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fantasiamore 66F
10368 posts
2/22/2018 7:58 pm

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2/26/2018 3:50 am

AFTER 50 YEARS

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This is about women's fears on dwindling faculties upon reaching the age of fifty (50) . A time when most women fret much about their appearances, like how to control or minimize wrinkles, how to deal with sagging skin and eye bags. In short, how to look younger again. There are a lot to think and question about and of them is, "would i be able to earn enough by now, to last me during my retirement or when i get il?" Although there is a husband to take care of that, it is better off having one's to work with and spend for one's needs.

Reaching 50 old is this event a woman fusses much about. They act and feel that they are about to face a cataclysm. A question in mind is that of being able to continue working or return to work after a sabbatical leave that required a long absence from work because family needs and chores must be a priority. What about one's finances? A simple rule to follow is to build on that retirement funds, don't forget the amenities for yourself. Another prudent decision besides making sound financial decisions, is to maintain and keep your health. The future is too volatile to trust that everything will go right. When it doesn't make sure you are not caught unprepared and unstable.

Are you ready?



“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


fantasiamore 66F
10986 posts
2/22/2018 8:04 pm

I am now 66, let's talk about my fear...that i can't eat the food I crave for and see...that i cannot go around anymore as my feet will and used to allow me..hmmm...maybe, that i will stop looking younger or that i can no longer go back to the old times...neither can i no longer do what routines, made my everyday...let's see what is yours?

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


fantasiamore 66F
10986 posts
2/22/2018 8:06 pm

another fear? would i still be capable of loving? the only way to find out maybe is to try again...lol

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


ccdomonic 67M
223 posts
2/22/2018 11:42 pm

you can eat anything you like in moderation so nothing missed there if in smaller quantities you will appreciate them more
nowadays there are other forms of transportation if needed
u can go back to the old times whenever you like its called remembering
the last one only you and time can answer that

remember you are as old as you feel or who you are feeling


fantasiamore 66F
10986 posts
2/23/2018 4:02 am

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    you can eat anything you like in moderation so nothing missed there if in smaller quantities you will appreciate them more
    nowadays there are other forms of transportation if needed
    u can go back to the old times whenever you like its called remembering
    the last one only you and time can answer that

    remember you are as old as you feel or who you are feeling
very bright response cc....
i will remember everything you said...
have a great weekend!!

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


eb1209 57F
28210 posts
2/23/2018 7:02 am

Well, turning GOLD is indeed, very special. It also heralds a lot of changes in a woman's life. Physical change is a given. But emotional ones maybe a bit challenging, specially to those who have had a very interesting twists in their pre-golden lives...Like, being once married, and now, single.

Just call me ELZ


fantasiamore 66F
10986 posts
2/23/2018 5:53 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Well, turning GOLD is indeed, very special. It also heralds a lot of changes in a woman's life. Physical change is a given. But emotional ones maybe a bit challenging, specially to those who have had a very interesting twists in their pre-golden lives...Like, being once married, and now, single.
when i turned fifty i didn't have any care in the world because that was the time i retired from earning and my children's turn to take care of me. as what they all have decided on..the many years i have struggled through to raise them well and have grown into someone independent was the legacy i passed on..they were not born of a silver spoon so they had to strive well to be educated and be someone..it was a hard life for me but all didn't go to naught..am happy how they all turned out..so now, i can be free of worries and stress, except of course about my other half...but today, i don't care a bit..as it's about me and how to be happy with what i am and have!

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


TessRb 58F
7257 posts
2/24/2018 6:39 pm

Tajane,

Just came back here again today. Wow, turning 50 was an eye opener for me. Survived the ordeal. But, now turning 59 in a couple of months down. I am really scared. Healthwise. all this aches and pains coming out. Strange. God is my only hope...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


fantasiamore 66F
10986 posts
2/25/2018 5:13 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Tajane,

    Just came back here again today. Wow, turning 50 was an eye opener for me. Survived the ordeal. But, now turning 59 in a couple of months down. I am really scared. Healthwise. all this aches and pains coming out. Strange. God is my only hope...
glad to say tess that you are not alone feeling physically inept these days....i also feel the same way physically..but i have trusted the wonder cure of herbs and plants that can be available at hand now...i go organic much as when they are being sold at organic markets..but not so many organic markets around..and i need to go further north or south to access them...nonetheless am enjoying what is natural and organic...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.