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bebong2005 56F
12258 posts
12/5/2008 10:29 am
(un)flappable

I rather live with my own idea of myself than someone else’s idea of me.


~ Jolielaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
12/5/2008 4:31 pm

that is the base of self-esteem!


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/5/2008 5:22 pm

i need more than restrengthening the foundation of my core
lately mr. sulei

~ Jolielaide


sugaronly 47F

12/5/2008 5:36 pm

its nice to be freeeeeeeeeeee

The most beautiful thing can not b seen & touched it must felt with heart


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/5/2008 7:30 pm

    Quoting sugaronly:
    its nice to be freeeeeeeeeeee
happy birthday dear sugar

~ Jolielaide


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/5/2008 7:31 pm

    Quoting  :

that's a total freedom
being who you are

~ Jolielaide


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/5/2008 7:32 pm

i myself gave up the two most valuable people in my life for the sake of freedom
and look where i am now

~ Jolielaide


smiley1957 66F

12/5/2008 10:22 pm

that is true...
and no one should even change us
but they...must adjust to us

i am what i am
we are what we are



bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/6/2008 4:54 am

we all want to cherish our own individualit(ies)
pity there is not much room for it anywhere (beside the obvious)
one needs to conform to be part of the herd

on the other side, we all want to belong
the problem is, individualities and belonging don't always go hand in hand. something got to give.

~ Jolielaide


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/6/2008 11:33 am

    Quoting  :

i appreciated the support coming from you guys
especially this time that i needed it the most
no matter what other thinks
i do still have a heart

~ Jolielaide


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/6/2008 11:36 am

    Quoting  :

that is one thing which i never lost
the unshakeable belief in HIM
only to God i will answer myself to
if only it could be that easy in reality

~ Jolielaide


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/6/2008 11:39 am

He talked about his faith, his very own belief,
as if it were infallible, all else would bring us grief.
Yet faith itself involves a risk, it simply is a hope
of what we wish would happen, though with failure we can't cope.
How can a hope be set in stone, unshakable it be
God sits in judgment on his throne and sees the misery.

H N

~ Jolielaide


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/6/2008 6:25 pm

very true
i consider myself lucky
sometimes

~ Jolielaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
12/7/2008 4:19 pm

    Quoting bebong2005:
    i need more than restrengthening the foundation of my core
    lately mr. sulei
you can do it, bebz!
and u know that!
and I am sure of it!
soon u will be blooming again
!



bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/7/2008 4:36 pm

i think i may need some helping hands

~ Jolielaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
12/8/2008 2:06 am

    Quoting bebong2005:
    i think i may need some helping hands
all hands are reaching for you!
like trees branches proudly standing
kissing the face of the moon!
had they given the chance,
they wont let you down!



bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/8/2008 4:28 am

is there no second chance?

~ Jolielaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
12/8/2008 3:52 pm

yes, if.......
..............
..............
..............
..............
..............
you wont ask for a 3rd one!



bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/8/2008 6:43 pm

how about the first that never been

~ Jolielaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
12/9/2008 3:29 am

    Quoting bebong2005:
    how about the first that never been
that is exactly what is meant,
in 2 of my comments of today!
one of them at "at this moment"
the one before the last!
and the other one,
u have to find it!



bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/9/2008 9:25 am

i think i already did
you know (surprisingly) sometimes i could really read
and sadly most of the times, i have to pretend i couldn't

~ Jolielaide


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/9/2008 9:27 am

'Situation Number one
Its the one that's just begun
But evidently its too late'


~ Jolielaide


jane82 110F

12/9/2008 9:59 am

Yey Ate B.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/9/2008 11:55 am

hi jane
how's christmas shopping
two years ago i went to kent to do my spree
simply love the authentic tea houses that serving sinful desserts

~ Jolielaide


jane82 110F

12/9/2008 4:48 pm

mmmm as far as food and teas are concerned, me and the bf have been cutting down on junk foods and tea. I started to give him some support esp. with our tea addictions.

So far he has done a better job than me. Surprise surprise. He has better control of urges in general.

I shop for Christmas and special occasions pretty much the whole year around when I see something good for a particular someone on discount and hide in the back of my wardrobe for the year. This way I have less to buy on the run up to Christmas day.

Et tu? Ca va?



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/10/2008 5:50 am

comme ci comme ca

shopping the whole year round for gifts probably is the best idea to avoid the hustle and bustle of the holiday season.

D. is trying to cut on his cookies addiction
he is trying to replace them with fruits
wonder how long it gonna last

~ Jolielaide