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Blogs > rndyman > True North


rndyman 63M
276 posts
5/15/2009 8:53 am

Last Read:
5/29/2009 9:03 pm
LDR"S

Ldr's are hard. I had one Ldr in my past that lead to marriage. We were only 350 miles apart but that distance was enough that we could not see each other everyday. There was no chatting over the internet back then so it was phone calls, cards, letters and anything else we could think of. I remember thinking how my ear was going to change its shape to the shape of the ear piece on the phone! lol. We had a plan. Everything was great but then one day she decided that it was time to move the plan forward and take it to the next level and live together. Of course I agreed and with in a week we were living together. And it was like a honeymoon. But in time cracks appeared and she found someone else to love.

So how do you know when you are in an LDR that you will love living with the person? How do you know that their daily routine won't drive you nuts? You don't I guess. You just trust and hope. But you have to invest so much time to ever find out. Well in my latest LDR we never made it to that stage. But I think if we had we would've loved living together even more. But who knows?

poweroflove3 64F

5/16/2009 6:20 am

 You just have to find out...
[I God is pure love...


amorata 59F

5/16/2009 8:15 pm

 Patience,Trust and Prayers and Hope are my guide to this ldr.But not 100% sure if in the end it will work but that's ok,at least we tried


rndyman 63M
465 posts
5/16/2009 8:16 pm

 I agree power. Ty


rndyman 63M
465 posts
5/16/2009 10:23 pm
    Quoting amorata:
    Patience,Trust and Prayers and Hope are my guide to this ldr.But not 100% sure if in the end it will work but that's ok,at least we tried
Yes and never give up trying is key also. Thanks amorata.


name_withheld 60F

5/17/2009 11:41 am

 it looks like you have it figured out how LDR could work best. Congratulations!

<<<<-- back to the cave to figure out mine LOL!


rndyman 63M
465 posts
5/17/2009 4:29 pm
    Quoting name_withheld:
    it looks like you have it figured out how LDR could work best. Congratulations!

    <<<<-- back to the cave to figure out mine LOL!
Oh no no..... I am just a student who is willing and trying to learn. I even gleamed some advice from your blog. TY very much Namewithheld!


rndyman 63M
465 posts
5/17/2009 11:08 pm
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