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godiva0824 63F
2896 posts
9/18/2021 6:20 am
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.....



I just posted in FB yesterday the topic of PRIDE, and it really dawned on me how people, specially women are very particular about their looks. They use all sorts of apps, filters, and what have you to_ make them look prettier than they actually do. Talking about confidence and self esteem. But why? Why can't we focus more on our inner beauty than the outside? Why do we need the " LIKES" and s as a sign of people's approval, rather than them reading the depth of our captions in the blogs? Have you noticed that people in FB looks straight on the pictures and not reading the captions at all? Is that a sign that people are mostly judgmental by just looking at the outside? Your opinion please...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
9/18/2021 6:22 am

Love me for me, and not what you want me to be....

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
9/19/2021 4:50 am

I have to edit the blog again... FFF always remove some words...

ELZ


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
9/22/2021 9:57 am

To me such modification and editing of the photos just shows how women can be vain. Looks like they don't want to grow old and accept the fact that physical change is more important, than what is inside. Or that it could also be a way of updating or letting people know they're up to the trends of time, hence keep exploring the apps that would make them more beautiful. It could also point out that women will not be satisfied of what they have or what they have become. Where I belong? Am being me, up to you to take it or leave it.


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
9/23/2021 6:16 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore2:
    To me such modification and editing of the photos just shows how women can be vain. Looks like they don't want to grow old and accept the fact that physical change is more important, than what is inside. Or that it could also be a way of updating or letting people know they're up to the trends of time, hence keep exploring the apps that would make them more beautiful. It could also point out that women will not be satisfied of what they have or what they have become. Where I belong? Am being me, up to you to take it or leave it.
You are absolutely right Jane...For me, what you see, is what you get...with or without make up, underdressed, overly dressed. Lost/gained weight, sexy, chubby...It is what it is...I don't even use filters...One of the rare times I posted a snap chat edited by my BFF's daugther, I even looked like a cartoon character...

ELZ


Torwar 61M
11 posts
10/21/2021 3:37 pm

You are what you are... yet it does not meant we should not try to improve ourselves.


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/3/2021 7:33 am

    Quoting  :

Oh Wow, too! How are you John? if I recalled it right, is that your name? So happy to see you back...I hope you will revisit this website more often. We keep this place alive...Thank you for coming!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/3/2021 7:34 am

    Quoting Torwar:
    You are what you are... yet it does not meant we should not try to improve ourselves.
Well, I wear make up regularly, but NO to plastic surgeries or botox injections

ELZ


Torwar 61M
11 posts
11/9/2021 10:22 am

My name is Jack, I don't think I was using this site before, but I'm not 100% sure, who knows?

I'd never take any botox injections, I know people who have and they do not look very nice, especially after a while.


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
2/9/2022 7:19 am

    Quoting Torwar:
    My name is Jack, I don't think I was using this site before, but I'm not 100% sure, who knows?

    I'd never take any botox injections, I know people who have and they do not look very nice, especially after a while.
Hi Jack! thanks for visiting and posting comment on my blog...I hope you are staying safe...Please visit again...

ELZ