaches, pain and failed love relationships, a few men does...many just move on to their lives...in many occasions women always blame their men for their misfortunes in a relationship...i think women should talk more about the art of pleasing and educating their men to stay longer in a relationship...
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blogs after blogs women express their heartaches, pain and failed love relationships, a few men does...many just move on to their lives...in many occasions women always blame their men for their misfortunes in a relationship...i think women should talk more about the art of pleasing and educating their men to stay longer in a relationship... ELZ
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Yes, dear! strong women like us can do it!...NOthing can bring us down for long..Thank you! ELZ
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things are more bearable when we get pains off our chest. It's a relief to let go of that ill feelings. LET IT GO! ELZ
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   You are correct ... its Y2K8, time to quit our Purita and Dolores drama! We need to face life & love's ups and downs with courage. You're my no.1 ...
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You are correct ... its Y2K8, time to quit our Purita and Dolores drama! We need to face life & love's ups and downs with courage. ELZ
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Kilig to the bones, that is what it is...I agree with you dear...totally agree with you. ELZ
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