Blog : I Am So Proud Of Myself......

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4/25/2018 10:07 am

I Am So Proud Of Myself......

I just arrived from a recent visit to NYC due to an overdue reunion with my former co-workers and a promised meeting with a High School classmate who is visiting there for the first time and requested for us to meet. The reason I did not visit the Big Apple for a couple of years is that I do not want to create a havoc of personal insecurity to someone who is now the GF of a HS secret admirer. And so, I made sure that there will be no meeting in the eye with that person, and I went about my plans and more. I truly enjoyed the pressure-free visit this time. However, on my last day, this particular late-admit admirer phoned me and asked if we could have coffee or dinner in Manhattan after his work in New Jersey. Of course, we are still friends, but I do not want the now GF to feel ill knowing that her man is going to meet me without her, or did he intend to keep it a secret from her? Nevertheless, I politely said, "NO", and gave the alibi that I was using the last day in the Big City as my rest day, and I can save my energy since I was flying back to Texas the next morning. A year before that, this same guy admitted to me that the reason he did not pursue me was that I live down South, and he is not in favor of the Long Distance Relationships ( LDR ). Oh sure! whatever! But I did not give him the liberty nor the luxury of him thinking that I was in a way still interested in him..What for? He already made that decision, and I do not want to hurt anyone's feelings just because I can sense that he likes me more than his present GF...What a dork!...But, I am so proud of myself....I could have gotten out with him just for the old times...But, NO!
Just call me ELZ

eb1209

4/25/2018 10:12 am

I will never sell myself short to anyone, no matter how I like them..nahhhh!
Just call me ELZ

ccdomonic 73M

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4/26/2018 3:25 am

congratulations you did the right thing
cheers cc

eb1209

4/29/2018 12:45 pm

ccdomonic

sorry for the delayed response, I had trouble accessing FFF. But yes, you are right. I cannot give him that egoistic satisfaction.
Just call me ELZ

eb1209

4/29/2018 1:02 pm

Yes, Jane. I cannot stomach hurting any woman for that matter who is still in a relationship with the guy. I am never desperate and as of this time, I still have the capability to turn away men at my discretion. Sorry for the delayed response. You know the deal. I was able to access FFF from my celfone but not on my laptop.
Just call me ELZ

eb1209

4/29/2018 8:05 pm

I do not know why I cannot quote on anyone's comment using my laptop..
Just call me ELZ