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To all the good guys... and the women who overlooked them Where are all the good guys… Warning… This blog could prove to be offensive to you if you are a girl. But before you get pissed off, please be honest with yourself and check your motive for being upset. Check your heart in the light of truth. Sometimes truth hurts and you want to lash out at it. But if you're honest with yourself you can be mad at no one but yourself. If this isn't you then you're the exception. I stumbled across the answer! I figured it out! Read on… Good/Decent Guys aren't actively engaged in the game of seeking out a girl. They aren't into the games. This guy is everything every girl wants in a guy. He's nice, sweet, caring and generous. These guys do exist, but they're not as easy to spot. Instead the girls notice the guys who are putting on a show. They light up like Vegas at night time. Come on ladies, honestly, what would you pick? Vegas? Or a little bar? I know in your head, Vegas immediately pops up. Vegas is a show of Smoke and Mirrors. You are in awe of the display but guess what? There comes a time when you must go home. It doesn't last. What would you prefer, a public show that's for everyone? Or a private show that's all yours? "Love is Magic, Magic IS NOT love." To be quite honest most good guys are getting shit on a daily basis. They are ignored, or given some attention until the girl is bored. She drops him for the next, more exciting guy who has a better show. It appears that the average girl's priorities are all wrong. They go for the assholes who mistreat them. All the while the guy who will treat them right gets pushed off into the distance. He will eventually become frustrated and resentful. He slowly transforms into one of those assholes himself. The world is with one less good guy. To be honest a lot of good guys feel like they are on the edge of this. They are tired of being last. They don't want to be jerks. They are not into the games. Some would rather just give up than become a jerk. Sure they can mistreat girls and use them. But it's not what they want. Sure they don't have to go home alone after work. But they choose to because that is not what they are about. Ladies, stop saying you want a good guy when all you're going to do is trash them. Yes the bad guy is going to appear exciting. You're going to love being with him at first. After time you will love him regardless of how badly he ends up treating you. And you will stay with him because you "love" him. You trapped yourself. Good guys know how to treat a lady. They might seem dull compared to the bad boys that put on the magic tricks but if you actually took the time to get to know them, any good guy would shine brighter than any of those other guys. And to those good guys on the verge of crossing to the dark side, don't. Not all women have overlooked you. There are still women like me who appreciate you  Honesty is the best policy.... but insanity is a better defense. |
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For some people, excitement is almost always equivalent to defying rules and deviating from the norm Honesty is the best policy.... but insanity is a better defense.
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Thanks for the post hun, And it is nice to know that there are still out girls other than me who appreciate the few of the good guys that were left Honesty is the best policy.... but insanity is a better defense.
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cliche, Rob, cliche  Honesty is the best policy.... but insanity is a better defense.
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3/23/2008 2:48 pm |
Don't agree at all. Opposites attract more than anything I have ever seen. It's always that way. It brings balance to the force..
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Being trapped in a bad relationship is very dissimilar from the polarities of two magnets. It is true that there are some relationships that work despite the contrast between the two parties. However, the difference in both individuals are not of question here. My emphasis is mainly on women who dissent how she is being treated by the "bad guy" which she feverishly chose in the first place. Honesty is the best policy.... but insanity is a better defense.
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Aray...my first internet mahal was a pinoy,but I was used..nieve,lol. Others have hurt me also,so I become at times "Anakain Skywalker" to "Darf Vader" from resentment and fear of being used and hurt again. You try to be a good kaibigan,a good mahal..but it doesn't always work,the dalagas go for makulit guys I have seen. It is crazy. Appreciate the post. Salamat.
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