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godiva0824 65F
2730 posts
1/2/2008 7:45 am
The Odds Of Being Single For A Long Time...

Yeah, I know...It's been a long time that I've been by myself, meaning, not literally living in or together with a man/partner. I've gotten so used to doing things by myself, making decisions all by myself, and being carefree. I don't have to ask permission to go somewhere, or to confer with anyone to make major purchases and the like. I don't have to cook for someone or feel obligated to render house routines like cleaning up (after everyone's little or huge mess), being at home on time, just because someone is waiting for me...And one thing more, I don't have to be all the time looking attractive and swekxy just so, my partner will not be tempted to look elsewhere and carry out all his other fantasies (Duhhhh!...thinking negative here.. )...But, wait a minute!

Isn't it that I've been waiting for someone who will sweep me off my feet? Isn't it that I've always wished for someone to be my lifetime partner in everything that I do? Isn't it that I've always wanted someone to be with me through my ups and downs, and never to say "goodbye" ? Isn't it that I've always dreamt of having somebody to be with me for all seasons and for all reasons?

So, what is there to be afraid of?...I DUNNO!...All I'm saying is: It's been a very long time that I've been single, and I've gotten so used to that status, I might have a very hard time readjusting to a new "partnered life"...But, well, let's just wait and see. I don't mind working it out if the person who's gonna come along will be very understanding, caring, loving and most of all, willing to make that most important transition with me in this life of mine...

The next question is:...WHO IS THAT SOMEONE?


ELZ


Yanie24w 43F

1/2/2008 10:20 am

Happy New Year Sis Dee...
We are starting fresh now and I hope that we will
find what we are searching and long for...
Anyway I wish you just the best

Be happy sis no matter how hard life may seem at times...


Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught...


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/2/2008 11:41 am

Marian, sweet sister...I know I am not alone in this hope and anticipation of a better lovelife, or over-all life...We both wanted the past year to go, and now that 2008 is here, nothing can stop us from dreaming of sweet dreams, and hoping against hopes that yes, there is a new beginning and that we are going to start a new life...I wish you the best as well, dear sister...God bless us both and shower us with THE GIFT OF LOVE...Take care!

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/2/2008 1:25 pm

    Quoting  :

Hello there Gem!..I missed you this past weekend..I know that you were very busy with your visitors and i'm sure that you had a great time..Good to see you back here in bloglandia...

Thank you for your kind words...I appreciate you as my original and truly a MALAMBING person and a friend...Just hanged up the phone after talking to Marie...

ELZ


ImAllHeartNSoul 64F

1/2/2008 1:36 pm

same wishes here my friend....

you deserve to find someone special as you are a special person too Dee....pareho kami ni Gems ng aming dream for you....

to find that someone who will sweep you off your feet this year....

ok, kayong mga gustong magapply, you can course your resumes to us ni gemma .. better submit a good one, ok?

...as we want only the best for our friend DEE...

MARIE


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/2/2008 5:13 pm

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    same wishes here my friend....

    you deserve to find someone special as you are a special person too Dee....pareho kami ni Gems ng aming dream for you....

    to find that someone who will sweep you off your feet this year....

    ok, kayong mga gustong magapply, you can course your resumes to us ni gemma .. better submit a good one, ok?

    ...as we want only the best for our friend DEE...
Oh wow! Now, I've got agents...free of charge ha?...Isn't it wonderful to have genuine friends who will "screen" the "applicants"?...Thanks a lot Marie...I will just take it one day at a time..my dear...I know that I can count on you..and Gems..

ELZ


ImAllHeartNSoul 64F

1/2/2008 9:35 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Oh wow! Now, I've got agents...free of charge ha?...Isn't it wonderful to have genuine friends who will "screen" the "applicants"?...Thanks a lot Marie...I will just take it one day at a time..my dear...I know that I can count on you..and Gems..
ours is a good kind of friendship DEE...and friends look out for friends...

a person with a good heart deserves the kind of happiness that others are blessed with..

most probably, there may need to be a waiting period...as God will try to find the one most perfect for you my friend.

God knows exactly the true wishes of our hearts... and HE will grant those wishes in his most proper TIME... that i am very sure of.

..as these are the true wishes of my heart too..

MARIE


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/3/2008 3:06 am

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    ours is a good kind of friendship DEE...and friends look out for friends...

    a person with a good heart deserves the kind of happiness that others are blessed with..

    most probably, there may need to be a waiting period...as God will try to find the one most perfect for you my friend.

    God knows exactly the true wishes of our hearts... and HE will grant those wishes in his most proper TIME... that i am very sure of.

    ..as these are the true wishes of my heart too..
And I am blessed with this kind of friendship that we have Marie..By the way, check your YM...Take care!..It's time to go back to work now...I love you friend!..Thanks for the long chika yesterday...We are both well informed

ELZ


ImAllHeartNSoul 64F

1/3/2008 12:41 pm

hi Dee... got your YM msgs....hhhmmm....i wonder who that is too...

MARIE


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/3/2008 8:05 pm

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    hi Dee... got your YM msgs....hhhmmm....i wonder who that is too...
And I got your long YM messages too...Hayz! heto, puro pa rin tayo mga single...But, we are okay with it naman diba? better to be happily single than to be miserably partnered...

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/3/2008 8:07 pm

    Quoting  :

It's okay Gem..At least naman, you are blissfully married..oh di ba?

ELZ


vermain 45F
111 posts
1/4/2008 6:04 am

Happy New Year AMS!

I love U just the way U R.


ImAllHeartNSoul 64F

1/4/2008 6:14 pm

    Quoting  :

thats true gems....

not that hindi kami napapansin ni Dee...pero as in namimili lang mabuti... right DEE?? pero may kasabihan...kapilipili, napunta sa...... BUNGI!! wwaahhhh

ayaw ko ng bungi.... !!!

MARIE


ImAllHeartNSoul 64F

1/4/2008 6:17 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    And I got your long YM messages too...Hayz! heto, puro pa rin tayo mga single...But, we are okay with it naman diba? better to be happily single than to be miserably partnered...
sorry about it being tooooooo long Dee , i got carried away...only coz i dont want to hear you getting hurt.

despite all of those...we are ok and good pa din naman.. stay the way you are my friend...

MARIE


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/4/2008 6:43 pm

    Quoting vermain:
    Happy New Year AMS!
And I have a strong feeling that you are having a very HAPPY NEW YEAR too, Ams Mini!

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/4/2008 6:44 pm

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    hi Dee... got your YM msgs....hhhmmm....i wonder who that is too...
Your guess is as good as mine...Hehehehehe..Wala lang!

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/4/2008 6:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Gem! simulan na daw natin yung New Year's REsolution natin, na once a month na lang mag-Buffet....

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/4/2008 6:46 pm

KAYA MO KAYA GEM? THAT MEANS, YOU ARE GOING TO COOK FROM NOW ON...

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/4/2008 6:46 pm

    Quoting  :

I have no doubts about that....

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/4/2008 6:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Gem! Pag ako naging officially doubled, ikaw ang unang makakaalam dito sa USA, tapos sa Pinas si Marie at si Coy...

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/4/2008 6:51 pm

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    sorry about it being tooooooo long Dee , i got carried away...only coz i dont want to hear you getting hurt.

    despite all of those...we are ok and good pa din naman.. stay the way you are my friend...
Oh di ba?...Kaya nga I don't have anyone right now, Marie...Kasi, who wants to get hurt di ba?...I'm happy already at the start of New Year...at lalong magiging Happy for the days to come..Just You Wait and See!...Uyyyyyy!...And it doesn't have to be because of "someone special"...

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/5/2008 2:59 pm

    Quoting  :

Alam mo, may tama ka talaga diyan Cat!...Thank you..I know that you wish me well, dear friend...

ELZ


ImAllHeartNSoul 64F

1/5/2008 4:28 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Oh di ba?...Kaya nga I don't have anyone right now, Marie...Kasi, who wants to get hurt di ba?...I'm happy already at the start of New Year...at lalong magiging Happy for the days to come..Just You Wait and See!...Uyyyyyy!...And it doesn't have to be because of "someone special"...
what you just said is very true...very true indeed....its really a choice that we have made for ourselves...at least for the time being lang naman...

MARIE


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/5/2008 6:08 pm

    Quoting  :

And it's even better if it's admitted in the OPEN...

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/5/2008 6:08 pm

    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    what you just said is very true...very true indeed....its really a choice that we have made for ourselves...at least for the time being lang naman...
Que sera, sera, di ba Marie?

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/6/2008 5:53 pm

    Quoting  :

Hello there Ed! Musta na ang Mission Impossible mo kay Marie and vice-versa?...Please fill me in...

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/6/2008 5:54 pm

Naka! Baka, kamukat-mukat nito..Single Forever tayong tatlo ni Marie!

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 4:10 am

    Quoting  :

Meron talaga...Kaya lang tumigil na siguro..kasi busy "sila" ngayong mga panahong ito..hehehehehhe....

ELZ


godiva0824 65F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 5:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Malalamigan pa lang Gem, ...

ELZ